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PUBLIC OPINION > The Teacher Who Left His Wife for a Student Made a Big Mistake

SodaHead News 2012/03/06 23:09:23
Every once in a while, "Don't Stand So Close to Me" by The Police hits a little close to home. In the case of James Hooker (41) and Jordan Powers (18), it's just like the song. The girl is less than half his age, and they both seem to be into it. A therapist has gone on record to compare Hooker to a sex offender, calling him "pathologically immature," but similar accusations were made about Doug Hutchison (51) and Courtney Stodden (16) and many observers defended him. Good Morning America took a public poll on this new story. Let's see how people voted.

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This one was a little obvious, but the main reason we decided to recap it was to take a look at the demographic breakdowns. But before we get to that, we thought it'd be interesting to dig into the comments attached to "Okay" votes. Most people who let the affair slide were simply unwilling to get involved in the couple's business. Regardless of what may have happened before, she's 18 now and capable of making her own decisions. For his part, quite a few wrote it off as a "mid-life crisis" and predicted a swift end to the relationship, once the reality of the situation sets in. Yes, there were a handful of what you might call "supporters," but they were few and far between. Now, on to the demos...

Men Are More Willing to Consent

As you may have suspected, the male voters were less disturbed by the story. They were more than twice as likely to vote "Okay," with exactly a third of them throwing in for Mr. Hooker. Judging by the comments, female voters were not only more likely to say it's a mistake, but more adamant about it, as well.

More Support From His Age Group

We singled out Powers' and Hooker's age groups specifically to find out what their peers might think, and believe it or not, teens and young adults are more likely to criticize the relationship than people closer to the man's age. Strong words in the staff room, perhaps, but not as strong as the words in the classroom.

Complication Like Company

There wasn't much sympathy in any of the relationship demographics -- certainly not from married voters -- but respondents who listed their relationship as "complicated" did show some. Presumably, it's easier to relate to a complicated emotional attachment when you're involved in one yourself.

If you'd like to vote on this question, dig deeper into the demographics, or engage in existing discussion about the topic, visit Good Morning America's poll about James Hooker and Jordin Powers. We'd love to hear from you!
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  • beverly.hargrove 2012/03/06 23:33:21
    beverly.hargrove
    +14
    Let's see..Neither have a job. She's gonna get bored with him sooner or later...I vote for sooner. All his friends are his age and she still has friends her age...Heck he may even fool around with her friends since he likes them younger..Not in my top trust catagory.

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  • stl.sha... Dogzebra 2012/03/07 17:24:04
    stl.shamrock
    My mom would say, "Bless their hearts..." Probably means about the same thing.
  • BwaHa 2012/03/07 15:15:18
    BwaHa
    +1
    HUGE mistake. His ex wife is the lucky one.
  • Loki 2012/03/07 15:13:57
    Loki
    +4
    Note that the guys his age say they would consent, but if it was their daughter you know that they'd beat the hell out of the teacher and call him a pedophile. You know they're full of it.
  • USA TBAN DEAD 2012/03/07 15:08:58
    USA TBAN DEAD
    +2
    who cares?
  • QC 2012/03/07 14:37:11 (edited)
    QC
    +3
    As a 37 year old male I can't imagine being in a relationship with an 18 year old except for purely sexual reasons... Or perhaps to be idolized (as a father figure) by the girl. It is sort of incestuous and sick when you think about it...
  • Marie 2012/03/07 14:35:15
  • TheNightFly 2012/03/07 14:14:20 (edited)
    TheNightFly
    +3
    I find it hard to believe that they suddenly developed a relationship immediately after she turned 18. If so, then it's way to early to be talking about marriage. But, if they're relationship is older, he's probably a statutory raper.
  • Fashionable60s 2012/03/07 14:01:41
    Fashionable60s
    +3
    She is still a teenager, she has yet to discover life and new friends. She'll be bored with him. Charlie Chaplin married Oona O'Neill when he was 51 and she 18. It was considered scandalous then but the marriage lasted. The difference here was Charlie was not her school teacher and he was already rich and famous. James Hooker was her teacher and is now unemployed. Unfortunately, I could already see the swift end of this relationship. Nobody could live on love alone and isolated.
  • Michael 2012/03/07 13:57:58
    Michael
    +3
    Again, I say there is hope for bald men! But, judging from the photo, she is very much shorter than him, so perhaps she didn't notice, like she doesn't realize a lot of other things. Maybe he just needs a babysitter for his visitation days. Opps, I wonder if he will have these from jail!
  • Gwen Michael 2012/03/08 02:23:31
    Gwen
    +1
    On one of the morning shows, Jordan was asked what status/or type of relationship would she have with James Hooker's children (something to that effect) and her reply was "Step-Mom"...I can see it now, they will be out in public and someone will make a comment to James Hooker, that he has a lovely daughter!
  • Semper Fi 2012/03/07 13:53:22
    Semper Fi
    Ahhh, the mind of a public union employee....
  • Aingean 2012/03/07 13:46:52
    Aingean
    +1
    Oh that is just gross, he could be her dad! I'm okay with dating guys older, or women older as the case maybe but not that much older. When one can be a the younger ones parent there is something wrong about it to me..
  • Zombiecat~Metalhead4Life 2012/03/07 13:43:43
    Zombiecat~Metalhead4Life
    +3
    Maybe it was a mistake and maybe it wasn't. But it is their's to make. None of our business whatsoever. There are lots of crazy age difference couples. There must be something good between them to take it this far.
  • Quazimoto 2012/03/07 13:42:03
    Quazimoto
    +6
    I would say he is having a mid life crisis and thinking with the wrong head.
  • BwaHa Quazimoto 2012/03/07 15:19:27
    BwaHa
    +1
    LOL... good comment!
  • Jake Bl... Quazimoto 2012/03/07 18:08:13
    Jake Blanton
    Well, considering the fact that we do most of our thinking with that head, how can it be the wrong one? [snicker]

    He'll die and she'll still be young enough to be classified as a cougar when she goes looking for 18 year old boys...
  • stl.shamrock 2012/03/07 13:33:47
    stl.shamrock
    +7
    To be honest, I don't care what they do (or have done). It doesn't change my life in any way. As for the age difference, I'm 37 and my girlfriend is 23. We've been together 3 years and I'm (basically) her son's dad. Do we have issues? Sometimes. Is it anyone else's business? Nope.
  • Zombiec... stl.sha... 2012/03/07 13:41:45
    Zombiecat~Metalhead4Life
    +4
    exactly.
  • Chuck 2012/03/07 13:04:12 (edited)
    Chuck
    Well, if this is her in the picture, I personally don't see anything that is very pretty nothing that is sexy and 'hot' looking about her, but I can't criticize them for I am also guilty of liking the young and hot 18 to 23 year old. You see, a man can be found guilty very easily simply because they are nothing more than a perpetual hard-on walking around looking for a place to park. It just happens to be the way they are programmed. Most of the well known religious leaders are also guilty of liking those little virgins. The father of Confucius was already an old man when he took an 18 year old virgin wife. Lao Tsze, was 60 when he took a young virgin for his wife (I don't remember her age) Mohammed had 6 wives and they were all virgins when he first married them and I would venture to say they were all younger than 18, and guess what? the Christian God sought out a young virgin Mary, who was already married to Joseph, mind you, to have his son, Jesus. And once again, guess what? Some theologians put Mary's age at 16 and Joseph having two other wives, didn't need to take on the little girl that was young enough to be his daughter at the time. So, if you look at the numbers and consider the sources, you would think the 41 year old and the 18 year old isn't so bad after ...
    Well, if this is her in the picture, I personally don't see anything that is very pretty nothing that is sexy and 'hot' looking about her, but I can't criticize them for I am also guilty of liking the young and hot 18 to 23 year old. You see, a man can be found guilty very easily simply because they are nothing more than a perpetual hard-on walking around looking for a place to park. It just happens to be the way they are programmed. Most of the well known religious leaders are also guilty of liking those little virgins. The father of Confucius was already an old man when he took an 18 year old virgin wife. Lao Tsze, was 60 when he took a young virgin for his wife (I don't remember her age) Mohammed had 6 wives and they were all virgins when he first married them and I would venture to say they were all younger than 18, and guess what? the Christian God sought out a young virgin Mary, who was already married to Joseph, mind you, to have his son, Jesus. And once again, guess what? Some theologians put Mary's age at 16 and Joseph having two other wives, didn't need to take on the little girl that was young enough to be his daughter at the time. So, if you look at the numbers and consider the sources, you would think the 41 year old and the 18 year old isn't so bad after all. What is worse is our own hipocracy. We get upset and vengeful as hell when it happens to us, but if we are the perpetrators then for some reason it appears to be okay. There have been books and case studies, and hundreds of articles written about girls having sex at age of puberty, which used to be considered the earliest acceptable age, but we as parents are not ready to give up our young daughters at that ripe young age of 10 to 12, and all hell will break loose if we find out she is already having an affair with a 16 or 17 year old boy. Especially if puberty began at 10, for example. And just how is it that we consider 18 as the "legal" age? The day before he/she becomes 18, when they are still 17, all kinds of different laws are put into play. A period of less than 60 minutes could change a person's life forever. The laws that we have created is for vengeance only, not for good sound reasoning and certainly not when it comes to our own children. We screw out of lust that produces a child, but sometimes if we decide that we don't want it, we kill it inside the womb, toss it in the garbage or incinerator and go on about our business. Once the child is outside the womb, then of course we have that sense of guilt that we must provide for it and sometimes we do a tremendously good job, and then there are those who couldn't care less and they toss the child out on the street at whatever age to let it fend for itself. This kinda gives you an idea why we have labeled ourselves part of the 'animal kingdom' ?
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  • salemslot9 Chuck 2012/03/07 18:34:19
    salemslot9
    comparing these two dummies to God is ridiculous
  • Chuck salemslot9 2012/03/08 20:01:28
    Chuck
    I don't know why you say it is ridiculous? Facts are facts. What is good for Jimmy Swaggert, and King David, and God, and Mohammed, and Lao Tsze is not good enough for you? Or are they so privileged in your mind that they deserve MORE and better than you?
  • sensibl... Chuck 2012/05/22 18:45:23
    sensibleone
    You have an interesting point of view.
  • Chuck sensibl... 2012/05/22 22:52:35
    Chuck
    Thank you. I just try to use common sense logic.
  • aneed2know 2012/03/07 12:02:53
    aneed2know
    +3
    why not mind our own business if this works for two consenting adults then leave them be. No matter how we think it works for them so let them have it.
  • S.Lewis 2012/03/07 11:39:16 (edited)
    S.Lewis
    +4
    The teacher is DEFINITELY going thru a mid life crisis. What could they possibly have in common? I have empathy for the wife & children. Did he even consider
    the feelings of his family and how this would affect them, especially the child that went to the SAME
    school. His kid must feel humiliated. They definitely began their affair before the teen turned 18. He leaves his wife & kids for a student, THEN all of a sudden he has morals & decides to wait until she is 18, YEAH RIGHT! The mother of the student should pursue
    charges to the fullest extent of the law. He's a pedophile. She's young, she'll leave his old ass soon enough.
  • aneed2know S.Lewis 2012/03/07 12:03:26
    aneed2know
    +1
    what do they have in common?

    SEX
  • stl.sha... aneed2know 2012/03/07 13:29:18
    stl.shamrock
    +2
    From the initial story, they both seem to like texting. That's start, right? *grin*
  • S.Lewis aneed2know 2012/03/07 13:56:32
    S.Lewis
    +2
    YOU GOTTA BE A MALE!
  • aneed2know S.Lewis 2012/03/08 06:13:54
    aneed2know
    +1
    yeah i am, so again its none of my business what two adults do and should not be yours either. although one is barely an adult she is still an adult, she is old enough to die in war so she should be old enough to to play with some wrinkled saggy balls.
  • S.Lewis aneed2know 2012/03/09 16:17:13
    S.Lewis
    +1
    You're funny! :) :)
  • aneed2know S.Lewis 2012/03/10 05:23:38
    aneed2know
    i try
  • Jake Bl... S.Lewis 2012/03/07 18:09:06
    Jake Blanton
    He would have probably found a Porsche to be a cheaper solution for his mid life crisis...
  • S.Lewis Jake Bl... 2012/03/08 00:09:21
    S.Lewis
    So true!! 
  • Dave0626 2012/03/07 10:14:03
    Dave0626
    +2
    LMAO!!...It's just not gonna last. He will have a heart attack in less than 10 years....She better buy some serious Life Insurance on his ass!!
  • Jake Bl... Dave0626 2012/03/07 18:09:56
    Jake Blanton
    +1
    And she'll still be young enough to enjoy his money or life insurance...
  • Dave0626 Jake Bl... 2012/03/07 18:16:37
    Dave0626
    +1
    haha..For sure!!
  • Jo 2012/03/07 09:26:45
    Jo
    +4
    I dont think its a mistake simply because of what the therapist said---he's "pathologically immature", which explains why he was able to be attracted to 18 year old in the first place. Under those circumstances, he did his wife a HUGE favor---probably they best thing he could have ever done for her was to leave her. Now she's free to find a real man:)
  • dennisg40 2012/03/07 07:54:05
    dennisg40
    +3
    I feel sorry for him because there is no fool like an old fool.
  • JustMe 2012/03/07 07:29:36
    JustMe
    +2
    As long as they are both happy then best of luck to them and hope it works out
  • Chris 2012/03/07 07:19:00
    Chris
    +2
    As a 27 year old man I can say teenage girls are still hot. Way to score dude! Kidding. It's wrong. His wife was more dedicated to him than she probably will be. What was he thinking?!!

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