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Toronto couple to raise their baby 'without gender' and allow their baby to choose it's own sex in future; what do you think?

MJ-Petite Angelle du Nord... 2011/05/26 15:11:23

A Toronto couple have revealed that they are raising their third child as ‘genderless’ in order to allow the baby to decide on its own gender.

Kathy Witterick and David Stocker, who already have two sons aged five and two, say four-month-old Storm should be allowed to decide his/her gender when he/she grows up.

Only the couple, their sons, a family friend and two midwives present at Storm’s birth know whether the baby is a boy or a girl, the Toronto Star reports.

Their sons, Jazz, five, and Kio, two, are encouraged to make their own decisions. The boys, who like to have long hair and wear dresses, are often mistaken for girls.

They are “unschooled” – a movement of homeschooling which allows children to plan their own days without tests or homework.

Mrs Witterick, currently a full-time mother, told the newspaper: “When the baby comes out, even the people who love you the most and know you so intimately, the first question they ask is, ‘Is it a girl or a boy?’”

Mr Stocker, a teacher, said: “If you really want to get to know someone, you don’t ask what’s between their legs.”

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  • Cliff 2011/05/26 16:07:59
    Cliff
    +5
    How enlightened. Although I must say, if I were to ask someone to go out on a date with me, I would really prefer to know "what's between their legs". Call me olde fashioned.

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  • Heidi 2011/09/20 23:57:39
    Heidi
    if your kids are born boys treat them as such till they decided other wise don't start out treating them like they don't have a gender you just going to screw them up down the road

    kids born boys treat wise treating gender screw road drag queen
  • I NEED A HORSE 2011/08/17 10:47:09
  • Lizzy 2011/08/16 21:08:09
    Lizzy
    A pair of crackpot parents, these children will grow up so confused + be ridiculed, what is going on in peoples heads, the mind boggles.
  • Ray the Dog! 2011/08/16 13:53:14
    Ray the Dog!
    +1
    Stupid,impractical and highly unfair on the child ,who will probably grow up completely confused and bewildered as no doubt his/her parents already are. unfair child grow completely confused bewildered doubt hisher parents confused people
  • ren 2011/06/06 23:24:48 (edited)
    ren
    well if your talking about the physical gender it's basically decided at birth except for the rare hermaphrodite here and the . If your talking about there emotional and mental gender or otherwise what they think there gender is than all the power to them.
  • ernest debrew 2011/05/30 00:20:32
  • ernest ... ernest ... 2011/05/30 00:22:04
    ernest debrew
    A good example is Chastity Bono now known as Chaz Bono.
  • Myrle Hulme 2011/05/27 08:24:17
    Myrle Hulme
    +1
    It won't thank them, and I say it as I don't know if its a boy or girl, hogwash
  • Cat 1017 2011/05/26 21:34:18 (edited)
    Cat 1017
    Is this some kind of ridiculous experiment....Some people shouldn't have kids.....
  • Zolfie™ 2011/05/26 20:40:32
    Zolfie™
    +3
    So they're not telling people which sex the baby is? ... What's the big deal? They're going to be treated like a kid ether way... so I don't think it matters... at least not until the hormones kick in...

    But if those boys keep wearing dresses even when they get 10 and older then they might be heavily teased / bad mouthed by people who aren't used to seeing males of that age do that kind of thing.
  • Pixie·ŸŸMzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠
    I think it is a interesting idea and I hope it works for them.
  • Texas Johnny 2011/05/26 18:55:25
    Texas Johnny
    +1
    They have just given this kid a one way ticket to Prozac Town! This child will be so screwed up it will be tragic!
    kid ticket prozac town child screwed tragic stupid liberals
  • EDWARD G 2011/05/26 18:17:55
    EDWARD G
    Do they have Protective Services in Toronto?
  • MJ-Peti... EDWARD G 2011/05/27 20:11:24
    MJ-Petite Angelle du Nord...
    Yes; it would be very interesting to hear what they say about that....
  • Birthpangs 2011/05/26 18:17:22
  • jay 2011/05/26 18:07:25
    jay
    +2
    that is friggin ridicules!
    friggin ridicules
  • FYI 2011/05/26 17:32:54
    FYI
    +2
    Reading this helps you understand why the Canadian National anthem is called "Oh,Canada".
    reading helps understand canadian national anthem ohcanada
  • MJ-Peti... FYI 2011/05/27 20:12:04
    MJ-Petite Angelle du Nord...
    +1
    Hey, I'm the author of this post, but lol, I agree on that one; it should be illegal to do that.
  • shenendoah 2011/05/26 16:32:51
    shenendoah
    +3
    Put a bullet in my head...now I've heard everything. These parents are certifiable. They shouldn't be allowed to reproduce.
  • AlyWhite 2011/05/26 16:15:09
    AlyWhite
    +4
    I think this will cause more problems than it will solve. I'm all for open mindedness, and all that good stuff, but.. I feel like this child may suffer from an identity crisis in their life. My opinion
  • Dano 2011/05/26 16:12:12
    Dano
    +3
    The kid will fit right in with the San Francisco Freaks!

    kid fit san francisco freaks
  • Cliff 2011/05/26 16:07:59
    Cliff
    +5
    How enlightened. Although I must say, if I were to ask someone to go out on a date with me, I would really prefer to know "what's between their legs". Call me olde fashioned.
  • MJ-Peti... Cliff 2011/05/27 20:12:54
    MJ-Petite Angelle du Nord...
    Lol; I totally agree....great point!
  • bob 2011/05/26 16:05:43
  • keeper 2011/05/26 16:05:09
    keeper
    +3
    I just wonder if their "sons" will grow up well adjusted, or if that term has fallen by the way side... as far as the new child, I reckon they are conducting an experiment, and hope they are documenting it...
  • say what? 2011/05/26 15:57:47
    say what?
    +3
    Sure,we got room for another confused basket case on this planet.
  • dave b 2011/05/26 15:56:00
    dave b
    +3
    Delusional, stoned, smelly hippies....
  • amazinggrace 2011/05/26 15:54:25
    amazinggrace
    +3
    Can't wait to see the unintended consequences of this decision.
  • KittyC 2011/05/26 15:40:20
    KittyC
    Sounds a little new age-y to me, but hey, to each their own, I guess.
    Not really any of our business.
  • Huki68 2011/05/26 15:31:50
    Huki68
    +1
    by the pic the kid is a boy
  • MJ-Peti... Huki68 2011/05/26 15:40:34
    MJ-Petite Angelle du Nord...
    +1
    Hi, I picked that photo radomly lol...
  • Huki68 MJ-Peti... 2011/05/26 15:44:10
    Huki68
    ok So the woman never disclose the kid pic? OI guess not, but this is more attention... if that is wht she want to do is fine for me
  • Superman 2011/05/26 15:17:19
    Superman
    +4
    Silliness. They can do what they want but I can also have an opinion on it.

    Gender is part of who we are, naturally. If they want the kid to have options, to eventually make its own decisions then they can easily teach the sort of openmindedness without ignoring the reality of what the genetics are.

    Plus, there is a real world that the kids will have to deal with and part of parenting is preparing kids to live in the real world. Its my opinion that they are failing in that aspect.
  • MJ-Peti... Superman 2011/05/26 15:26:29
    MJ-Petite Angelle du Nord...
    +1
    Bravo, and well-put!
  • wpsark_BN_0 2011/05/26 15:16:59 (edited)
    wpsark_BN_0
    +2
    I think that using your child as a "social experiment" is akin to physically/verbally abusing them...Sick progressive idiots..I feel sorry for the kids but what can ya do...
  • My2cents4HeIsPreator 2011/05/26 15:15:32
    My2cents4HeIsPreator
    +1
    Hmm, first time I'm hearing about this, let's see what happens.
  • ☥☽✪☾DAW ☽✪☾ 2011/05/26 15:12:10
    ☥☽✪☾DAW ☽✪☾
    Its thier kid everyone should mind thier own buisness
  • MJ-Peti... ☥☽✪☾DAW... 2011/05/26 15:19:26
    MJ-Petite Angelle du Nord...
    +1
    I understand what you are saying Daw, but I think if that is what they want to do then they should raise all their boys with the same freedom of expression; it does not matter if you are born a boy or a girl, what matters is that your parents love you know matter who you grow up to be, masculine, feminine, gay, straight or whatever. But we should all be able to at least be comfortable enough to all be able to refer to a baby as a boy or girl. Whether he wants to wear braids and dresses is his or her business but he or she should at least be able to self-identify what is a boy, what is a girl; the rest is up to him or her....
  • michelle ☥☽✪☾DAW... 2011/08/16 04:23:16 (edited)
    michelle
    +1
    This is ridiculous. To what age are
    They going to continue this "experiment"? As a 10 year old is the child going
    To
    Continue
    To
    Be
    Genderless? What public bathrooms
    Will the child use? Play sports? Will she shower with the
    Boys or will he shower with the girls after hockey? How about at
    The
    Public pos? Boys bathing suit with no top at 12 years old or a
    Girls one piece with a penis showing?
  • ☥☽✪☾DAW... michelle 2011/08/16 13:42:33
    ☥☽✪☾DAW ☽✪☾
    oh Canada you really should worry about your own country
    does the Canadian holocaust come to mind ?
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    http://www.sodahead.com/livin...

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