Would having a Gay president bother you?

Then IF those things YOU are the ONLY sign of someone being gay then I suggest your evidence is very weak becuase several other of our presidents also fall into your defination of who is gay. For example, Chester Arthur was known a a stylish dresser his entire life but no one would suggest he was gay becuase he had a wife and I beleave a daughter, too. Also Glover Cleveland was known to be a stylish dresser but again he was not gay do to the fact he fathered several children from women MUCH younger than himself--I think his wife was 35 younger than himself but I could be wrong on that point. Also I remind you that James Buchancan was actaully engaged to be married when he was younger but the woman died a few weeks before the wedding. Naturally he was grief stricken after her death and he resolved never to marry. However, you may have a point that several of our presidents had rather strange sex lives--I think Abraham Lincoln's relationship with Mary Todd is a classic point since clearly they both suffered mental illiness. Then there is the caseof Thomas Jefferson who claimed to hate slavery but refused to free his slaves especially one slave named Sally Hemmings who he father children with over the years. And finally, my favorite, Andrew Jackson-a fellow Tennesseen-he was ALWAYS into fighting someone and I think he sort of liked fighting for its own sake, too. He married a woman named Rachel who was married to another man and living alone in Nashville, TN. Clearly "Old Hickory" loved Rachal even though she smoked a pipes but he married her anyway.Well when the newspapers found out she had two husbands --one of the newspapers called her a whore in print which enraged "Old Hickory" who challenged the editor to a duel since this violated his code of conduct as a man. Needless to say Andrew Jackson simply shot and killed that editor in a fair duel outside of Nashville-Tn.

Yes, we do focus too much on sex lives of famous people. I must admit I forgot one who is rather strange in my humble opinion at least by modern standards of conduct--James A. Garfield---long before he became president he worked on an old fashioned Mississippi River Boat as the "muscle" for a bunch of whores ( women who charges money for sex from men and sometimes even other women : NOT my ex girlfreind)-meaning he "protected them from other men and the law" .As a young man, James A. Garfield knew he needed money to advance his learning. So at the age of 16, he struck out on his own, drawn seaward by dreams of being a seaman, and got a job for six weeks as a canal driver near Cleveland. Illness forced him to return home and, once recuperated, he began school and shortly after that he joined the Disciples of Christ Church and spent the rest of his life as something close to a religous person even to the point of he acting like a religious nut in my opinion.
We truly have had some odd people as president of the USA and yes some of them are boarderline crazy in my opinon both Reagan, Clinton, Harding, Wilson ( I feel very strongly he was crazy) , LBJ, and Nixon even though they actaully did Some good for the country.I hate to tell you this I have a feeling Obama isn't that far outside of that group even though he is still better than most of them in my opinion in terms of his mental health anyway and personal actions but I am still voting for GOP this fall due to my unhappiness over his foreign polices.