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Rape is still rape, even marriage. Agree or Disagree?

☠ Live Free Or Die ☠ 2012/07/27 22:42:10
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Right now I'm having a debate with this guy who thinks that marriage equals consent and that rape in marriage doesn't exist. -______- What a creep. Rape is rape, even in marriage.
Marital rape is still rape
Yeah, I know, I left a word out. Bring on the hate! lol
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  • eddie 2012/11/14 20:13:25
    Agree!
    eddie
    I think rape I quite sexxy
  • P. Sturm 2012/09/14 20:17:02
    Agree!
    P. Sturm
    Rape is not sex, it's violence.
  • macy 2012/08/08 01:28:17
    Agree!
    macy
    +1
    The fact that there is even a debate about this is sad
  • Jevelinc.com 2012/08/07 10:15:29
    Agree!
    Jevelinc.com
    +1
    Even when married, both partners have the right to say NO to having sex for any reason. If the other partner force them to have sex against their will it is RAPE, pure and simple. NO means NO 100% of the time!
  • krystal.altman.9 2012/08/04 21:12:20
    Agree!
    krystal.altman.9
    +1
    No means no. Idgaf if she's you're wife, that doesn't mean she's your sex slave. You still must respect her as a woman. If she doesn't want to bang you then accept it, doesn't mean she's cheating on your, just means she's not in the mood for any ass banging tonight.
  • studiobrat PWCM AFCL 2012/08/02 15:26:43 (edited)
    Agree!
    studiobrat  PWCM AFCL
    +1
    "No" means "NO" and that goes for the husband or partner.

    NO
  • TakenAdvantageOf 2012/08/01 06:02:12
    Agree!
    TakenAdvantageOf
    I was raped at Heathrow Airport, 26 pounds for a toasted sammich & a drink. I still feel violated.
  • Carson 2012/07/31 05:59:33
    Agree!
    Carson
    Depending on what you think rape is. If they are drunk and she is not saying no it is not rape and or intoxicated for that matter(both of them) and she is noit saying no then it is not rape. Other then that im sorry but it is.
  • Divya 2012/07/31 01:26:38
    Agree!
    Divya
    +1
    agree,, nothing should be forced,,,, if married so wat, no one should force for sex...
  • VERYwiseguy 2012/07/31 01:04:06
    Agree!
    VERYwiseguy
    +1
    Simple No means no.And rape is violent not sexual in nature.(loving)
  • C-ZAR™, Emperor of the PHÆT 2012/07/31 00:42:45
    Agree!
    C-ZAR™, Emperor of the PHÆT
    +2
    Rape IS Rape, even in marriage
  • Melicious Kiss of PHAET 2012/07/31 00:26:12
    Agree!
    Melicious Kiss of PHAET
    +3
    And men have been prosecuted for raping their wives.
  • jOkEsOnYoU 2012/07/31 00:23:06
    Agree!
    jOkEsOnYoU
    +2
    It's not a difficult concept to grasp. No means no even in marriage.
  • Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥ 2012/07/30 16:15:20
    Disagree!
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    But mostly because I want a third option.

    If marriage is by covenant (and not all of them are) then it is consensual.
    If it is consensual (and not all of them are), it is not rape.
    The problem is, society has screwed up the idea of marriage so that many people don't know what they are getting themselves into.
    I will only marry by covenant and consent.
    That said,
    Violence has no place in marriage. And the other person's feelings should always be considered before doing anything together.
  • Vieuphoria Dave Sa... 2012/07/30 18:36:04
    Vieuphoria
    +3
    You told me to check this out. I did. You suggesting that forcing someone to have sex with you is ok? and is condoned by marriage?
  • Dave Sa... Vieuphoria 2012/07/31 00:31:41
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    When did I say that?

    I said marriage is (supposed to be) a consensual covenant between a man and a woman to work together for life's purposes, including sex. The timing is up to both of them together.
  • Yuki ~ ... Dave Sa... 2012/07/31 00:54:33 (edited)
    Yuki ~ ♦Lion King of PHÆT♦
    +5
    So you're basically saying that sexual violence dissolves a marriage?

    You're not answering the real question-- that people who are legally married are not given a free pass to rape.
  • Dave Sa... Yuki ~ ... 2012/07/31 01:41:23
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    No. Nothing should be able to dissolve a marriage if it was entered into with eyes open.

    So if the wife does not want to have sex but doesn't say anything, is that rape?
  • Yuki ~ ... Dave Sa... 2012/07/31 02:01:20
    Yuki ~ ♦Lion King of PHÆT♦
    +5
    What do you mean?

    Give me an example.

    Consent is more than just verbal. If, for example, the wife is lying in bed (Napping? Long day?), and the husband tries to get her to have sex with him, and she's pushing him away or clearly trying to disengage-- and then he goes ahead and has sex with her anyway-- yeah, that's rape.
  • Dave Sa... Yuki ~ ... 2012/07/31 04:50:07
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    I gave you an example and you gave me a different one.
  • Yuki ~ ... Dave Sa... 2012/07/31 16:27:15
    Yuki ~ ♦Lion King of PHÆT♦
    +4
    No, you didn't give me an example.

    Silence is not consent.
  • Dave Sa... Yuki ~ ... 2012/07/31 16:29:39
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    Sorry. "... but she had sex anyway ..."
  • Yuki ~ ... Dave Sa... 2012/07/31 17:17:27
  • Vieuphoria Dave Sa... 2012/07/31 09:17:07
    Vieuphoria
    +2
    Yes. But that wasn't the question was it. What would your answer to the actual question be?
  • Dave Sa... Vieuphoria 2012/07/31 16:32:17
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    Have you stopped beating your wife? Yes or No please.
  • Vieuphoria Dave Sa... 2012/07/31 17:05:19
    Vieuphoria
    +3
    I don't have a wife? In fact I don't ever really feel like I want to get married.

    but again... you haven't answered the question?
  • Dave Sa... Vieuphoria 2012/07/31 17:49:29
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    That was not Yes or No.
    Likewise, I did not care to answer Agree or Disagree.
  • Vieuphoria Dave Sa... 2012/08/01 05:45:32
    Vieuphoria
    +1
    In a marriage. If a man forces his wife to have nonconsensual sex with him, is it rape?
  • Dave Sa... Vieuphoria 2012/08/01 14:55:21
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    If a woman refuses (ever) to have sex with her husband, is she unfaithful?
  • Vieuphoria Dave Sa... 2012/08/01 15:39:34
    Vieuphoria
    +1
    Answer my question. Answer THE question.


    and no it is not unfaithful.
  • Dave Sa... Vieuphoria 2012/08/01 15:45:38 (edited)
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    I answered THE Question.

    You were unhappy with it.
  • Vieuphoria Dave Sa... 2012/08/01 15:57:20
    Vieuphoria
    +1
    you still haven't answered the question.

    In a marriage. If a man forces his wife to have nonconsensual sex with him, is it rape?
  • Dave Sa... Vieuphoria 2012/08/01 16:06:32
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    What kind of force are we talking about?
    I already said that violence has no place in marriage.
  • Vieuphoria Dave Sa... 2012/08/01 16:13:58
    Vieuphoria
    +1
    Force is pretty self explanatory. Don't be so obtuse.
  • Dave Sa... Vieuphoria 2012/08/01 16:20:27
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    I am used to seeing words used in different ways than I would use them here on Sodahead. The fact that this Question is even here proves my point.
  • Vieuphoria Dave Sa... 2012/08/01 16:23:45
    Vieuphoria
    +1
    A woman is not an object for use. Regardless of whatever vows one takes.
  • Dave Sa... Vieuphoria 2012/08/01 16:39:21
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    Agreed.
  • Vieuphoria Dave Sa... 2012/08/01 17:13:21
    Vieuphoria
    +1
    Then you shouldn't be condoning rape.
  • Dave Sa... Vieuphoria 2012/08/01 18:08:34
    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
    I do not condone rape any more than I condone hate.
    But both are named at times when they are not what the name implies.
  • poet4justice 2012/07/30 16:03:09
    Agree!
    poet4justice
    +2
    is all about power not love

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