Is it strange for a girl to want to take a guy's virginity?

by Jena Who? Posted 2009/11/06 01:09:17

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Ok... there's this guy I've known for like... 4-5 years, there has always been a major attraction between us, but I moved away for a while and now i have a kid yadda yadda yadda. But anyways, me and him have started talking again, and it seems like no matter what there's always fireworks between us. Thing is this guy was like a major church boy growing up, he's 21 now and grown out of that... BUT I think he's still a virgin. Sadly, this just makes me want him more! Is that wrong?

Clayton Marr 2010/07/09 04:39:55

Thats hot, tbh..

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Ironeye Markland 2009/11/14 19:50:29

Nah!I lost mine when I was to young to laugh ha,ha,before I was 8 or 9.Different times 40 years ago,tripped out naturally for a few months.Didn't understand what was really going on just happened.She more or less did me I was just a dumb little country boy then!She was a year or two older than me.And no I don't think thats wrong'BuT'I did have to learn everything again at 25,now at 48 I'm flattered you asked

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Pooka 2009/11/06 21:12:25

Nope it's not. It's kind of pretty common nowadays.

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Chaotixa 2009/11/06 16:43:59

no i dont think its wrong, i think its its a valid sexual fantasy. if you're both available, i think you should go for it, see if he feels the same way you do, and if so, jump on it! :)

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kmay 2009/11/06 15:37:56

Yes, because it's self centered lust just as it is in reverse for the guy.

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SATAN 2009/11/06 10:45:09

FFS.... only in america...

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Bobby 48 2009/11/06 08:56:25

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melissa 2009/11/06 04:04:30

I though it was the other way the guy's wanted a virgin not the girl wanted a virgin guy. It seems like you are coming on a little too strong. Don't you think?

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AmericanVirus 2009/11/06 02:55:23

I know a lot of girls that have a sort of fetish for wanting to guys virginity. Your situation sounds like a much more focused version of that.

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Kari 2009/11/06 02:48:56

It's not wrong at all. He is an adult, so you shouldn't feel too weird about it. I suppose it is a bit out of the ordinary that a woman wants to take a man's virginity. I guess I just can't understand why. I wouldn't want to have to teach a guy how to have sex. He doesn't typically know what he's doing the first time, and I really wouldn't want to be in such an awkward situation, hehe.

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Pablo 2009/11/06 02:25:33

I guess you have the same challenge men have for virgin girls.
However, without getting too riske', I must add that if a man had a 'wet dream', then he is no longer a virgin ?
Pablo

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Chaotixa to Pablo 2009/11/06 16:45:27

he's still a virgin. having a wet dream does not constitute sexual intercourse.

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Ms.Tavia 2009/11/06 02:14:05

+1
I dont c nothing wrong with it you guys have been friends forever. Its like yourdoing him a favor/or it could come between ur friendship that would be the reason not to

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Jena Who? to Ms.Tavia 2009/11/06 02:15:17

Yeah... I know what you mean. That's why I haven't asked him out or anything yet...

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Areyah 2009/11/06 02:08:08

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Nah, you just want to have that....dominating feeling I guess Lol. You being in control and having this man eating out of the palm of your hands and doing anything you tell him to....you know, that really doesn't sound like such a bad idea...Maybe I should look more into Travis...LOL

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Jena Who? to Areyah 2009/11/06 02:11:44

hahahaha Go for it! lol Or... No He's creepy o_O Now Harely... hehehe go for him!

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Areyah to Jena Who? 2009/11/06 02:18:02

Lol thats exactly what my mom and her friend Lynn keep telling me Lol

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Jena Who? to Areyah 2009/11/06 02:20:09

lolz Who knows, maybe Harley's a virgin *wink wink*

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Areyah to Jena Who? 2009/11/06 02:21:47

Haha I should ask him tomorrow and see how he reacts.

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Jena Who? to Areyah 2009/11/06 02:25:39

Oh Em Gee! If you do you so have to record it! lolz That or make sure to mentally document each moment so you can tell me!

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Areyah to Jena Who? 2009/11/06 02:26:44

HAhaha it'll be hilarious!

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Hula girl - Friends not Fol... 2009/11/06 02:07:42

It's more important and why you want to disrespect that person that way if they are wanting to wait?

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Jena Who? to Hula gi... 2009/11/06 02:11:01

+1
What the hell!? It's not like I'm out there trying to rape this guy!

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Lady D.J 2009/11/06 01:47:03

+1
i didn't even know guys could be virgins o.0

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Jena Who? to Lady D.J 2009/11/06 01:50:06

hahaha Aren't you a virgin if you've never had sex before?

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Lady D.J to Jena Who? 2009/11/06 01:58:11

well, if its because you never had sex before then yeah guys can be, to bad it doesn't hurt them :(

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Jena Who? to Lady D.J 2009/11/06 01:59:11

+1
I know... Lucky bastards...

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Chaotixa to Lady D.J 2009/11/06 16:47:25

+1
lmao

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hows my aim? 2009/11/06 01:20:02

it goes against the sterio types but i say go for it.

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Neon Secrets 2009/11/06 01:11:11

No I don't see why that would be wrong. A lot of guys want to take girls virginity...

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novotewasted 2009/11/06 01:10:53

Nope... I had two girls tell me they wanted to do this... I was really shocked. Seriously... This is totally opposite of what I understood to be the norm!

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