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PUBLIC OPINION > Victims of 'Surprise STDs' Should Not Get Compensation

SodaHead News 2012/06/08 13:00:00
The media recently reported on a 49-year-old woman who received genital herpes from a 69-year-old man she met on eHarmony. The woman won $900,000 in court after convincing the judge that the man did not tell her about his disease, and aggressively refused to put on a condom. We wanted to know what the public thought about "surprise STDs."

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The overall vote was enough to make a judgement call, but it was close and controversial. One reason it was so controversial is because the situation is inherently vague. Even in the case cited above, it's very unclear what the actual circumstances were. If the defendant was aggressive enough to refuse a condom, why wasn't it called "rape"? Should that even matter? What if a victim lies about being informed, just to make a profit? There are a lot of variables.

Conservatives Dismiss the Court

The only demographic to play a major role in this issue was politics, and you can probably guess the outcome: Liberals were keen on punishment, while conservatives were quick to dismiss the court. The primary argument against punishing people who spread STDs without warning is that the victim had a certain level of responsibility, as well -- assuming, of course, it wasn't rape.

Teens Know to Use Protection

The age breakdown was interesting. Teens were the most likely to deny compensation, probably because they're still going through sex ed and know just how important protection is. However, support for compensation formed a sort of bell curve, peaking at the 25-34 range, probably about the age skimping on protection becomes the most tempting.

Men Are More Likely to Punish

We were curious to see if gender affected the results -- maybe women would be more likely to sympathize with the victim in this particular case. But there was hardly any difference at all, and the difference that did exist was the exact opposite. Women were a little bit more likely to let the defendant off the hook.

If you'd like to vote on this question, dig deeper into the demographics, or engage in existing discussion about the topic, visit our poll about surprise STDs. We'd love to hear from you!
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  • Amelia 2012/06/08 16:16:02
    Amelia
    +9
    No. sorry you slept with him, you dealt with the STD. If he said no condom, you best get out of that bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • srini 2012/06/08 23:34:29
    srini
    As one editorial stated about it "if you drive at 160 km/h in a Cobalt, slam the vehicle into a concrete embankment but survive with your tibiae/fibulae looking like matchboxes does it make sense for you to sue GM for your injuries?"
  • toobored54 srini 2012/06/09 02:44:26
    toobored54
    Yes, cars should be controlled by their computer to only go 65mph. That's the speed limit. Any faster is foolish, and dangerous. -Barney Fyfe
  • sundance toobored54 2012/06/09 08:07:51
    sundance
    This from someone, with a Shelby for a emoticon....Wow....Just a thought...
  • drink toobored54 2012/06/09 15:39:06
    drink
    The speed limit on the Will Rodgers Turnpike is 75mph so your comment was apparently made out of ignorance of this fact and cars did not have computers in them when Barnu Fyfe was Depute. We should be held accountable for our own actions as adults. I have made a few bad finacail decisions but a not running to the courts asking them for money from the sales person or company that I did the business with. I sign the contract my responsibility. They sold it, I bought it. He sold it she bought it, her responsibility. Do I think he should be hung up by nuts, yes but ultimately she is responsible for her well being.
  • jas wats drink 2012/06/10 13:24:53
    jas wats
    I completely agree, they both deserve what they get, only neither of them deserve restitution either. Just a thought, how about going on a couple of dates and getting to know each other a little bit? WTF ever happened to that?
  • rightside 2012/06/08 23:11:50
    rightside
    I think that if you aren't honest, then you should pay. Of course, when you just jump into bed with the first person you meet, all the time, you get what you get.
    But, correct me if I'm wrong, it is illegal not to tell someone that you have HIV/aids before you sleep with them.
  • Andrea 2012/06/08 22:44:51
    Andrea
    He said no condom, and she still screwed him. And got paid for it? Stupid courts. No wonder the US is so screwed up. Get paid big bucks for being irresponsible.
  • NarcolepticGoat 2012/06/08 22:35:16
    NarcolepticGoat
    Oh nono, faithful partners of cheating spouses should have chosen their partner better!
  • firebird 2012/06/08 22:24:04 (edited)
    firebird
    +1
    Ultimately , EACH INDIVIDUAL IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN SAFETY when it come to mutual consensual sex ! She should have refused to have sex if he didn't wear protection... Where was her brain in this ?? Sorry , but I Raised four children and taught them to know its up to themselves to make sure they are protected !! The man knew he was infected! He should have told her YES.... but, if she had any doubts which she should have then she was an ADULT she could have said NO.
    She should be VERY GLAD that genital herpes was all she caught !!!
  • barby k... firebird 2012/06/09 07:12:27
    barby karring
    Exactly; what example is being set now by the courts for promiscuous women who sexes without protection.
    Just what is the message, join eharmony, look for the wealthy guys, date them, sleep with them all until she get a nasty disease then sue for big bucks!!! Skanks hitting the jackpot aided by jurors in a courtroom for her promiscuity. "WOW" gold diggers hitting home runs on wealthy guys bank accounts.
  • caius madison 2012/06/08 22:23:15
    caius madison
    +1
    Sorry, we all make the bed we get laid in. Pun intended.
  • santa6642 2012/06/08 22:20:27
    santa6642
    -No, you play the game then pay the price.
  • JesusIsMyGod 2012/06/08 21:54:30
    JesusIsMyGod
    +3
    I would sue too.
  • barby k... JesusIs... 2012/06/09 14:40:37
    barby karring
    Those four words says a lot about you.
    Have a great day today'
  • Ryoka∞Boy 2012/06/08 21:46:17
    Ryoka∞Boy
    +2
    No,seriouly.When he said no condom she should have refused.
  • ruru Ryoka∞Boy 2012/06/09 01:09:28
    ruru
    +1
    I did. Wow was he pissed.
  • john n ruru 2012/06/09 16:11:07
    john n
    He was pissed but you are disease free, who came out better on the deal?
  • barby k... Ryoka∞Boy 2012/06/09 15:00:20
    barby karring
    When he said no condom; I wonder did she say "okaaaay just this one time"
    It was still nasty on her behalf. "love myself first"
    keywords of the day.
  • joe mauro 2012/06/08 21:06:40
    joe mauro
    on line dating job and house hunting is the wild west you make your own trouble and there is law to protect you.
  • barby k... joe mauro 2012/06/09 14:44:29
    barby karring
    Exactly, but interesting.
  • Leantom, the Economic Ratio... 2012/06/08 20:51:50
    Leantom, the Economic Rationalist
    +2
    Wait, so she willingly had unprotected sex with a man she met online, and now she wants compensation for contracting a STD?

    Jeez, what a world we live in...
  • joe mauro Leantom... 2012/06/08 21:20:37
    joe mauro
    +1
    you are correct a guilt free responsibility free jungle
  • sundance Leantom... 2012/06/09 08:22:13
    sundance
    +1
    That was my thought. Mad world eh?...Just a thought...
  • Magnus ☮ RP ☮ 2012 ☮ 2012/06/08 20:40:10
    Magnus ☮ RP ☮ 2012 ☮
    +2
    Well gee, can I sue my mother for birth defects? No? Well alright then, guess I can't sue for being IGNORANT enough to not ask for STD papers before screwing somebody without protection!
  • MartinAlberta 2012/06/08 20:35:25
    MartinAlberta
    +1
    Well the anti-white Establishment is forcing global genocide on us with mass immigration and "assimilation" forced on ALL white countries and ONLY white countries,so what`s a few diseases brought in with the non-white 3rd worlders.
  • sundance MartinA... 2012/06/09 08:27:27
    sundance
    +1
    Say it with me now......M-E-D-I-C-A-T-I-O-N. Anti-white? What? Hello....There are no "all white countries" on this dustball homie. What is the weather like on your planet?....Just a thought....
  • barby k... MartinA... 2012/06/09 15:06:35 (edited)
    barby karring
    Dude" what are you talking about?
    We are talking about sexual indiscretions, and suing because of it dude'
    You're on the wrong channel buddy; go to politics page and bytch dude.
  • sundance barby k... 2012/06/09 19:18:07
    sundance
    Got off on a bit of a tangent, didn't he?......
  • barby k... sundance 2012/06/10 05:04:39
    barby karring
    Yes.
  • phil 2012/06/08 20:25:21 (edited)
    phil
    +1
    Wrap it up an no oral
  • john n phil 2012/06/09 16:11:46
    john n
    LOL
  • Medulla Oblongata 2012/06/08 19:53:01
    Medulla Oblongata
    +1
    I bet she'll think twice about sleeping with someone she just met now.
  • barby k... Medulla... 2012/06/09 15:20:38
    barby karring
    But' was "well to do guys" her targets hmnm'
    She knew he had money beforehand possibly.
  • john n Medulla... 2012/06/09 16:12:57
    john n
    Now someone better think twice before sleeping with her...
  • The SodaHeaded Llama 2012/06/08 19:44:11
    The SodaHeaded Llama
    +2
    i'm sorry, but if some slut can't keep her legs closed, well she shouldnt get compensation. BUT... if circumstances are different, like rape or sumfing, then bring on the compensation
  • sundance The Sod... 2012/06/09 08:28:06
    sundance
    And the big ass pot of boiling oil......
  • The Sod... sundance 2012/06/09 13:06:54
    The SodaHeaded Llama
    As you can see, no one has ever accused me of political correctness.
  • barby k... The Sod... 2012/06/09 15:36:58 (edited)
    barby karring
    I think he was agreeing with you on your last part of your statement about rape among other forced behaviors, so don't beat up someone who stand with you; dude'
  • sundance The Sod... 2012/06/09 19:21:07
    sundance
    Is all good. Follow a few of my posts, and you will see we have like mind. I don't tolerate stupidity or excuse. I am also, a big fan of the Darwin awards.....Just a thought...
  • The Sod... sundance 2012/06/16 23:18:23
    The SodaHeaded Llama
    oh i wasnt 'beating up' anyone. even if you did disagree, i respect other opinions besides my own.

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