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Virginal young girls in South Africa 'kidnapped and forced to marry older HIV-positive men to cure them of the disease'

Chaya2010 2012/05/28 15:03:25

Innocent young girls are being 'kidnapped' and forced to 'marry' older HIV-positive men because of the myth that having sex with a virgin will cure them of the disease.

An investigation into South Africa's rural Eastern Cape revealed how children as young as 12, from the Xhosa people, are being pressured into premature nuptials.

CNN discovered how the tradition of Ukuthwala, translated to 'to pick up' or 'to take', was used as an excuse to justify the adbuctions.


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It said that, in many cases, the 'kidnappings' were consented to by the youngster's parents in exchange for cash.

But a campaign to educate locals in the illegality of their actions is said to be paying off, the channel's 'Ukuthwala - Stolen Innocence' documentary details.

Timothy, a man they interviewed, said there was simply no awareness about what was being done.


He said: 'We apologise for that as we did not know we were breaking the law.'

World Aids Campaign field worker Nombasa Gxuluwe, who was born and raised in the area, dedicates herself to try and end what is in effect the buying and selling of child brides.

She told CNN: 'There's a myth if you sleep with a young girl who is a virgin and as a man you are HIV positive then HIV can be cured. That's why they are focusing on these young girls.'



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But she said that the men, who were often widowed by HIV, simply ended up infecting their new brides too.

In the documentary, made by WAC, a girl from the village of Lusikisiki tells her story.

She said: 'The lady from next door called me and asked me if I wanted to get married. I said no. She said if I refused they would take me by force and beat me up.


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'The next night the lady came to my house and took me to the river. There were seven people waiting there.

'They made me go with them to the house where the man lived. I couldn't believe this was happening to me. That I was getting married.

'There was this old man in the room and he told me, I paid cattle for you and whether you like it or not you are my wife.

'He picked me up and put me on the bed and undressed me. He also got undressed and tried to force himself on me.

'I fought him but he pushed me down and forced my legs open. That's when he slept with me.'

But the film also reveals there is hope for some of the victims, with a refuge opened so they can be integrated back into the community.

The Palmerton Care Centre, in the grounds of a KwaCele village Methodist Church, sees social workers counselling girls.

But it is not an easy transition, because many have by then been shunned by their family and friends.

Nombasa said that the campaign seems to be working, in that 11 men in the past year have been charged with abduction and under-age sex.


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  • Bali 2012/05/28 15:38:35
    Bali
    +1
    Ummmmmm, that won't work will it?
  • Chaya2010 Bali 2012/05/28 16:41:13
    Chaya2010
    These primitive people with their beliefs actually believe it will. Its a huge problem in South Africa and the government seems to be doing little to tackle the problem.
  • Bali Chaya2010 2012/05/28 21:41:43
    Bali
    +1
    spent a ton of time there yrs ago....they can be a bit barbaric to say the least.
  • Chaya2010 Bali 2012/05/28 21:47:24
    Chaya2010
    I volunteered after university working with a HIV/AIDS project after I graduated. I think its a beautiful country, most of the people I met were lovely but there is a real horrible under current there and as un PC is this sounds the ANC don't act when it comes to crime or educate people (natives) of their more primitive beliefs. Its sad because the country has so much potential but I envisage it being another Zimbabwe within 20 years. I would like to be wrong.
  • Bali Chaya2010 2012/05/28 21:49:21
    Bali
    +1
    doubt you are wrong...and yes it is unfortunate.
  • Chaya2010 Bali 2012/05/28 21:51:32
    Chaya2010
    Its really heart breaking because I really want that country and people to do well. I just don't know what's wrong with 'African' governments and by that I mean sub-Saharan ones.
  • brother... Chaya2010 2012/07/04 22:26:46
    brother Allie
    +1
    you should complain to jacob zuma about that
  • Chaya2010 brother... 2012/07/15 00:00:08
    Chaya2010
    I kills me. I really liked my time ins SA, just little faith.

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