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Should Alabama Man Be Allowed to Keep Late Wife Buried in His Front Yard?

SodaHead News 2012/08/19 19:06:11
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A controversy is brewing in Stevenson, Alabama over a husband's front yard grave for his late wife. According to the Associated Press, James Davis is fighting for what he believes is his right to maintain his late wife's grave, which has been on his property since 2009. The local government however, believes this could set an unhealthy precedent for the community.

"We're not talking about a homestead, we're not talking about someone who is out in the country on 40 acres of land," said Stevenson city attorney Parker Edmiston. "Mr. Davis lives in downtown Stevenson." One can imagine having a neighbor with a front lawn graveyard, no matter how sentimental the reason, would freak out some folks.

In response to the city's request, the "Let Patsy Rest in Peace" campaign has been created to let Mr. Davis keep his late wife's remains buried in the front yard. It may seem odd to some, but Davis has said it was his wife's wish to be buried on the property. Stevenson officials are probably worried about the home's resale value should it become vacated, but Davis claims if they get their wish and remove the grave, it will be when he's joined his wife.

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  • richard.maloney.7 2012/08/19 19:39:34
    Yes
    richard.maloney.7
    +12
    shes dead, and its not like hes gonna dig her up on special occations and trot her out for tea... when your dead your dead... you dont worry abut it so why should the living

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  • rich Karl 2012/08/21 10:29:33
    rich
    +2
    I'm with you. Would just prefer to go in a relatively painless manner, thank you!
  • firelooker Karl 2012/08/21 18:08:02
    firelooker
    +1
    Of course they do!
  • Charles R. Anderson 2012/08/21 08:32:20
    Yes
    Charles R. Anderson
    +4
    Governments are much to fond on meddling.
  • sglmom 2012/08/21 06:29:07
    Yes
    sglmom
    +5
    IT is pointed out in the article itself ..
    that the City Health/Sanitation Department stated there were NO health issues with his request ..
    (and this is small town life here .. there's many an old long-term farm/residence with family plots on them .. as well as other things like livestock) ..

    HONOR to his wife .. his wife's memory .. and let her REST IN PEACE ..
    and let this man grieve .. obtain the comfort of knowing he's HONORED her and her memory ..
  • CUDDLY BUT STILL CRABBY 2012/08/21 06:18:40
    Yes
    CUDDLY BUT STILL CRABBY
    +2
    But his property now and in the future should be deemed a cemetery. He might have trouble selling the property down the road.
  • PC Gamer Name "Angry Assassin" 2012/08/21 05:52:48 (edited)
    Yes
    PC Gamer Name "Angry Assassin"
    +2
    I'm not going to be the one that is going to disagree with James Davis. If it was his Wife's last wish, the town would be wise to honor it. The City Officials should ask themselves this question: "Do you want to be the one to do it?" The town can see about doing this. After James Davis passes away, then they can go ahead & make the arrangements to see the Body exhumed & be buried (along with Mr. James Davis) in a Cemetery. Until then, humor Mr. Davis!
  • firelooker PC Game... 2012/08/21 18:10:52
    firelooker
    +1
    If the county did that they would have to pay to have the bodies exhumed and replanted. You know they don't want to spend one extra dime of your tax payer money that they don't have to cause it means more money in their pockets.
  • PC Game... firelooker 2012/08/22 07:51:01
    PC Gamer Name "Angry Assassin"
    Exactly. They want Mr. Davis to pay for that expense. Honestly, I don't see having his Wife buried in his front yard or if she's was buried across the Street in a Cemetery. If they're worried about Property Values, there could be worst things that are on or in under the Property.
  • firelooker PC Game... 2012/08/22 18:21:29
    firelooker
    +1
    It would be nice to be able to sit out on the porch in the morning and be able to talk to that person even though they're not there in body just in spirit.
  • PC Game... firelooker 2012/08/23 08:52:56
    PC Gamer Name "Angry Assassin"
    I know how that is. Even though My Mother is buried with Her Husband (My Step-Father) at a Military Cemetery, I always feel that she's nearby!
  • firelooker PC Game... 2012/08/23 17:02:25
    firelooker
    +1
    You must have had a close relationship w/ your mom.
  • PC Game... firelooker 2012/08/24 08:25:09
    PC Gamer Name "Angry Assassin"
    Very! She passed away back in February of 2010.
  • firelooker PC Game... 2012/08/24 21:01:38
    firelooker
    +1
    My condolences, my mom passed away in 97 I still miss her even though we weren't close. She was the one I turned to for info on the family since my sister died before her. & my brother doesn't know anything since he's 5 yrs younger than me.
  • liz is still alive 2012/08/21 05:36:00
    Yes
    liz is still alive
    +4
    Why shouldn't he? He can bury the easter bunny for all I care.
  • Arianne 2012/08/21 04:46:09
    Yes
    Arianne
    +3
    So as long as he followed proper procedures and ensured that there are no safety hazards then whats the problem?
  • Bureauc 0webama 2012/08/21 03:14:16
    Yes
    Bureauc 0webama
    +3
    I notice the 'local gov't' doesn't cite any deed restriction, city code or law that's been violated. So leave the man alone and go balance the city budget!
  • sleuthjen 2012/08/21 02:27:15
    No
    sleuthjen
    All I know is I wouldn't want to step out of my house every day and be confronted by thoughts about my inevitable future. I vote for creepy.
  • PC Game... sleuthjen 2012/08/21 17:10:55
    PC Gamer Name "Angry Assassin"
    Honestly, one is reminded about that each day on the "6 o'clock News." ;-)
  • grace sleuthjen 2012/08/21 19:38:09
    grace
    And that is you but he has a different out look on life and death. Just because you don't want a dead person in your yard you shouldn't deprive other people of what they want. I mean really how much does it affect you?
  • LaLa 2012/08/21 01:45:50
    Yes
    LaLa
    +2
    as long as everyone else has the same rights.
  • T A 2012/08/21 01:33:26
    Yes
    T A
    +3
    Of course, it's his property. If the next owner doesn't like it they will probably pay less for the property and exhume the body as would be their right as the current owner.
  • MsDianna 2012/08/21 00:03:27
    No
    MsDianna
    what if everybody started burying their dead in their yards?
  • T A MsDianna 2012/08/21 01:34:29
    T A
    +4
    Then their yards would be naturally fertilized. So what?
  • trainfan MsDianna 2012/08/23 01:57:25
    trainfan
    So f**king what!!!!
  • sharkhead 2012/08/20 23:38:03
    Yes
    sharkhead
    +6
    How does this effect everybody else in the town?
  • xXmIsSuNdErStoOdXx 2012/08/20 22:59:49
    Yes
    xXmIsSuNdErStoOdXx
    +6
    It's his yard.
  • C. C. Rider 2012/08/20 22:54:22 (edited)
    No
    C. C. Rider
    What the sam helll is wrong with that man??? First rule of being a hillbilly redneck is he knows damn well the STILL goes in the front yard and the old lady goes in the living room dead or alive. IT is Alabama law and he knows it. mmm even if he can not read there are pictures to this affect.
  • firelooker C. C. R... 2012/08/21 18:12:23
    firelooker
    +1
    Sounds about right:)
  • C. C. R... firelooker 2012/08/21 22:59:42
    C. C. Rider
    lol
  • rhstarr 2012/08/20 22:26:58
    Yes
    rhstarr
    +4
    Damn he owns the property, so he should do with it as he pleases.
  • kevracer 2012/08/20 21:44:44
    Yes
    kevracer
    +1
    any truth to the story that the outhouse is right over the grave site?
  • rebeccasrevenge 2012/08/20 21:18:19
    Yes
    rebeccasrevenge
    +7
    Would they rather have him stuff his wife and display her as a lawn ornament? Leave well enough alone. trigger
  • firelooker rebecca... 2012/08/21 18:14:00
    firelooker
    Now that sounds like a plan, i'd use mine as a scarecrow though wouldn't have to worry about any crows or other varmints getting in the garden then:)
  • PDenoli 2012/08/20 20:39:03
    Yes
    PDenoli
    +5
    Unless there's an issue with how she was buried or her grave poses some sort of health risk, leave it alone. The article states: "a neighbor with a front lawn graveyard, no matter how sentimental the reason, would freak out some folks." Okay, but 'freaking people out' isn't illegal unless you're causing a public panic or inciting violence. And it sounds like this is really only a problem if you're trying to sell the property.

    I think the man nailed it when he said they can move his wife after he's dead. If the local government takes possession of the property, or if it goes to some person who is similarly-inclined there are processes and methods for moving a grave. Non issue.
  • Sunny 2012/08/20 20:15:59
    Yes
    Sunny
    +4
    leave them be....
  • JJ 2012/08/20 20:08:08
    Yes
    JJ
    +4
    That is his yard and his business. The poor lady is dead...what harm can she do? Heck, I live a stones throw from a cemetery and some of my neighbors live right across from it. We don't complain. Leave the man alone and let his wife rest in peace.
  • firelooker JJ 2012/08/21 18:16:13
    firelooker
    But the gov't wont get their dime if he does that. It cost lot's of money to get a regular cemetary plot and the gov't gets a share of that back in taxes.
  • JJ firelooker 2012/08/21 20:50:47
    JJ
    I don't know about you, but I'm pretty ashamed of our Government now. The people don't seem to matter...only them. And they put their clothes on the same way we do. They are no longer a Govenment for the people. They are suppose to be working for us, but I feel they have become vain unto themselves and have forgotten God and our wonderful Constitution. Money, power and greed are their Gods now. I just pray Romney will replace Obama and pray he can try and turn things around.
  • firelooker JJ 2012/08/22 18:25:50
    firelooker
    Sadly I think you're right. Our politicians seem to have forgotten they represent us, especially Obama as he pushes his socialist agenda, which is definetly an idea for the people but an idea of bigger gov't that exists only to grow itself bigger. That's why Obama agrees w/ the UN's agenda 21 which takes away all individual rights & gives them to the gov't.
  • JJ firelooker 2012/08/22 18:38:26
    JJ
    Yep! So true.

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