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Woman Blinded by Acid Spares Attacker the Same Fate: Would You Have Done the Same?

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On Sunday, an Iranian woman blinded in an acid attack seven years ago halted the "eye for an eye" punishment for her attacker. She told CNN, "Such revenge is not worth it."

In 2008, Majid Movahedi was convicted of pouring a bucket of acid on Ameneh Bahrahmi after she had rejected his unwanted advances for two years.

Bahrahmi and Movahedi met in 2002 when they attended the same school. Movahedi spent the next two years harassing Bahrahmi, even threatening to kill her if she did not agree to marry him.

In November 2004 Movahedi followed Bahrahmi as she left the medical engineering company where she worked. When Bahrahmi turned around, Movahedi threw a bucket of acid at her, blinding her and disfiguring her face.

At the time of the trial, Bahrahmi demanded that her attacker be sentenced to suffer the same fate. The court agreed, citing provisions in Islamic law.

However, on Sunday Bahrahmi stopped the punishment just minutes before it was carried out. She said Movahedi had already been given anesthetic.

According to Bahrahmi, two men were instrumental in helping her choose to spare Movahedi. One, is a doctor at a clinic in Spain. The other, Amir Sabouri, is an Iranian who helped her get medical attention.

Bahrahmi says Sabouri hoped that she could show the world that Iranians are kind and forgiving.

Despite everything she has gone through, including more than a dozen facial surgeries, Bahrahmi remains hopeful about the future.

"I always see myself as someone who can see and sometimes see myself in a beautiful wedding gown, and why not?" she said.

What about you? If you were in Bahrahmi's position, would you have spared your attacker the same fate?

Read More: http://www.cnn.com/2011/WORLD/meast/07/31/iran.aci...

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  • Noobcake 2011/08/01 00:02:04
    Undecided
    Noobcake
    +10
    I would like to think so but I don't know... Possibly I would be so angry as to want to exact revenge on him without even the legal permission to do so.

    She is incredible.

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  • Tobe 2011/09/15 17:08:33
    Undecided
    Tobe
    +1
    I don´t think so, though I just might..
  • Sheffin 2011/08/24 10:09:04
    Undecided
    Sheffin
    +2
    How sad is that... check the photo's face and current face.
  • Bettina 2011/08/23 12:29:43
    Yes
    Bettina
    +1
    I would like to think so. Of course, you never know...
    This is a nice example of how Muslim men view women and women's right to choose, by the way. They see females as objects to be claimed and used.
  • Brosia 2011/08/06 04:57:57
    Undecided
    Brosia
    +2
    I don't know that I would have been able to be that strong. But I can hope that others can learn to move past the easy anger I would have in her situation.
  • Katherine 2011/08/05 16:41:03
    No
    Katherine
    +1
    He should have life in prison. You don't go around harassing people, threatening them, then throwing acid in their faces. It's uncivilized and barbaric. So is letting someone go free who would do this to someone.
  • Pamu 2011/08/03 18:02:45
    Yes
    Pamu
    +2
    a good gesture though his act must be punished heavily, as he has no rite to throw acid on her face.
  • Kris Says Hi 2011/08/01 22:49:18
    No
    Kris Says Hi
    +2
    Honestly, an eye for an eye isn't good enough for me.
  • wicked soda boy 2011/08/01 21:19:42
    Undecided
    wicked soda boy
    +3
    It would depend if he is currently locked up for life without parole. I don't believe this man should be walking free in society ever. I find this barbaric business of stalking and acid throwing totally disgusting.
  • Killing... wicked ... 2011/08/02 02:18:12 (edited)
    Killing Joke
    +2
    Are you serious? Life without parole? These crimes happened in Iran!! That great bastion of women's rights. In Iran, innocent victims of violent rapes are routinely disbelieved, ridiculed, demonised and then stoned to death!! The criminal walks free. In the case of this poor lady, it's a miracle that she was not framed as the instigator and stalker of that pathetic piece of worthless filth. Apparently, she has also been harassed and intimidated by that worthless dirt-bag's family. Her life is terrible right now. I hope she moves to a civilised society, far away from the primitive hell-hole in which she finds herself at the moment.
  • wicked ... Killing... 2011/08/02 02:43:22
    wicked soda boy
    sarcasm?
  • eyemall 2011/08/01 21:18:53
    No
    eyemall
    +2
    This what happens under Sharia Law and yes Iran is one of the countries that pratices it. If the practice of Sharia Law was not used there it would not be necessary for this womean to forgive him. Is this the kind of practices we want to see here in America? If States let Sharia law be included into the American Judicial system it will occur more and more.
  • Bear 2011/08/01 20:40:58
    Yes
    Bear
    +1
    As long as her attacker was serving a life sentence
  • Julie 2011/08/01 20:36:50
    Undecided
    Julie
    +1
    I don't think I would have been okay with someone getting acid thrown in their face even if it was legally sanctioned, but I don't know. I think she is a very brave woman, and an inspiration. And I respect her humanity. The sad commentary is noting how many people here on SodaHead actually think this violent retribution is okay and good. We are quickly losing what makes us human being and becoming nothing more than junkyard dogs at each other's throats.
  • Haley 2011/08/01 20:30:21
    No
    Haley
    +2
    That's extremely forgiving of her, but if I was her, I'd want the guy to go throw what i want through too. An eye for an eye
  • Melody 2011/08/01 20:09:46
    No
    Melody
    +4
    Uh, yeah, I'm not just going to let it go if someone makes my face look like an Orc
  • Juanb 2011/08/01 19:30:21
    Undecided
    Juanb
    +2
    i want to say yes but i Don't think so

  • nat75 2011/08/01 19:26:10
    No
    nat75
    +4
    i probably wouldnt be so forgiving. he followed and harassed her for 2 years because she wouldnt marry him? then throws a buck of acid in her face? it doesnt say anywhere that he even had remorse. did he go to prison for 3 years? that isnt long enough if that's all he gets. she is a lot more compassionate woman than i would be in the same situation
  • EDWARD G 2011/08/01 19:25:38
    No
    EDWARD G
    +2
    He should have gotten death
  • Melizmatic 2011/08/01 19:22:43
    Undecided
    Melizmatic
    +4
    What an inspiring woman.

    Talk about being the bigger person.
  • mae 2011/08/01 19:15:32 (edited)
    No
    mae
    +3
    Sorry, but NO. He has learned no lesson at all, except that he got off free. He could care less. He is now free, and able to go out and do this again.
  • qt8625 2011/08/01 19:09:23
    No
    qt8625
    +4
    No. She is a better person then I am.
  • Torchmanner ~PWCM~JLA 2011/08/01 19:08:13
    No
    Torchmanner ~PWCM~JLA
    +2
    We CAN forgive, but there is a debt that MUST be paid. If there is no penalty, there is no civility.
  • nobiggov 2011/08/01 19:01:52
    No
    nobiggov
    +3
    An eye for an eye when the harm was done intentially.
  • bronx 2011/08/01 19:00:38
    Undecided
    bronx
    +3
    I really cannot say I could be so virtuous. She will be reminded every single day of what he did to her and the horror she felt and went through. She should be condoned for her forgiveness.
  • V~POTL~PWCM~JLA 2011/08/01 18:54:42
    Undecided
    V~POTL~PWCM~JLA
    +2
    I don't know what I would do. Then again, I wonder why Movahedi was willing to risk the wrath of Islamic justice. It's not going to be like the Casey Anthony or OJ Simpson trials.

    Although forgiveness is a fundamental principle of most religions, I hope I never face the test at that level.
  • Killing... V~POTL~... 2011/08/02 02:29:06 (edited)
    Killing Joke
    Hahahaha. How would Casey Anthony and OJ fare in Muslim trials in Iran?? Casey would be raped every day and found guilty. OJ would be safe from rape (Iran executes sodomists) but he would also be found guilty.
  • B 2011/08/01 18:41:47
    No
    B
    +3
    I hate to say that I would not be as forgiving. I can't imagine the pain she had to endure both physically and mentally. Props to her for being a million times more compassionate then most would.
  • David 2011/08/01 18:31:53
    No
    David
    +1
    This person is making a typical mistake of conflating classes of events. If SHE had taken it upon herself to blind her attacker, it would have been a case of revenge. Since Islamic law provided for civil jurisprudence to assess the punishment, civil authority carrying it out would have been justice. Well, frankly, civil authority carrying out such a punishment would have been justice no matter what, and would have served society as well, as at least the person who had done such a heinous thing would, in his blind state, have been highly unlikely to have done such a thing again. As it is, what real disincentive does he--or do others of his ilk--have to not engage in such barbarous acts? None.
  • twocrows 2011/08/01 17:53:35
    Undecided
    twocrows
    +5
    it seems this Muslim woman practices the teachings taught by Jesus [one of the people Islam follows - though some deny that that is true]. I like to think I could follow her example though I can't truly say that I would since I haven't been in her position, thank goodness.
  • COMALite J twocrows 2011/08/01 18:17:35
    COMALite J
    Reminds me of the Quakers (or was it Mennonites?) who, a few years ago, forgave the man who opened fire in one of their schools, killing several of their children.
  • twocrows COMALite J 2011/08/02 02:55:17
    twocrows
    oh, yes, I remember that now that you mention it. I think it was the Mennonites. I felt the say way then that I do about this woman. I hope I would have that much forgiveness in my heart.
  • cant beleive walkers gov 2011/08/01 17:52:52
    No
    cant beleive walkers gov
    +2
    she is a bigger person then me. i would exacted revenge a lot sooner
  • Brendakp 2011/08/01 17:22:49
    No
    Brendakp
    +1
    Whew, this is a tough one! What this woman did is amazing. Not so sure I could be that forgiving. He ruined her face and life! Hopefully, he'll get some kind of punishment.
  • Mog of War 2011/08/01 17:22:45
    Undecided
    Mog of War
    +1
    "Movahedi had already been given anesthetic..." It does not seem she had actually forgave him, so much that she did not see how it would be just, seeing as medical attention would be immediately on hand for him, and he would not feel the nearly the same amount of pain...
  • CODE 11 2011/08/01 17:02:35
    No
    CODE 11
    +1
    give me the bottal..show me direction to throw.
  • Prime Time Lime 2011/08/01 17:00:11
    Yes
    Prime Time Lime
    +1
    I am 100% against the eye for an eye attitude,and would have done the same.Revenge is immature and does nothing than to make the situation much worse for myself.
  • Jo 2011/08/01 16:51:42
    No
    Jo
    +3
    While I admire her for this, I have to say I would have dumped it in his crotch.
  • MrsJJS Jo 2011/08/01 20:07:09
    MrsJJS
    +2
    Good idea...then he couldn't reproduce. He had no idea how to treat women and would have passed his warped view of women onto his sons and/or daughters.
  • Tinman 2011/08/01 16:47:54
    No
    Tinman
    +2
    That person would be dead!
  • moviebuff 2011/08/01 16:47:26
    Undecided
    moviebuff
    +1
    It depends on the state of mind I would be in. It's been 7 years and she has accepted the situation and just wants to move on. I'm just glad this did not happen to me. I honestly don't know what I would do. I think she is a wonderful human being and only good things will come her way. As for that man, well life has a way of working itself out and he is going to get his, but not by her hand.
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