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Mitt Romney Was A High School Gay-Bashing Bully

☥☽✪☾DAW ☽✪☾ 2012/05/10 15:31:06
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Mitt Romney, the presumptive GOP presidential nominee, was a gay-bashing high school bully who said, “Atta girl,” to effeminate boys and shockingly had a days-long emotional attack that culminated with him pinning down a gay classmate and cutting off his bleached-blond long hair. Governor Romney claims he has no memory of any of these incidents that date back to 1965, according to a lengthy and heart-wrenching exposé in today’s Washington Post. An excerpt:
John Lauber, a soft-spoken new student one year behind Romney, was perpetually teased for his nonconformity and presumed homosexuality. Now he was walking around the all-boys school with bleached-blond hair that draped over one eye, and Romney wasn’t having it.
“He can’t look like that. That’s wrong. Just look at him!” an incensed Romney told Matthew Friedemann, his close friend in the Stevens Hall dorm, according to Friedemann’s recollection. Mitt, the teenaged son of Michigan Gov. George Romney, kept complaining about Lauber’s look, Friedemann recalled.
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A few days later, Friedemann entered Stevens Hall off the school’s collegiate quad to find Romney marching out of his own room ahead of a prep school posse shouting about their plan to cut Lauber’s hair. Friedemann followed them to a nearby room where they came upon Lauber, tackled him and pinned him to the ground. As Lauber, his eyes filling with tears, screamed for help, Romney repeatedly clipped his hair with a pair of scissors.
The incident was recalled similarly by five students, who gave their accounts independently of one another. Four of them — Friedemann, now a dentist; Phillip Maxwell, a lawyer; Thomas Buford, a retired prosecutor; and David Seed, a retired principal — spoke on the record. Another former student who witnessed the incident asked not to be named. The men have differing political affiliations, although they mostly lean Democratic. Buford volunteered for Barack Obama’s campaign in 2008. Seed, a registered independent, has served as a Republican county chairman in Michigan. All of them said that politics in no way colored their recollections.
“It happened very quickly, and to this day it troubles me,” said Buford, the school’s wrestling champion, who said he joined Romney in restraining Lauber. Buford subsequently apologized to Lauber, who was “terrified,” he said. “What a senseless, stupid, idiotic thing to do.”
“It was a hack job,” recalled Maxwell, a childhood friend of Romney who was in the dorm room when the incident occurred. “It was vicious.”
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The Post article concludes with an emotional note about John Lauber:
He came out as gay to his family and close friends and led a vagabond life, taking dressage lessons in England and touring with the Royal Lipizzaner Stallion riders.
His hair thinned as he aged, and in the winter of 2004 he returned to Seattle, the closest thing he had to a base. He died there of liver cancer that December.
He kept his hair blond until he died, said his sister Chris. “He never stopped bleaching it.”
But Lauber was not the only target for the gay-bashing Mitt Romney.
In an English class, Gary Hummel, who was a closeted gay student at the time, recalled that his efforts to speak out in class were punctuated with Romney shouting, “Atta girl!” In the culture of that time and place, that was not entirely out of the norm. Hummel recalled some teachers using similar language.
Saul, Romney’s campaign spokeswoman, said the candidate has no recollection of the incident.
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Yes, it was 1965, a different time, when these acts of anti-gay bullying were not just ignored or accepted, but often condoned.
But the handful of Mitt Romney’s classmates who either participated or didn’t stop it, not only remember his gay-bashing, they feel terrible about it. For Romney to not remember, and thus be affected by his own gay-bashing, speaks volumes about his character.
The Romney campaign, and others, no doubt would say it was 1965. It doesn’t matter. But Mitt Romney married his wife Ann in 1969, just four years later, and that certainly matters in his campaign.
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And they have on their campaign website a video that shows Mitt’s life, beginning with 1968, with the note:
“I think there’s one word that would be high on my list of a few words you would describe Mitt with. It would be trust. I think the qualities Mitt would bring to the Oval Office would be integrity, intelligence, an ability to see a problem and see a solution and make people recognize that he has those leadership qualities that would unite many people.” – Ann Romney
At what point do your actions matter?

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  • sjalan 2012/05/10 15:40:46
    Romney "not recalling" his gay bashing is like Billy Graham not recalling his...
    sjalan
    +6
    This guy is an absolute nut case. This is going to be the battle of the 21st century and a "Y" in the road for our country. Do we chose to follow back to 1950's and start the walk all over again or do we pick up where we are and progress to a more mature society.

    I pick President Obama and a more mature society.

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  • Drake 2012/07/03 03:32:34
  • Psyblade 2012/05/28 22:28:57
    Romney "not recalling" his gay bashing is like Billy Graham not recalling his...
    Psyblade
    Can't say I'm shocked.
  • Willie 2012/05/27 16:06:57
    God has a Message for all the Racist Bigots Stop using his name to justify yo...
    Willie
    I'm less concerned about what Mitt did in 1965 than I am with the way he reacts to breaking news of it today. We've all done things we aren't proud of. I haven't "forgotten" any of the things I did to harm others, even when I was drunk or high. I remember them vividly, and I have tried to do my best to make amends for them.

    I would really have gained some respect for Mitt if he had said something like, "I remember that incident vividly. That boy's screams have haunted me for many years. I was a young man trying to hide his own insecurity, and I took that out on that poor boy. I am deeply ashamed of my actions that day, and I wish that boy was here for me to apologize to."

    Whether or not it was sincere, it would make a statement of concern about bullying. What Mitt did, the reaction he had, "I don't remember," tells young people today that bullying, bigotry and abuse are inconsequential, and that is the real problem.
  • Queen Katherine 2012/05/27 00:22:44
    Romney "not recalling" his gay bashing is like Billy Graham not recalling his...
    Queen Katherine
    I'm not surprised at all
  • Daedalus 2012/05/26 20:29:16
    and people would want him in power?
    Daedalus
    +2
    You can tell who he is just looking at his face. I bet he ran for class President too.

    bet ran class president
  • Dagon 2012/05/26 18:54:02
  • ☥☽✪☾DAW... Dagon 2012/05/26 19:44:21
  • Dagon ☥☽✪☾DAW... 2012/05/26 19:50:00
  • Daedalus Dagon 2012/05/26 20:31:22 (edited)
    Daedalus
    +1
    I didn't like people who did stuff like that back in Junior High and High School. Why would I start appreciating him for who he is now? Geesh!
  • Dagon Daedalus 2012/05/26 20:45:24
  • Daedalus Dagon 2012/05/26 21:12:01 (edited)
    Daedalus
    +1
    It could easily be worse under President Mitt.
  • Dagon Daedalus 2012/05/26 21:18:24
  • Daedalus Dagon 2012/05/26 21:24:31 (edited)
    Daedalus
    +1
    It will work out, America just has to push out the Republican terrorists and make a few changes.

    BTW I own business in and am a citizen of both United States and Canada; which is why I comment so much on these topics.
  • Dagon Daedalus 2012/05/27 04:23:10
  • Willie Dagon 2012/05/27 16:10:15
    Willie
    +2
    "I don't remember," is an unacceptable response to these allegations. If you bullied someone until they cried and screamed for help, would you remember it, even 45 years later? I know I would. And if I really didn't remember it, I would say, "That never happened. I would never have behaved like that."

    The real issue is not what did or did not happen in 1965. The real issue is the way Romney responds to the allegations now. Deny it, or admit it and denounce your behavior. "I don't remember" insinuates that the incident was inconsequential. If a child was pinned on the ground, screaming and crying, it was not inconsequential.
  • Dagon Willie 2012/05/27 16:16:27
  • Willie Dagon 2012/05/27 16:25:30
    Willie
    +2
    If you abused another child to the point where he screamed and cried, and you do not remember it, then you are a sociopath. But you didn't. You'd remember it if you did.

    The "new generation" is pretty tough and pretty resilient, by the way. I'm a high school teacher, and I see the kids today as being tougher and more grounded in reality than they were when I was in high school (1970's). I also see that parents are stricter now than they were then, and society is harder on kids. They're being watched and monitored in ways we never were when I was a kid.
  • Dagon Willie 2012/05/27 20:43:23
  • Willie Dagon 2012/05/28 06:20:53
    Willie
    I've been in Arizona for one year. I spent nine years in Ohio, one in New Hampshire and 40 in New York. They were all America.
  • Bear 2012/05/16 11:30:15
    God has a Message for all the Racist Bigots Stop using his name to justify yo...
    Bear
    And this is a surprise.........how?
  • Lindsey 2012/05/15 22:50:53
    Romney "not recalling" his gay bashing is like Billy Graham not recalling his...
    Lindsey
    +3
    He's such an ass, it just radiates off of him
  • JimTheGeek 2012/05/14 03:04:28
    The Truth Revealed about Romney
    JimTheGeek
    +3
    The Republicans will say that what someone did in high school no longer matters; that everyone did something during those times that was embarassing. But it DOES matter, as one's principles and ethics are developed during one's high school years. Or what would be the point of going to school at all, especially some hoity toity private school, if it did not teach one how to behave and think in one's future endeavors?
  • Dagon JimTheGeek 2012/05/26 18:56:16
  • Willie Dagon 2012/05/27 16:12:25
    Willie
    And today you admit what you did, and talk about how you have made an effort to do better. Good for you.

    Romney is neither admitting nor denying the incident. He's brushing it off as inconsequential with his "I don't remember" response. That's neither mature nor respectful.
  • Dagon Willie 2012/05/27 16:17:56
  • Willie Dagon 2012/05/27 16:27:11
    Willie
    +1
    If that's the case, then the thing for Romney to do would be to say, "That never happened. I may have slung some insults and been insensitive, but I never would have gone so far as to pin a boy down and cut his hair while he screamed and cried. This charge is preposterous and I strenuously deny it."

    "I don't remember," just doesn't cut it.
  • Dagon Willie 2012/05/27 20:44:19
  • sherie 2012/05/12 00:49:06
    Romney "not recalling" his gay bashing is like Billy Graham not recalling his...
    sherie
    +2
    Unbelievable
  • ☥☽✪☾DAW... sherie 2012/05/12 13:55:40
  • sherie sherie 2012/05/16 01:05:42
    sherie
    +2
    I meant Romney is unbelievable ...not the comment ;)
  • AnonRanGER 2012/05/11 19:50:46
    Romney "not recalling" his gay bashing is like Billy Graham not recalling his...
    AnonRanGER
    +1
    Dude, I like your polls, but please always offer a neutral option.
  • Luxxie 2012/05/11 17:35:54
    The Truth Revealed about Romney
    Luxxie
    +2
    What he did was just awful. And he says he doesn't remember that ! Such people do not deserve to be in power, Romney seems like the person who exploits others for personal gain...
  • Bob S 2012/05/11 17:05:26
    God has a Message for all the Racist Bigots Stop using his name to justify yo...
    Bob S
    The pathetic left wing waco progressives must be scared to death that they would go back 50 years to find something wrong about Romney. I am not for what ever it is RUMORED to be that he did but this is reaching to far. Hell we can find many things about the OBUMMER since he evolved in just 24 hours. Is it possible that the HYPOCRITE who bashes the 1%ers every single minute EXCEPT when he slithers into the HOLLYWOOD of the really big 1%ers asking for money honey and walks away with 15 illion pluys. Tomnorrow when out of town the 1% bashing begins anew.
  • ☥☽✪☾DAW... Bob S 2012/05/11 17:20:40
    ☥☽✪☾DAW ☽✪☾
    +1
    actually Romney has since apologized for it
  • JimTheGeek ☥☽✪☾DAW... 2012/05/14 03:08:02
    JimTheGeek
    +2
    Actually he did not apologize for it. He said that if something like that happened, and he could not remember it happening, then he apologized for it. Until he acknowledges it took place, there is no apology.
  • AnonRanGER Bob S 2012/05/11 19:18:01 (edited)
    AnonRanGER
    +2
    Why do you think Romney said he didn't remember instead of that he didn't DO it? Wouldn't you remember if you held someone down and cut their hair while they were struggling and screaming?
    I find it amusing how you are trying to turn Romney having been a homophobic bully into an argument against Obama. Kinda cute.
  • ☥☽✪☾DAW... AnonRanGER 2012/05/12 19:54:50
  • painted... Bob S 2012/05/26 19:22:16
    painted desert
    +3
    First off this question isn't about President Obama. But if it was, your statement about the progressives must be scared to death that they would go back 50 years to find something wrong with Romney. Oh you mean like all the birthers?
  • Queen B painted... 2012/05/26 19:41:44
  • fudge35 2012/05/11 15:52:50
    Romney "not recalling" his gay bashing is like Billy Graham not recalling his...
    fudge35
    +2
    OK, I understand kids do some dumb things, but being a bully is a little different. It shows some really deficient personality traits. But he saying he can't recall doing this, when the others all remember joining in or watching this bully. Holding someone down and cutting their hair, while the victim was screaming and crying, and pleading for help, and he says he can't remember that is incredulous. His apology was really deficient, and calling it a prank. It wasn't a prank, it was torture, that probably scared this kid as an adult.

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