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Would you forgive a friend if they had an abortion?

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  • +11 Bobbi Fleckman June 11, 2008 20:29:05
    Bobbi Fleckman

    Yes, i would be disappointed that she did not find a solution, but i would forgive.

    It's not for me to forgive her, in the first place.
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  • brittney 7 days ago
    brittney

    No... I would never be able to. I would still talk to her but it would never be the same.

    Depending on her situation(how she got pregnant and why she had an abortion), I'd still talk to her. be there for her.

    But she'd be a murderer in my eyes, and I would definitely never look at her the same way.
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    Maine Guy October 26, 2009 08:13:41 (edited)
    Maine Guy

    Yes, its her choice.

    What's to forgive? It's a woman's choice, it's a legal medical procedure and it's no one else's damn business. I had a friend once who aborted and looking back on it now, she made the right decision.
    choice forgive womans choice legal medical procedure elses damn business
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    Jessica☮ August 26, 2008 23:48:25
    Jessica☮

    Yes, its her choice.

    It's not my baby in the first place so I can't be mad at her for something that's completely her choice and up to her. It's not my decision to make for her so if she decides to do it then I'm fine with it.
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    jade August 12, 2008 19:22:07
    jade

    Yes, i would be disappointed that she did not find a solution, but i would forgive.

    eventually i would....it would take a WHILE thoughh...
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    alex August 05, 2008 19:54:46
    alex

    Yes, its her choice.

    Hell yeah, if she didnt want the child then id be happy for her to have one.
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    maegan June 28, 2008 18:33:59
    maegan

    No... I would never be able to. I would still talk to her but it would never be the same.

    u should never use this as a solution to any problem no matter wat
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    ;-/ June 27, 2008 02:15:12
    ;-/

    Yes, its her choice.

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  • +1
    !m My 0wn p3rs0n.... June 25, 2008 20:36:51
    !m My 0wn p3rs0n....

    Yes, i would be disappointed that she did not find a solution, but i would forgive.

    I would forgive her eventually but i would still be mad at her for the rest of our life!!!!!!!1
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    Gerard's Little Vampire June 25, 2008 03:02:07
    Gerard's Little Vampire

    I would forgive her, but she is a murderer now and god won't forget.

    im not to forgive her... god is
  • Evan Gerard'... June 28, 2008 15:37:04
    Evan
    But would you call her a murderer to her face??
  • Gerard'... Evan June 28, 2008 19:11:17
    Gerard's Little Vampire
    yeah i prolly would
  • Evan Gerard'... June 29, 2008 02:14:46
    Evan
    So you would be friends with a murderer?
  • Gerard'... Evan June 29, 2008 17:13:48
    Gerard's Little Vampire
    idk that would take some thinking for me
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    Chelsea June 25, 2008 02:42:25
    Chelsea

    Yes, its her choice.

    I would be disappointed that she wasnt more careful but we would move on, its her choice and i dont have to live with what she has done.
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    phillip June 24, 2008 23:27:50
    phillip

    Yes, i would be disappointed that she did not find a solution, but i would forgive.

    this was the closest answer to what I wanted to give. It would not be my place to forgive her. It is between her and God. She would need to seek God's forgiveness and then also to forgive herself. It would be up to me has a friend to give her any support that she needed.
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    2 Be Announced June 24, 2008 18:43:42
    2 Be Announced

    Yes, its her choice.

    yah totally, it's the mother's decision! Besides it wouldn't be my place!
  • +3
    JAY June 24, 2008 05:05:06
    JAY

    Yes, its her choice.

    Fuck yes.it's up to the woman! you may not understand the situation.
  • +1
    mitch June 24, 2008 03:23:20
    mitch

    Yes, i would be disappointed that she did not find a solution, but i would forgive.

    i would forgive her but it also depends on the situation...if she was only a teen and KNEW she was not responsible enough to be a parent just yet well adoption would have been a better choice but she obviously found that maybe it was easier not having to worry about the childs' wellbeing...if she was an adult and could handle parenthood than i might find it a little harder to forgive, but it was her choice and maybe didn't want to have to have a child without another parent for him/her...still she did murder a competly innocent lifeform and for no GOOD reason than that would upset me..
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    Rosalie June 24, 2008 03:06:15
    Rosalie

    Yes, its her choice.

    And help her get through it and get over it.
  • Evan Rosalie June 28, 2008 15:37:58
    Evan
    Great answer.
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    jyl June 24, 2008 00:48:31
    jyl

    No... I would never be able to. I would still talk to her but it would never be the same.

    Ill try but Im totally against it and she shouldnt have done it if she didnt want the baby
  • Evan jyl June 28, 2008 15:38:39
    Evan
    But is it YOUR place to tell her that?? And also, have you ever been in that situation??
  • jyl Evan June 29, 2008 19:06:18
    jyl
    well keep ur pantsd shut and I wont have to be
  • Evan jyl June 29, 2008 20:10:12
    Evan
    Since when would that be any of your business??
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    jyl Evan July 01, 2008 23:30:41
    jyl
    it isnt but if you do it then it can be
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    Evan jyl July 02, 2008 00:51:40
    Evan
    What someone else does behind closed doors has nothing to do with you kid.
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    jyl Evan July 09, 2008 18:06:43
    jyl
    well be a killer have fun
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    muffy June 23, 2008 23:11:47
    muffy

    Yes, its her choice.

    ' yeah' cuz if she not ready to have a kid.it's her pussy.lmao
  • +1
    alex muffy August 05, 2008 19:57:41
    alex
    best answer yet lmao
  • +4
    .... June 23, 2008 23:03:10
    ....

    Yes, its her choice.

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  • +1
    Sarah F... .... June 30, 2008 16:31:18
    Sarah Films the Clouds
    I agree~ That is a great way to put it.
  • +2
    butterfly June 23, 2008 22:55:41
    butterfly

    Yes, i would be disappointed that she did not find a solution, but i would forgive.

    it is ultimately her choice and although it's sad i have no say in it...she did what she felt was best and i should respect her choice wether i agree with it or not.
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    Candie June 23, 2008 22:55:04
    Candie

    No... I would never be able to. I would still talk to her but it would never be the same.

    she should have just kept the kid and given it up for adoption but to kill a baby that hasent even seen light before...thats just cruel
  • +3
    caitlin June 23, 2008 20:23:57
    caitlin

    Yes, its her choice.

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    Teesha June 23, 2008 19:59:50
    Teesha

    Yes, its her choice.

    I LOVE ABORTIONS! I've had 3 now and the doctor says I probably won't be able to have kids, which sucks because I really wanted to get another abortion!
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    mitch Teesha June 24, 2008 03:26:15 (edited)
    mitch
    oh my god how could you do that to an completly innocent lifeform and and for you to LOVE them and have 3!! and to get pregnant just to kill it..it is sickning!! and what kind of docter would seriously want you to have kids anyway???
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    Teesha mitch June 25, 2008 17:30:18
    Teesha
    You don't know what I had to do to that doctor to get that free abortion! Let's just say it wasn't very christian of me!
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    mitch Teesha June 25, 2008 23:48:05 (edited)
    mitch
    YOU ARE SOOO DISGUSTING!!!!
    ...THAT MAKES ME SOO FUCKING PISSED THAT PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE EVEN ALIVE...UGHHH... ITS PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT SHOULD BE CALLED SERIAL KILLERS.... YOU MAKE ME WANT TO PUKE!!!!!!!!!
  • +3
    Teesha mitch June 26, 2008 16:58:20
    Teesha
    Whoa, relax honey. With all the booze and drugs I take, it wouldn't have survived anyway. I just spared those suckers some pain.
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    mitch Teesha June 26, 2008 17:50:16 (edited)
    mitch
    still you couldv'e had them and given them to a family who wouldn't have caused them any pain at all....you could also have some self-control for at least 9 months for gods sake!!
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