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Should Cindy McCain Keep Her Mouth Shut on DADT?

Anthony W. Leone November 15, 2010 11:00:00
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Thanksgiving is going to be entertaining at the McCain household.

Sen. John McCain's wife Cindy appeared in an ad criticizing the government’s “don't ask, don't tell” policy. You know, that same policy that her husband stands to uphold. Uh-oh.

The ad was created by the gay rights group NOH8 in response to California’s Proposition 8 that banned same-sex marriage. Mrs. McCain suggests that her own husband is part of the problem.

“Our political and religious leaders tell LGBT youth that they have no future. They can’t serve our country openly. … Our government treats the LGBT community like second class citizens — why shouldn’t they?” Cindy said in the ad that included other celebrities like Gene Simmons and Denise Richards, according to The Huffington Post.

Of course her husband filibustered a defense appropriations bill that would have repealed the U.S. military’s DADT policy back in September.

Funny thing is, the 2008 presidential candidate won’t find any support from his daughter either on this issue. Political columnist Meghan McCain does not support DADT. She wrote the following on Twitter:

"I am a supporter of LGBT rights and am against DADT - I fight every day... There's a lot of anger being projected at me personally for my father's
stance on DADT. I love my father very much and we disagree."

Good for her.

Maybe Sen. McCain should listen to the women in his life on this one. Americans, either gay or straight, who want to serve our country proudly and are willing to make the ultimate sacrifice for the U.S. of A should at the very least be able to open up about who they are without the government creating problems or repercussions.

DADT is an archaic policy that needs to be repealed. For the most part, our society is becoming more accepting of gays. Granted, we have a long way to go, but great strides have been made in recent years.

And some Republican leaders, especially white-haired ones from Arizona, should reconsider this policy and honestly ask themselves if DADT would really be the end of our world (feels like we're there anyway with the economy in the can) as we know it.

At the end of a hard-fought day in Afghanistan, does it matter if the Marine who killed two-dozen Taliban and five members of al-Qaeda writes a letter to his girlfriend or boyfriend from his tent? No. This will not be the end of the United States.

I know you're not supposed to talk politics and religion with friends, but shouldn't you be able to talk about it with family? I'd sure love to be a fly on the wall during the McCain Thanksgiving dinner this year. Maybe the McCains should get their ducks in a row before Sen. McCain tries to toss his name in the presidential hat for 2012.

And just remember, senator, when you ask, “Please pass the mashed potatoes,” make sure you duck!

Anthony Leone is a political columnist who has an extensive background in journalism, from newspapers to magazines to news sites and blogs.



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  • steph ♥ November 15, 2010 16:59:23
    No
    steph ♥
    +13
    Absolutely not!!! I love this AD because it actually involves people of all political affiliations. Gene Simmons is Socially Liberal, but a staunch Fiscal Conservative. Cindy McCain is a Conservative, but I believe her to be more Socially Liberal.

    I'm honestly glad that people on both sides are coming out in support of the LGBT Community. It's the ONLY way that things are going to change.

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  • Plantgypc November 16, 2010 16:51:36
    No
    Plantgypc
    Unlike liberals, conservatives believe we all have the right to freedom of speech.
  • bbwolf35 November 16, 2010 15:40:09
    No
    bbwolf35
    +2
    It should be every American's right and privilege to serve their country as it is every American's right to speak their mind about something they believe in or an injustice they oppose. .
  • obamabe... bbwolf35 November 16, 2010 16:02:06
  • toughhombre November 16, 2010 15:14:54
    Yes
    toughhombre
    She is the bonehead who gave birth to and raised Meghan McCain, the biggest ditz and embarrassment to her dad. These two should shut their mouths and stay out of areas that they are totally ignorant of. I am no fan of John McCain but he is right on this issue. Homosexuals don't belong in a military defense arena where their emotions could totally upset morale and discipline in wartime situations. The media is falling all over Meghan and Cindy because of the strong homosexual lobby in this country and they are counter to the conservative opinions on DADT. As stupid as Meghan is she is all over the tube. If Bristol Palin turned against her mom's opinions she would be a media darling instead of incurring the barbs she is getting for Dancing With The Stars.
  • Aes Sedai toughho... November 16, 2010 22:20:20
    Aes Sedai
    +1
    What emotions are you talking about? Are you calling gay men women? Or are you implying that gay guys are attracted to all men and will just spend their time at war thinking about the guys they're fighting with?
  • obamabe... toughho... November 22, 2010 20:05:49
    obamabeatsmccain
    we embrace all whom have seen the light, even a palin. unfortunately, the only lights she see's are foot lights.
  • Orangedragan November 16, 2010 15:05:47
    No
    Orangedragan
    +4
    Blast the LGBT-haters out of the water; show them that their archaic values are no longer acceptable when judging people.
  • toughho... Oranged... November 16, 2010 15:16:49
    toughhombre
    [...] Homosexual behavior is contrary to appropriate discipline in the Armed Forces, period!
  • Oranged... toughho... November 16, 2010 15:31:52
    Orangedragan
    +2
    It's not opinion, it's rights. We aren't talking about encouraging homosexual behaviour in the military, just their right to openly identify themselves as homosexual. Big difference.
  • obamabe... toughho... November 22, 2010 20:08:20
    obamabeatsmccain
    andddddd, even though they are already there in numbers far higher than reported, having them no longer being forced to lie will be the undoing of the u.s. military. try the third brain cell from the right, it may help you come to different conclusion. after all, 2 is better than one.
  • Emily_Lightning ~Final Fant... November 16, 2010 14:55:08
    No
    Emily_Lightning ~Final Fantasy Addict~
    Um excuse me who are you to tell some rich woman what to keep her mouth shut about?
    If you don't like it shut your damned bigoted ears.
    Personaly, just because his wife and daughter are supporters, I'm thinking maybe I shoulda supported
    McCain, cause he wouldn't hinder anything or his wife would beat him up! xD
    Probably more would've gotten done with him anyway. And at least he wasn't like Obama and
    LYING about whether he supported or not, he just plain doesn't. Obama is using the so-called
    "support" he is giving the GLBT community to get more votes and stay in power.
    As a "Bi" and LIBERAL youth, I am sick of Obamas lies and I will not support him.
    I don't care how much he lies to try to get my communities vote, He's not getting mine,
    although I can't even vote yet to begin with, which right now kinda sucks.
  • activ1 November 16, 2010 13:48:19
    No
    activ1
    +3
    She is free to express her opinion like anyone else. The fact that she and her daughter can disagree with the Senator over a political issue, and still love and respect each other, should be an example to all Americans.
  • Emily_L... activ1 November 16, 2010 14:55:36
    Emily_Lightning ~Final Fantasy Addict~
    +1
    Most deffinatley.
  • BlunderWoman ~ FTGOP~ BN 0 November 16, 2010 13:26:37
    No
    BlunderWoman ~ FTGOP~ BN 0
    +2
    Great article, Anthony.
  • Ellen H November 16, 2010 12:53:06
    Yes
    Ellen H
    +1
    YES Cindy McCain should be in the same place as John McCain...prison for about twenty years
    John McCain left elderly people with 5c on the dollar after his investment fraud; Keating Five 1986
    Elderly people lost their life-time savings, their homes and everything they invested with McCain
    McCain stood in a $5000 designer suit, $1500 custom made shoes and $300 silk "power" Tie on TV simpering "We suffer too" with millions in his Swiss Bank. Wives designer duds are all STOLEN
  • DDogbreath November 16, 2010 12:29:31
    Yes
    DDogbreath
    Cindy looks rather hot in duct tape!

    cindy hot duct tape
  • Emily_L... DDogbreath November 16, 2010 14:55:54
    Emily_Lightning ~Final Fantasy Addict~
    +1
    I love that picture. LOL
  • DDogbreath Emily_L... November 16, 2010 21:18:48
    DDogbreath
    Thanks Emily, I hope you got a chuckle ; )
  • sjalan DDogbreath November 16, 2010 15:00:59
    sjalan
    And as is ususal, the radical element would violate a persons 1st Amendment right to freedom of speech.

    Thank you for showing your ignoance of our US Constitution.

    Thank you for showing us ALL your willingness to set aside that document just like BUSHII said "IT'S JUST A PIECE OF PAPER"

    Well guess what THAT PIECE OF PAPER give you the right to show your ignorance here in these forums too.

    Have a good day.
  • DDogbreath sjalan November 16, 2010 21:17:20
    DDogbreath
    I was just JOKING you moron. You don't have to get your panties all bunched up over it.

    joking moron panties bunchedGet a life...
  • Coach Dale November 16, 2010 11:54:41
    Yes
    Coach Dale
    If you are queer, you can serve, just don;t tell the world, NOBODY CARES... Most men I know would not want to be in a foxhole with a queer lying behind them or diving in on top of them. Having said that Sen McCain's wife should keep her thoughts to herself if not running for office (aka STAND BY YOUR MAN)... Why should a queer get special treatment or rights over anyone else? On 2nd thought, why not mandate alL QUEER people to California forever!!!
  • Coach Dale Coach Dale November 16, 2010 12:09:57
    Coach Dale
    Oh how I wish thee was a reply to all of the cute little notes along the way.... Good for Cindy and her daughter speaking their minds. The REAL PROBLEM in this country is that all of the MINORITY groups are taking their little peice of the pie while the majority in every case is being over ridding and told to accept change for a minority presence. Here are some examples being pushed on the USA population based on being politically correct, not hurting ones feelings, the sense of inclusion...
    There are more STRAIGHT people than queers, yet they want their own special rights... There are more Christians in this country than NON-BELIEVERS yet, God has been taking out of schools, public places. There are more working AMERICANS in this country than WELFARE recipients and illegal aliens, yet their benefits keep going up while the working class can't get raises, have had Medicaid raided by Prez Obama and his democratic party thugs for OBAMACARE which isn't needed nor requested, except by wlefare getters who want more free things from the government.
  • Ellen H Coach Dale November 16, 2010 13:15:41 (edited)
    Ellen H
    Minority-My-No-R-itty
    Looting Americans. Looting American ideas, Looting American welfare, Looting American laws
    While they turn the streets of America to blood...just like their own drug cartels, lust-killings kidnappings beheadings, dismemberment Mexican-Cain-X-Me. Torture-kill animals, dog fights rooster fights until the animals are torn to shreds. Cain-X-Me also torture-killed millions Jews.
    Why Bible says "Get out of HER my Children" Her=Womb. Stop *inbreeding CAIN Genes.Nobody has to hop-in-the-sack to prove their love for your fellow man..or woman :)
  • Coach Dale Ellen H November 21, 2010 02:13:31
  • activ1 Coach Dale November 16, 2010 14:04:19
    activ1
    +4
    //"Most men I know would not want to be in a foxhole with a queer lying behind them or diving in on top of them."//

    Did you ever volunteer to serve your country in the Armed forces?

    //"Why should a queer get special treatment or rights over anyone else?"//

    //"There are more STRAIGHT people than queers, yet they want their own special rights... "//

    What "special rights" or "special treatment" are you referring to?
  • sjalan Coach Dale November 16, 2010 15:11:00
    sjalan
    Coach Dale, I sure hope you don't really coach any of our nation's children. You would really be messing up a lot of kids.

    There is no such thin as "SPECIAL RIGHTS". ALL citizens are supposed to have EQUAL RIGHTS!! Those EQUAL RIGHTS include being allowed the privilege of serving in the military without fear of being treated differently, which is exactly what DADT does already.

    Your shotgun approach to this question only goes to show how derainged your mental capacity is and how little you think of our country to deal with equality for all citizens.

    You are indeed a perfect example of what is wrong in our country right now. Our country is being torn apart by the pundit right and by the corporatists backing the Tea Bagger movement. Remember the old saying "divide and conquer"?? Well that is exactly what is happening. The Religious Right, The Political Right and the corporatiest are all tearing at the basic fabric of ALL of our BASIC CIVIL RIGHTS to be treated equally.

    I suggest you really think about this before you stick you foot in your mouth agian.
  • Coach Dale sjalan November 21, 2010 02:41:23
    Coach Dale
    No - I am currently not coaching any kids. I have coached for over 20 years from t-ball through high school, both male & female. Unfortunately, you are wrong (probably AGAIN). Our moral fiber has been destroyed over the last 40+ years, started when the courts decided to remove prayer from schools be cause the minority atheist were against it. Allowing abortion on demand, allowing men & women who rape children and deal in child pornography to return to society and live in our neighborhoods, etc... The liberal policies toward homosexuality and all things associated with it have ruined this country. Then your DEMOCRATIC party gave the USA a Marxist candidate who is 50/50 white-black and in his own writings degrades the white side of his family which gave him birth and paid for his education, only to turn against them. NO EVERYONE "DOES NOT" DESERVE THE RIGHT TO BE TREATED EQUALLY IN THIS COUNTRY OR ANY OTHER... Especially ILLEGAL ALIENS, and HOMOSEXUALS
  • sjalan Coach Dale November 21, 2010 18:49:48
    sjalan
    Thank you for showing your real racist and prejudiced point of view for everyone to see.
    Makes you look very appealing.

    Prayer has no place in a publicly funded school. If you want prayer in your childs school send him/her to one of your choice, but don't expect me to approve of it in a public school. It violates the 1st Amendment Establishment Clause -- promoting religion.

    Abortion is a medical decision between a woman and her doctor, PERIOD.

    I will agree with you in absolute about child molestation and pornography.

    Homosexuality is one of the broad spectrum of human sexuality. It neither deserves to he condemned nor legislated against.

    Your racist comment about our President is a reflection of your training in your youth. I suggest you listen to the song "You've got to be carefully taught" from the 1948 musical "South Pacific" and then reflect upon who taught you to be prejudiced.

    Immigration needs to be controlled. I have presented many times a very doable plan to bring it all under control. NO ONE in either party has responded to me about my plan. ONLY Leiberman responded and he liked it.

    OUR COUNTRY IS AT ITS CORE VALUES a country of EQULAITY for ALL OF OUR CITIZENS.

    I suggest you do some study on that rather than depend upon the many bobbing heads in your past or present.
  • Coach Dale sjalan November 26, 2010 14:59:18
    Coach Dale
    97% of black voters voted for Obama, that is racist rather than my comments that the Democratic Party gave us a Marxist Black-White (50/50) candidate

    If you were in public schools through the early 1970's, when prayer was permitted in public schools, the crime rate was very minimal.

    As a male, can I abort my right to be a father and not pay child support if the female decides to keep the baby? It is a medical procedure that kills a human being.

    If you were to go to Mexico illegally, according to their president you would spend time in jail, prior to either being deported or killed. No illegal alien deserves anything from the USA, especially on my dime or the dime of my kids. Nothing medical, educational, no food, housing,etc... They are criminals, hence the word illegal.
  • Che - P... Coach Dale November 16, 2010 13:02:46
    Che - PWNED Cons
    +5
    Psychology has proven that most people who are homophobic are that way to suppress their own homosexual feelings and thoughts. It don't think the LBGT community wants "special" treatment. I just think they would like to have the same rights every other Amerian has.
  • toughho... Che - P... November 16, 2010 15:24:48
    toughhombre
    [...] I guess when I am watching the gorgeous babes on the Miss Universe Pageant I am really lusting after the guy doing the hosting duties. They want "special rights" to pollute our society more than it already is and have government sanction to do it.
  • Che - P... toughho... November 16, 2010 19:01:48
    Che - PWNED Cons
    Why would you even care about somebody else's sexual orientation if it isn't true ? By calling GLBT people names and degrading them you certainly fit the profile of a self loathing closet case. Is marriage a "special" right ? What about tax issues ? What about tax incentives for married couples ?
  • Ellen H Coach Dale November 16, 2010 13:02:51 (edited)
    Ellen H
    YES, I know what is done in jails, I would not want my son near a sexual predator with machine gun I DON'T ASK, but they tell-me and tell-me and tell me and shove it on me (predatory rape every ear) All of this enable and underwriting criminals is done by even bigger criminals. It has to do with political THEFT such as the McCain Keating Five. Keep RED HERRINGS in front of everybody's eyes... while the sharks slip-the-nets to eat you alive. Not only did McCain rob elderly of every dime they had in investment fraud; Keating Five 1986 But every political we have today is selling American to the slave labor camps of "Made in China" It is... what it has been through history. Pirates!. As long as Americas are stirred-up with gay...pirates loot. China is ALL slave and child labor=pedophile dens. It is time to BOYCOTT China/child pedophile retail. Buy second hand,
  • Rave Coach Dale November 16, 2010 13:24:31
    Rave
    It's not about telling the world. It's about getting caught. It's not a nice thought having to be paranoid, never being able to get a civil union (The closest thing to marriage same sex couples can get in most of America) to the one you're with, have any sort of public ceremony with your partner, or even write letters or have pictures of them in your wallet. They choose to serve America because they love the country, and then it treats them like they aren't worth any of these things. I don't see anyone asking for any special rights. They just feel the way our system works is illogical.
  • toughho... Rave November 16, 2010 15:34:05
    toughhombre
    Are you for real? They want "marriage"! Do you know what marriage is ? It is a sacrament instituted by Jesus Christ to unite a MAN AND A WOMAN for the main purpose of procreating our species! What the homos want is to legitimize perversion by calling it a marriage. Jesus cannot bless sin. Have any kind of ceremony you want but don't call it or kid yourself that it is a marriage. A bird is not a dog or vice versa. Insofar as the military, homosexual behavior is detrimental to order and discipline in the military. If you want to be a soldier than shut your mouth and obey orders.
  • Rave toughho... November 16, 2010 15:38:58
    Rave
    Actually a Marriage, sir, is a legal docoment that binds two people toggether under law and counts them as Family. Marriage has existed long before Chirstianity ever came around. Not to mention, not everyone is Chirstian. So keep that in mind. I don't care what they call it, they can call is Apple pie if they want, as long as same sex couples get the same legal rights as non-same sex couples then I'll be okay with it.

    Actually in My Free country, Gay people are allowed to serve openly in the Military. So if I want to be a soldier, I do not have to hide who I am. Sadly, this does not apply to you Americans. And you call yourselves a free country.
  • onebad November 16, 2010 11:13:50
    No
    onebad
    +1
    it's awesome when republicans don't even make sense in the same sentence that comes out of their stupid mouths.
  • Mr. Smith November 16, 2010 09:23:01
    No
    Mr. Smith
    +2
    Last I checked, Cindy has just as much right to speak as her husband! I also agree with this ad, it takes the issue of bullying head on. I don't care what group is being discriminated, bullying is wrong and should not be tolerated, period! Take out LGBT and plug in whatever group you want (e.g., blacks, Hispanics, Muslims, Christians, handicapped, etc.), the principles should be the same no matter what.
  • toughho... Mr. Smith November 16, 2010 15:40:00
    toughhombre
    [...]If they are homosexual they can keep it to their own group of perverts and nobody would be the wiser but they don't want that. They want to flaunt their aberrant behavior and when they get some abuse they cry and moan. Fights, bullying, name calling in school has gone on since the beginning of time and it usually got settled in the schoolyard.
  • Mr. Smith toughho... November 16, 2010 18:12:38
    Mr. Smith
    So we shouldn't strive to be better people, is that it? Of course bullying has gone on since beginning of time, so has war and other violence, it's human nature, but it still doesn't make it right. It's a daily struggle to want to be a better person, some work at it, while others (I'm guessing you) do not.

    When I was in school we had a few who we all knew were homosexual, and yes they got picked on, but I never saw them putting their "repulsive behavior in everybody's face." They were just different, so some kids made fun of them. It wasn't like they're having anal sex in the school bleachers during the pep rally. So I'm not sure why you call people who have a different sexual preference 'perverts' (i.e., paraphilia), what they do in their bedroom is their private business, it's no more perverted than what you do in your bedroom.

    It seems like you just hate them for being different. Or maybe you have similar gay tendencies yourself and use hate and discrimination to overcompensate to show the world you're straight? You know what they say about homophobes ('toughhombre'??? - Freud could have a field day just with your profile name)!
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