Should i just go to his house?

by cookie Posted 2009/11/15 13:32:36

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ok i really want 2 go round this guys house, hes stopped talking 2 me for no reason, ive texted him and wont answer my texts, and i dont know what ive done, ive spoken 2 my guy mates and they say i should go round and just knock on the door, but im scared he will close the door on my face,

Shell i do it or do

Any advice on it?

Christine 2009/11/21 18:29:31

have your mates find out from him what is wrong but he may have found another

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Tony DiNozzo 2009/11/18 20:59:57

maybe this guy just wants some space for a while? I don't think that yoou should go to his house. guys don't like it when they are kept on a leash so-to-speak, they like to have space and freedom sometimes! I think you should just hang loose and let the guy come to you, when he is ready, and not have you go to him! do get what i'm trying to say? just don't be too clingy! - Tony DiNozzo

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sunny 2009/11/17 13:03:55

yes

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texasred 2009/11/16 00:43:44

Cookie, see my response to LaureenF. There's only so much you can do if that person won't be open with you.

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whiskey 2009/11/15 19:09:26

+1
no dont go to his place.....calll him at some neutral ground and talk...coz maybe its a trap 2 get physical with u

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say what? 2009/11/15 15:36:58

One sided relationships never work.One is hurt and the other is annoyed.

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Alexander 2009/11/15 15:35:34

+1
Move on with your life there are other experiences to have.

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~♥Sun Kissed♥~ 2009/11/15 15:16:05

i would not do that then him may think u are stocking him. he may not like u any more or he can be totaly mad and convesd

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Asher 2009/11/15 14:44:38

no...thats a bit to eh..."stalker"ish

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laureenf 2009/11/15 14:28:59

You say that he stopped talking for 'no reason'... I'll bet that, if you do a REALLY deep, self-evaluation, you'll discover the 'why' and then text him that you finally figured it out....name it, own it and apologize, then he MAY respond. If he doesn't, at least you'll have some insight, learn a good lesson and won't repeat the error in the future. Good luck!

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texasred to laureenf 2009/11/16 00:42:26

+1
I don't know about that. I've had this happen to me a couple of times and never could figure it out. Even talked to one person's daughter and she said her mother is really weird and hadn't spoken to her own sister for 2 years, just because. No one knows why. If there is something, that person should be big enough to say what it is. If they can't do that, don't waste your time.

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CA 2009/11/15 13:40:36

No. Get the clue and move on.

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CA to CA 2009/11/15 14:15:21

I know this isn't the answer you wanted to hear, but you know deep down that it's true. If it's any consolation, This is coming from a hot guy. Been there, done that. Look at your options... FREEDOM. I say, don't let some guy keep you down. You are better than him. Women rule and you are a woman right?

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cookie to CA 2009/11/15 14:18:28

ya thanks

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CA to cookie 2009/11/15 14:23:03

All I'm saying is, if he treats you like this. HE SUCKS. Find someone who worships you. I garantee there are other guys that will and you will love us too. Just be open hearted and look around. Don't get choked up on one guy.

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cookie to CA 2009/11/15 14:23:57

k thanks

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