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PUBLIC OPINION > Marriage Is Still Relevant

SodaHead News 2011/12/16 18:00:00
Marriage rates in the U.S. have been declining for some time now, but they've dropped significantly in just the last couple of years. Between 2009 and 2010, rates dropped 5%. Between 1960 and 2010, rates dropped from 72% to 51%. If the rates continued to drop through 2011, that means fewer than half of American adults are married. But is that a reflection of marriage, or of our culture? Have we outgrown the institution, or are we losing touch? We handed the question over to SodaHeads to see what they thought.

Marriage Rates in Steep Decline: Is Marriage Outdated?

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76% Still Have Faith in Marriage

Despite the harrowing statistics, most respondents still think the institution of marriage is relevant today. Just because marriage rates are declining doesn't mean marriage is any less important. Maybe it says more about our culture than marriage itself. The Top Opinion read, "Marriage will never be outdated. People are just less committed and that is obvious in practically every walk of life." That could very well be the case. But just to be sure, let's break it down.

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Post-Marital Progressives

There were only two demographics that showed a severe mistrust of marriage, and progressives were one of them, with just 38% of them backing the institution. Even liberal voters had more faith than that -- 27% more. Conservatives showed the most support (94%).


Atheists Against Marriage

The only other large group that sided against marriage was atheists. They weren't as adamant as progressives, but only 43% felt marriage was still relevant. Agnostics actually showed quite a bit of support (77%), and Christians were way up there with conservatives.


Singles Are Skeptical

The last demographic we want to touch on is the most relevant: relationship status. Married voters, naturally, threw all of their weight into backing the institution (94%), but single voters showed some hesitation (71%). But the divorcee votes caught us by surprise; more than two-thirds of them still believe in marriage.

If you'd like to vote on this question, dig deeper into the demographics, or engage in existing discussion about the topic, visit our original poll about marriage rates. We'd love to hear from you!
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  • HappyGuy 2011/12/16 22:07:47
    HappyGuy
    +2
    Marriage is way over rated !!
  • Anna E 2011/12/16 22:06:27
    Anna E
    Not much surprising here.

    Oh, and BTW, convex, divorce is not kicking marriage in the teeth:

    surprising btw convex divorce kicking marriage teeth

    That's from 2004 and divorces have gone down a little bit since in the States.
  • Dickens 2011/12/16 21:53:22
    Dickens
    +2
    ..marriage isn't a mistake I'll ever make again...
  • Icanbea... Dickens 2011/12/16 22:29:26
    Icanbean  Arschloch
    +2
    I never knew anything about a dysfunctional family, .... until the day I got married.
  • Tygear 2011/12/16 21:50:41
    Tygear
    +5
    It is still very much relevant!!! Jesus. I am gay and only 20 years old, and I cannot wait to find someone that I can spend the rest of my life with. Marriage is a beautiful thing. It only adds pressure if you let because as so many have said, it's just a formal contract. A formal contract that provides: tax breaks, specific powers during emergency situations, and it allows you to get the family rate at parks. ;) lol
  • Icanbea... Tygear 2011/12/16 22:26:17
    Icanbean  Arschloch
    OMG
  • saturda... Tygear 2011/12/17 01:39:10
    saturdayschild
    +1
    The legal incentives to get married are discriminatory. Therefore, marriage should not be recognized by government. You can have a happily forever after life with someone, unlikely though it may be, and a marriage certificate has no magical powers to make that life any happier.
  • Grayfox... Tygear 2011/12/17 10:10:57
    Grayfox1940
    WTF??
  • saturda... Grayfox... 2011/12/24 15:20:21
    saturdayschild
    What's wrong? Don't understand my message?? Well, you're still very young. You'll understand as you get older. Good luck.
  • seathanaich 2011/12/16 21:44:46
    seathanaich
    I would suggest that in the US a large portion of "atheist" objection to marriage is because of the insistence by many religious people that marriage is somehow a religious thing (which it isn't).

    As a Canadian atheist, I am happily married. My wedding ceremony, and my marriage, had/have nothing to do with religion. Marriage predates religion (including Christianity, obviously), and will outlast religion (including Christianity). The concept of "common-law marriage" exists in Canadian law, and is essentially a throw-back to our medieval ancestors. When two people live together and have children together, they are married. Personally I think that should be recognised with either a party or a formal declaration to a government registry; but I appreciate not wanting to throw a party if it's your second time, or you can't afford to.
  • saturda... seathan... 2011/12/17 01:41:28
    saturdayschild
    You may be in a happy marriage, and, in fact, so am I, but I think outside my box. I realize that most marriages fail, and especially when children are involved, the law sides with the woman. The government should not recognize the relationships that people share.
  • seathan... saturda... 2011/12/18 17:09:47
    seathanaich
    "but I think outside my box"

    Gosh, what a charming way to insult me. Piss off.
  • saturda... seathan... 2011/12/19 05:45:02
    saturdayschild
    Well, excuse me! How touchy some people can be! All I'm saying is that marriage is obsolete. It no longer has meaning. You can be in and out of a relationship in very little time, and then into another one. You can do this with or without marriage.

    Tell me, how does marriage affect any relationship nowadays? It doesn't add love, respect, understanding, commitment, etc. It's just a piece of paper that the government acknowledges that two people are a couple. I do not want the government involved in my private life.
  • DS in Oak Ridge NC 2011/12/16 21:39:37
    DS in Oak Ridge NC
    +1
    I've got more than 20 years in my current marriage, and understand that not everyone is up for the roller-coaster ride that can entail. I attribute our long-term success to advice I was given in my first years of marriage. Figure out what losing 50% of your 'stuff' might cost you, and spend ~1% of that or so each year on gifts of lasting value (jewelry counts)... that goes a long way to keeping the peace. Just a word to the wise.
  • saturda... DS in O... 2011/12/17 01:42:53
    saturdayschild
    +1
    What you said is a point I've been trying to make. A man can work hard for what he's earned, and a divorce can take it away. Men should especially beware of marriage entrapment.
  • Sadisticon DS in O... 2011/12/17 14:00:45
    Sadisticon
    lol. Great advice.
  • DS in O... Sadisticon 2011/12/17 22:53:34
    DS in Oak Ridge NC
    Thanks. And since jewelry and whatnots will eventually go to our kids, it's an investment in more than just peace and tranquility.
  • Get Bashed 2011/12/16 21:34:12
    Get Bashed
    +1
    Of course marriage is still relevant, that's what My Wife told me anyways...Hahahaha. I think it's important to show others that you can make a life commitment to a fellow human being and follow through with it!
  • JayLynx 2011/12/16 21:24:06
    JayLynx
    +1
    I dont know if traditional marriage is relevant, neither an expensive wedding party. But an union between two adults, with the responsability of giving each other from your better, it's still relevant. To meet and know someone else, taking firm root; to experience special love, sharing sad and happy moments; to fight daily battles together, to conquering things and sharing them; to raise kids... All that is essential to keep us alive and emotionally balanced.
    I don't want to get old alone. Who does want it?
  • Aspect of B 2011/12/16 21:11:42
    Aspect of B
    +1
    It will always be relevant. It might and probably will become less and less popular, but it will always still be welcome.
  • PяєттyYσυиgTнiиg 2011/12/16 20:58:24
  • Tuna 2011/12/16 20:50:16
    Tuna
    We tried to protect the sanctity of marriage; anybody can do it now; doesn't have the Holy Sacrament quality any more.

    gay marriage
  • Bastion Tuna 2011/12/16 21:00:47
    Bastion
    +6
    That's great, since this is a secular country. The whole "sacrament" superstition is so primitive.

    Marriage is about shared property rights and parental responsibility. The rest of it is just magical thinking and mythological traditions that are unique to individuals, and have no justification for being codified into secular law.
  • Tuna Bastion 2011/12/16 21:03:49
    Tuna
    it's about one man and one woman becoming one flesh and producing children to carry on. That's how God would describe it; He invented it.
  • Bastion Tuna 2011/12/16 21:09:26
    Bastion
    +3
    God was invented by humans, so your point is invalid.

    Should married people who DON'T produce children be jailed?
  • Bobbie ... Tuna 2011/12/17 05:47:51
    Bobbie ballard
    Thats right God made marriage to n a convenant for better or worse to respect n honor until long as u both shall live
  • Disko P... Bobbie ... 2011/12/19 10:15:45
    Disko Pickle
    That's only true if you choose to enter into that covenant.
  • Disko P... Tuna 2011/12/19 10:00:49
    Disko Pickle
    Millions of men and women become one flesh every weekend without getting married. Most of them Christians.
  • Tuna Disko P... 2011/12/19 12:01:19
    Tuna
    The children is where they become one flesh; gays can't do that.
  • Disko P... Tuna 2011/12/22 01:28:45
  • Tuna Disko P... 2011/12/22 12:29:48
    Tuna
    The bible; what have gays to do with the word of God?
  • Disko P... Tuna 2011/12/23 01:45:10
    Disko Pickle
    Gays are God's chosen people. Here's the evidence: http://www.sodahead.com/unite...
  • Tuna Disko P... 2011/12/23 12:14:00 (edited)
    Tuna
    God refers to gays as dogs; the word dog is a curse word in those parts of the world for that reason. God's chosen people are the seed of Jacob; gays don't produce offspring.
  • Disko P... Tuna 2011/12/24 05:43:34
    Disko Pickle
    Gays don't produce offspring? Do you seriously think that the genitals of gay people are non-functioning? !
  • Tuna Disko P... 2011/12/24 11:08:15
    Tuna
    Gonna create a new species huh? That'll bring God down for sure; "just like in the days of Noah, so shall the end be. They will be giving and taking in marriage until they be swept by the flood."
  • janineA j Bastion 2011/12/16 22:22:22
    janineA j
    Explain what you mean by "secular country"? Marriage is so much more than a cold business contract as you describe it. Why are traditions mythical to you? Traditions are what billions of people have lived and struggled through to foster & preserve each new generation through life. Marriage is first of all building a bond between a man and a woman through endless work, sacrifice & loyalty. The couple will become one unit taking on each others' burdens. Hard times is part of it--- this is called growing. Marriage is not for the weak, the delusional nor, the uncommitted.
  • Bastion janineA j 2011/12/16 23:23:42
    Bastion
    +1
    The relationship itself can be the most important compact two people can make in their entire lives - I agree - which is why trying to control it and limit it and define it with one culture's rules and traditions degrades it.

    The base responsibilities - those which effect society, progeny and property - are and should be state recorded and enforced contracts. But the personal and individual relationship dynamics are up to the couple involved - and are nobody else's business, as long as they fulfill society's obligations.
  • Grayfox... Bastion 2011/12/17 10:13:43
  • Bastion Grayfox... 2011/12/17 12:15:08
    Bastion
    +2
    Same with older heterosexual couples who aren't having more children?
  • Sadisticon Bastion 2011/12/17 14:03:47
    Sadisticon
    +1
    pretty much... and bigoted idiots shouldn't be allowed to reproduce

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