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PUBLIC OPINION > The Teacher Who Left His Wife for a Student Made a Big Mistake

SodaHead News 2012/03/06 23:09:23
Every once in a while, "Don't Stand So Close to Me" by The Police hits a little close to home. In the case of James Hooker (41) and Jordan Powers (18), it's just like the song. The girl is less than half his age, and they both seem to be into it. A therapist has gone on record to compare Hooker to a sex offender, calling him "pathologically immature," but similar accusations were made about Doug Hutchison (51) and Courtney Stodden (16) and many observers defended him. Good Morning America took a public poll on this new story. Let's see how people voted.

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This one was a little obvious, but the main reason we decided to recap it was to take a look at the demographic breakdowns. But before we get to that, we thought it'd be interesting to dig into the comments attached to "Okay" votes. Most people who let the affair slide were simply unwilling to get involved in the couple's business. Regardless of what may have happened before, she's 18 now and capable of making her own decisions. For his part, quite a few wrote it off as a "mid-life crisis" and predicted a swift end to the relationship, once the reality of the situation sets in. Yes, there were a handful of what you might call "supporters," but they were few and far between. Now, on to the demos...

Men Are More Willing to Consent

As you may have suspected, the male voters were less disturbed by the story. They were more than twice as likely to vote "Okay," with exactly a third of them throwing in for Mr. Hooker. Judging by the comments, female voters were not only more likely to say it's a mistake, but more adamant about it, as well.

More Support From His Age Group

We singled out Powers' and Hooker's age groups specifically to find out what their peers might think, and believe it or not, teens and young adults are more likely to criticize the relationship than people closer to the man's age. Strong words in the staff room, perhaps, but not as strong as the words in the classroom.

Complication Like Company

There wasn't much sympathy in any of the relationship demographics -- certainly not from married voters -- but respondents who listed their relationship as "complicated" did show some. Presumably, it's easier to relate to a complicated emotional attachment when you're involved in one yourself.

If you'd like to vote on this question, dig deeper into the demographics, or engage in existing discussion about the topic, visit Good Morning America's poll about James Hooker and Jordin Powers. We'd love to hear from you!
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  • beverly.hargrove 2012/03/06 23:33:21
    beverly.hargrove
    +14
    Let's see..Neither have a job. She's gonna get bored with him sooner or later...I vote for sooner. All his friends are his age and she still has friends her age...Heck he may even fool around with her friends since he likes them younger..Not in my top trust catagory.

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  • LEVI 2012/03/07 18:51:53
    LEVI
    of course age-wise it's wrong, of course morally it's wrong, but a lot(40-60%) of us men would also jump all over a beautiful younger(even too young,of age) young lady/young women over our wife(note that per-cent age would go down if children are in the marriage), but.. SERIOUSLY...speaking..most/not all of us "dogs"....will and would jump all over such a situation...if it didn't put us men/dogs in jeopardy with the law.....most men won't admit it but its true.......................(no offense, she would have to be a little cuter than his student/lover)..................
  • norm 2012/03/07 18:50:41 (edited)
    norm
    +1
    Better not judge this one yet. In ten years maybe. You don't know what his wife was like, you don't know what he is like, you don't know what this 18 year old is like. It may seem like a "low probability of success" sort of thing, but true love is a low probability event. No one can argue that. I just hope he wasn't messing with her as a "minor." That would be very bad. Teachers need love too! I was married to one. Oh man, the things she would say about some of her male high school students...sigh...Notice I said "was."
  • $$*gat*$$ BL39 2012/03/07 18:37:10
    $$*gat*$$ BL39
    +2
    the sexual abuse rate in the public schools is around 58%, the left is too busy talking about the 1% abuse in the Catholic Church to care for anyone
  • wilsonmja 2012/03/07 18:14:00
    wilsonmja
    It's a disturbing story, but the only real victims are the guy's family. The mother of Jordan isn't a victim, she's an accomplice. Your daughter doesn't fall in love with a teacher if you're paying attention and making good choices as a parent. She helped make this bed and now that she had to lay in it, she's pissed off. She should go back to not giving a crap like she clearly has for most of her daughter's life.
  • Ralph Lauren 2012/03/07 18:07:19
    Ralph Lauren
    big mistake... maybe they're just looking for a father figure or just curios how it is to be with an old man..
  • PM Ralph L... 2012/03/07 18:17:54
    PM
    Funny you comment "Big Mistake", but your picture is of two women kissing? You're okay with same sex relationships, but against opposite sex relationships with a large age difference?
  • ryuu khan PM 2012/03/07 19:51:34
    ryuu khan
    ok gay relation ships or ok but when he starting going for her it she was 14 if i'm not mistaken + he left his wife for her which that hole relationship doesn't seam like a floater seams like a sinker and that's not a good thing just cause he say big mistake about a man thats way older then her ?? so what happens when he dies and she still alive for another say 30-50 years what then shes going to be dispressed
  • PM ryuu khan 2012/03/07 22:49:25
    PM
    If he started going for her when she was 14 (she is now 18) then you are correct, he was wrong. I don't know what happened between his wife and himself, they could have had problems from years ago. To me, that was not related to the story, just some extra information to slant your opinion, as the media usually does.

    I guess when he dies, and she is still young, she can keep his pension benefits and live comfortably and remarry just like other people do when a spouse dies.
  • ryuu khan PM 2012/03/08 17:09:59
    ryuu khan
    yea true but its going to leave a scar on her if he dies if she truelly loves her
  • Sig Sauer P220 2012/03/07 18:06:32
    Sig Sauer P220
    +1
    Well think of the wedding announcement ... Hooker - Powers ...
  • george 2012/03/07 18:05:15
    george
    +1
    This is going to end badly. I don't know what issues she has going on but he is a fool who will regret this decision sooner than later. Good luck to him if he is looking to teach again.
  • mzemma 2012/03/07 17:54:54
    mzemma
    she is young and naive... and impressed because someone is paying attention to her... that is what is sad... IF he was any kind of man, he would tell her to go out and have fun.. with your peers and friends your own age... instead of robbing her of her youth. The man is selfish....
  • Tom Trojan 2012/03/07 17:18:03
    Tom Trojan
    +3
    If this guy's "soul mate" is an 18 year old, then it is scary that he was allowed to teach....

    If this gal's choice is someone her dad's age, then maybe the family needs to be looked at more closely......

    Either way, this is disgusting and doomed to fail.
  • salemslot9 Tom Trojan 2012/03/07 18:42:57
    salemslot9
    soul mate...foo
  • CrazyTexan 2012/03/07 17:15:34
    CrazyTexan
    Seriously?!! WTH?! Let's see if roles were reversed, she would be facing jail time. The whole thing is sickening. Female teachers are completely crucified for getting sexually involved with students. Why in blazes can ANYONE be even sliightly okay with this? He should be in jail, gbecause its clear he started screwing her BEFORE she was 18. She clearly needs therapy, because its not alright to screw your teacher especially one who is old enough to know its very wrong. This case makes it blindingly clear that men get treated far different from women in the eyes of the "law" , IF one can even call it that. Personally I hope his pecker falls off.
  • PM CrazyTexan 2012/03/07 18:20:03
    PM
    No jail time, because she's reached the age of majority. Its her decision to date whomever she wants, even if we don't agree with it and think its inappropriate.
  • CrazyTexan PM 2012/03/07 19:54:13
    CrazyTexan
    +1
    You are all so damn stupid. He started with her BEFORE 18!!!!!! What's even sicker is that everyone thinks its fine because the skank is 18. What's gonna be next that no one thinks is wrong? Sex with children? God you are all so stupid.
  • PM CrazyTexan 2012/03/07 22:52:07 (edited)
    PM
    Calm down... sorry for not knowing that the whole story. The story above doesn't say that he started dating her before she turned 18. I guess, you have to go research the whole story before commenting on Sodahead, because they don't give you all the facts.

    And, NO, nobody thinks having sex with children is right. Its sick. If so, he's a damn pedofile.
  • Aksana 2012/03/07 17:12:13
    Aksana
    +1
    This guy is crazy
  • el 2012/03/07 17:03:39
    el
    Sick sick sick
  • kraftymomma1979 2012/03/07 16:58:40
    kraftymomma1979
    +1
    What a dick!!!!!!!!!! He's a disgrace to the teaching profession. it's too bad Benson and Stabler can't pay him a visit.
  • mzemma kraftym... 2012/03/07 17:58:01
  • kraftym... mzemma 2012/03/15 17:26:11
    kraftymomma1979
    Can you say "food stamps"? He is an example of someone who has completely abdicated responsibility for this actions, for the family he helped created, and the family he will no doubt create with a teenage girl.
  • boiyaza 2012/03/07 16:53:28
    boiyaza
    Don't people know after 12 is lunch time so get with the program
  • JohnT 2012/03/07 16:41:31
    JohnT
    +3
    The guy is a perv. Leave your family and mess up the young woman's life, what a sleaze. I guess they will live on love seeing he no longer has a job. That will be good for at least ten minutes.
  • dj 2012/03/07 16:14:46
    dj
    +1
    STUPID!!!!!!!!
  • Groundskeeper Willy 2012/03/07 16:06:19
    Groundskeeper Willy
    +1
    here is the problem, he was a person of authority in her life prior to the hook up. IN many states it is possible he could be charged with statutory rape after the fact.
  • JayLynx 2012/03/07 15:42:25
    JayLynx
    At 18 years old I thought the guys of 20 were very childish. I prefered those of 22, 23 to 25 years; although it was just to talk. The very young guys got ​​me tired. At 36 y.o. my mother married my father (50 y.o.), but 23 years is a big difference. They are very different physically and mentally. The girl, very beautiful indeed, looks like a kid! Well, unless he is a moron ... But it is not about me or my parents!
  • Peru 2012/03/07 15:31:37
    Peru
    She's 18. While I don't necessarily condone leaving a wife for someone else under any circumstances, there's no indication in the story as to exactly what's wrong with the guy's relationship with his wife to see what the deal is. That she is a student is immaterial. She won't be a student for much longer, I'm assuming.
  • sensibleone 2012/03/07 15:26:12
    sensibleone
    +1
    What it boils down to is this, is she street legal? we know he's street legal so, If she can legally make the decision that she has who are we to raise so much hell about it? The man is a fad for her at the moment, one day the thrill will be gone and she may be as well. The real question is does he realize this is going to eventually happen
  • FatherL... sensibl... 2012/03/07 16:59:15
    FatherLiberty
    +2
    Street legal? We are not talking about car parts here....
  • sensibl... FatherL... 2012/05/22 18:03:35
    sensibleone
    No, we are talking about someone, that the law recognizes as an adult. As an adult, she is entitled to associate herself with whomever she sees fit regardless of what anyone thinks. If she really loves him, we don't know, but IF loves him for REAL, does not care about the age difference and sticks up for him with her heart against the world, what more can any man ask?
  • Jake Bl... sensibl... 2012/03/07 18:05:00
    Jake Blanton
    +3
    Looking on the bright side, he'll die early and she'll still be young enough to enjoy his money...

    Personally, I can't see marrying a girl that young... They are all airheads at that age...

    The more I understand women, the more I appreciate my dog...
  • Sig Sau... Jake Bl... 2012/03/07 18:09:20
    Sig Sauer P220
    I agree with your dog statement!
  • sensibl... Jake Bl... 2012/05/22 18:25:59
    sensibleone
    If she makes the man happy and he makes her happy, what's the big deal? As long as he is mature enough to let her go if and when she meets some else I don't have a problem with it. But you know, when have most us been mature enough to just let go of someone that we love.
  • Jake Bl... sensibl... 2012/05/22 23:43:29
    Jake Blanton
    "If you love something, set it free... If it doesn't come back, hunt it down an kill it..."
  • sensibl... Jake Bl... 2012/06/17 12:33:05
    sensibleone
    Now that was hilarious as hell! Ha!Ha!Ha!Ha! you got jokes!!!! I'm going to have to write that one down.
  • Jake Bl... sensibl... 2012/06/17 19:46:28
    Jake Blanton
    It's an old one...
  • sensibl... Jake Bl... 2012/06/27 23:48:52
    sensibleone
    Still effective if you use the right kind of ammo.
  • Dogzebra 2012/03/07 15:20:27
    Dogzebra
    +3
    As my wife would say, "Now Dear, I'm sure they're both nice people."

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