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Mothers Hiring Professional Birth Photographers: Reasonable or Ridiculous?

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Forget the days of dad or other family members snapping photos in the delivery room. Now, a growing number of women are turning to professional photographers to document the miracle of childbirth.

In recent years, the birth photography industry has really taken off. They even have their own professional organization, the International Association of Professional Birth Photographers, which has roughly 400 members.

According to The New York Times, professional birth photographers charge anywhere from $700 to $1,900. That’s pretty pricey. But then again, these photographers do have to be available to come rushing to the hospital at a moment’s notice.

So, you may be wondering: How graphic do these birth photos actually get? Apparently, that’s a pretty common question.

Briana Kalajian, a co-owner of Shoots and Giggles Photography, told The New York Times, “People will ask if I’m going to take the National Geographic birth photo. They ask it in 10 different ways.”

The answer: During delivery, most photographers choose to stand near the mother’s head unless a crowning shot is specifically requested.

Dr. Randi Hutter Epstein, author of “Get Me Out: A History of Childbirth from the Garden of Eden to the Sperm Bank,” blames celebrity culture for the desire to turn childbirth into a photo shoot.

“There is a lot of pressure to not just cherish the birth experience but to promote it as this beautiful thing,” she said. “Then you’re going to get into your skinny jeans the next day and have a beautiful photograph of you looking absolutely beautiful and well rested with your perfect-looking baby, like all the celebrities.”

Now before you run off to find a professional birth photographer of your own, please keep in mind that many hospitals ban cameras from the delivery room.

So Sodaheads, what do you think about mothers hiring professional birth photographers? Reasonable or ridiculous?

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  • TasselLady HBO 2012/06/19 00:17:37
    TasselLady
    +1
    Many already have. I see that as a private moment with family and the hubby.
  • HBO TasselLady 2012/06/29 10:51:59
    HBO
    I know many people have, I've seen them. But that's a choice they made. And there's nothing wrong with doing so, just as there's nothing wrong with not posting it, To each their own. I wouldn't put it on You Tube but I certainly don't see it as a private moment. You have doctors and nurses in and out, any family that came and when you start to deliver it's more of a joyous moment.
  • Michelle 2012/06/18 20:00:48
    Reasonable
    Michelle
    +2
    If they want photos of such a precious moment in their lives, and they can afford a professional photographer, who am I to judge? It's not in my personal taste, and I think it would take a special kind of person to want to become a birth photographer... but the mothers aren't being particularly unreasonable...
  • Taxman 2012/06/18 19:52:53 (edited)
    Reasonable
    Taxman
    +1
    Why not spend a ton of money for something that is unnecessary? I mean the photos, not the list of charges the hospital is going to send you. Do you have to sign a release so the photographer and hang a 3' x 3' glossy of the birth on their studio wall?
  • it'sme 2012/06/18 19:17:07
    Ridiculous
    it'sme
    +2
    eww!!!
  • anna.stinson.39 2012/06/18 19:16:08
    Ridiculous
    anna.stinson.39
    +2
    Seriously? You are in an awkward position already and in serious pain. You already have a few family members watching you give birth along with a huge medical and nursing staff to help in case of emergency for both mother and newborn. Do you really need a stranger at the foot of the bed filming what looks like an alien coming out of you too? Life is a beautiful thing, but should only be kept with those in the family and dear close friends. Atleast get your bestfriend to video it for you! Geesh!
  • barby karring 2012/06/18 19:12:49
    Reasonable
    barby karring
    +2
    Giving birth is so personable to women, but having a stranger to shoot photos of the birthing event seems a little sinister on her behalf, instead of having familiars to shoot the event such as best friend or hubby if married; well to each her own, it's her body her choice who see what coming out; however chilbirth is beautiful' but not for the faint of heart in witnessing it and holding it together to document the occasion._
  • Waiting in the Wings 2012/06/18 19:01:43
    Ridiculous
    Waiting in the Wings
    +3
    I've never given birth, but if I ever get around to it, the fewer people the better in the delivery room. The medical staff and husband (hopefully I'm married if I'm starting a family).
  • Emily 2012/06/18 18:52:38
    Ridiculous
    Emily
    +2
    That's absurd. The only person I'm having in the delivery room besides the medical staff is my husband. No camera allowed!





  • imsmarter 2012/06/18 18:37:54
    Reasonable
    imsmarter
    +1
    Who cares how other people spend their money. There is nothing wrong with wanting to capture that moment. Why do people care so much?
  • 1wickedwitch 2012/06/18 18:33:19
    Ridiculous
    1wickedwitch
    +3
    sorry .but I want to keep all that to myself
  • U Mad Bro? 2012/06/18 18:12:54
  • Bibliophilic 2012/06/18 17:41:36
    Ridiculous
    Bibliophilic
    +5
    If I were giving birth I would NOT want a photographer standing by!
  • Mandy 2012/06/18 17:25:09
    Ridiculous
    Mandy
    +2
    To each their own, but honestly, I didn't want anyone documenting that experience. Plus, aren't kids expensive enough already? Why shell out even more dough?
  • kobidobidog 2012/06/18 17:21:34 (edited)
    Reasonable
    kobidobidog
    +4
    Humans fussing over nothing. Naked birth is normal, and natural. We take pictures of non human animals giving birth, Relax.
  • bettyboop kobidob... 2012/06/19 00:12:52
    bettyboop
    +1
    I agree
  • JessicaLynn 2012/06/18 17:21:27
    Ridiculous
    JessicaLynn
    +5
    A side from your partner, and the other fifty people (doctors and nurses) who get to ogle your vagina, now we add a photographer. Nice.
  • kobidob... Jessica... 2012/06/18 17:23:46 (edited)
    kobidobidog
    +2
    Oooooooo vaginas are baaaaaad LOL, get a grip lady.
  • Jessica... kobidob... 2012/06/18 17:27:34
    JessicaLynn
    +3
    I never said vagina's are bad, but I do not want all kinds of people looking at mine while a child is coming out. And I definitely do not want my vagina immortalized in a photo. Please stop trolling.
  • imsmarter Jessica... 2012/06/18 19:06:28
    imsmarter
    lol fair warning... whether you have a photographer or not there WILL be all kinds of people in and out of the hospital room seeing your vagina while you are giving birth.
  • Jessica... imsmarter 2012/06/19 14:27:02
    JessicaLynn
    I have 4 children. I think I know this. But I DO NOT need to add more to the list.
  • imsmarter Jessica... 2012/06/19 17:06:21
    imsmarter
    lol so you are aware that "all kinds of people" were looking at your vagina anyway right? LOL
  • Jessica... imsmarter 2012/06/20 14:20:00
    JessicaLynn
    So you are aware that it is my choice not to have one more person added to the list of people looking. At least the other people looking are not taking photos of it. And if you would have read my previous comment you would have already known all this. Be informed BEFORE rattling off. If you do not like my opinion than good for you, but I really don't care. But thanks for showing me what kind of person you are! :)
  • imsmarter Jessica... 2012/06/20 16:14:09
    imsmarter
    Take a chill pill. I was merely pointing out that in my birth experience there were a crapload of people in there. Even more because I gave birth at a teaching hospital. There wasn't a photographer there (unless you count my mom and husband with cameras) but I don't even think I would have noticed the difference if there was one. I never said you should have one. My first point was informing you (because I didn't know you had children then) that you would have a bunch of people there. My second was more for humor. You take things way too serious. No one is putting a gun to your head and demanding you give birth while a photographer snaps shots. Relax.
  • Jessica... imsmarter 2012/06/23 16:28:29
    JessicaLynn
    Really? You come at me saying whatever, and I am the one who needs to chill? Really? And the simple fact is that I did nothing for you to say I need a chill pill. If you got offended and thought I was reacting negatively to you, well again, that is your problem. You have no effect one me either way. You are severely over reacting, but, one more time, that is your problem.

    And in any discussion you should always be well informed BEFORE making any comments, because it makes you look foolish. What does make me laugh is that you felt it necessary to remark on my comment, when there were comments that are ridiculous and could use a few comments. The original comment said: "A side from your partner, and the other fifty people (doctors and nurses) who get to ogle your vagina, now we add a photographer. Nice." So if you would have read that you would have known that I know what I am talking about.

    In conclusion, I think it is you who should take the aforementioned "chill pill" and please do not project your negative feeling onto me. I simply replied to your comments in the most appropriate manner. You get back what you put out. Kind of like karma, just I work faster. And finally, if you don't like it, well I really, truly and honestly do not care. Thank you.
  • imsmarter Jessica... 2012/06/24 22:07:50 (edited)
    imsmarter
    you mad gif
    Again, chill, it's not that serious.
  • Jessica... imsmarter 2012/06/24 23:53:30
    JessicaLynn
    Really? You keep making me laugh. Thank you.
  • imsmarter Jessica... 2012/06/25 01:32:49
    imsmarter
    you mad gif
    =D
  • Jessica... imsmarter 2012/06/27 15:55:15
    JessicaLynn
    +1
    I was wondering why you were trolling me so hardcore, then I took a glance at your profile. First I noticed you were a little girl of only 24. Then I noticed you were a New Yorker. Enough said right there. Everyone knows New Yorker's are trash of the earth. Lowest form of life. So This will definitely be my last reply. Stay strong and keep trolling. I really feel sorry for you.
  • imsmarter Jessica... 2012/06/27 16:24:46
  • lynn.963 imsmarter 2012/06/27 16:44:22
    lynn.963
    +4
    If you didn't care you wouldn't reply. Now you are a troll and a liar. People who don't care what others think of them don't waste the time explaining that they don't care, they just let it go. And honestly I do not think that this person is implying that they are envious of you. Just pointing out you are immature. Why do you keep bothering this woman? Do you have no life? Just my opinion, but you know what they say about opinions lol.
  • Jessica... lynn.963 2012/06/27 16:47:49
    JessicaLynn
    Correct. But someone like her does not have the intelligence to understand the point. Thank you.
  • imsmarter Jessica... 2012/06/27 17:10:27
    imsmarter
    i thought your last reply was your last reply? interesting.
  • imsmarter lynn.963 2012/06/27 16:51:29
    imsmarter
    you realize she also is continuing to reply right? I will too.
  • lynn.963 imsmarter 2012/06/27 16:18:13
    lynn.963
    +2
    I think you are mad because your ass got owned. Don't hate because you are a dumb ass. Your screen name should be "everyday I am trolling". People like you should be banned from the internet.
  • imsmarter lynn.963 2012/06/27 16:25:20 (edited)
    imsmarter
    Why because I didn't "seriously" respond to someone taking something further then it needed to go? because instead of rehashing I replied with a comical picture? sorry, but I chose to non-offensively reply. You don't have to like it. There is a block feature you know.
  • lynn.963 imsmarter 2012/06/27 16:35:04
    lynn.963
    +2
    You were the one being rude to her. So what if she is a wordy person. Some people like to express themselves. What is it your problem? That is just sad.
  • imsmarter lynn.963 2012/06/27 16:54:45
    imsmarter
    how was I rude? by saying there are already a bunch of people looking at your vag when you have a hospital birth? or explaining my own? so her saying "shows what kind of person you are" and then going to my profile so she could insult everything about it isn't rude right? no... just posting pictures of Oprah is.
  • Mrs. Ka... kobidob... 2012/06/18 18:06:40
    Mrs. Kathy Arch
    +2
    It isn't YOUR crotch that will be photographed, now is it?
  • lynn.963 Jessica... 2012/06/27 16:16:29
    lynn.963
    +3
    I am assuming your middle name is Lynn? Love it. lol I agree with what you said. I had all home births. Just my husband, myself and a midwife. I like my private parts private, lol. It cost a lot to have a home birth but if you are blessed enough it is definitely the better choice.

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