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Is It OK for a Child to Have More Than Two Parents?

Fef 2012/07/03 21:00:00
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California Democrats want to increase the number of parents a child can have. SB 1476 would allow a child to have more than two parents at the same time in order to accommodate same-sex parents, surrogates, assisted reproduction, and other non-traditional parental relationships.

SacBee.com reports: Mom and Dad, same-sex couples or blended families, California law is clear: No more than two legal parents per child. State Sen. Mark Leno is pushing legislation to allow a child to have multiple parents.

"The bill brings California into the 21st century, recognizing that there are more than Ozzie and Harriet families today," Leno said. But some disagree. "It comes as no surprise that he would try to say that a child has more than two parents – that's absurd," said Benjamin Lopez, a legislative analyst for Traditional Values Coalition, a Bible-based civil rights group.

SacBee points out potential problems and complexities caused by SB 1476:
Tax deductions, citizenship, probate, public assistance, school notifications and Social Security rights all can be affected by determinations of parenthood, notes the Association of Certified Family Law Specialists.

Examples of three-parent relationships that could be affected by SB 1476 include: 1) A family in which a man began dating a woman while she was pregnant, then raised that child with her for seven years. The youth also had a parental relationship with the biological father. 2) A same-sex couple who asked a close male friend to help them conceive, then decided that all three would raise the child. 3) A divorce in which a woman and her second husband were the legal parents of a child, but the biological father maintained close ties as well. How do you feel about the proposed bill?

Read More: http://www.sacbee.com/2012/07/02/4604048/californi...

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  • MCA wilsonmja 2012/07/08 06:46:34
    MCA
    You keep trying to change things to your way. It's NATURAL for man and woman to procreate! If you cant get past natures way because it doesn't agree with yours, then there's no point in continuing. Yourconcern is for the parents. Mine is for the children. It's my opinion and your going off topic won't change it. Your mind is closed to what's natural vs what the way you want it to be. Have a great life and do all you can to give children the best life possible. They are our future! Bye
  • wilsonmja MCA 2012/07/08 14:46:06
    wilsonmja
    You are the one being closel minded. You're stuck on this whole nature thing. Of course it's natural for man and woman to procreate, but circumstances are so that there are children without homes and parents. There are hukan fetuses being killed because they are unwanted. Drug addicted parents are neglecting their children, sometimes to death. Kids are being kidnapped and sold into slavery for purposes of labor and sex. Broken homes, orphanages, sexually abusive fathers.......and you're stuck on what you think nature has de decided? You're extremely close minded. Nature doesn't decide anything. Existence isn't some grand plan. We are here and everything that goes on here is by definition nature. How ca something truly be unnatural if it is taking place within the laws of physics and within the realm of existence....oh never mind, a philisophical discussion is too much for your bigoted pee brain to handle.
  • MCA wilsonmja 2012/07/08 17:56:50
    MCA
    You sniveling little coward! You know nothing of me to make such a completely false accusation against me! Not once did I attack you personally! Typical, TYPICAL, for narrow minded people like you to resort to name calling and making poor judgement on others! That's why you will NEVER be able to think of a child FIRST!
    Until you can learn that drug addicted parents, people who abort, etc etc etc are entirely a different subject, you will NEVER have an open brain to accept what's most important! Typical far left Wing nut job who can't debate without attacking an individual! Man I pity you. Grow up!
  • wilsonmja MCA 2012/07/08 18:48:49
    wilsonmja
    Oh, boo hoo. I call it how I see it. You ignore facts that oppose your view and ONLY see those that can be used to support it. You have no ability to see the forest for the trees. You have your mind set that we can't evolve and there is some natural order to things, that there is some grand plan. Pay attention! There are children in terrible places and not enough couples of opposing sex to adopt them. That's how I put the children first. I pay attention to what's reall going in instead of putting my head I the clouds.
  • MCA wilsonmja 2012/07/10 10:05:11
    MCA
    You wouldn't know a fact if it slapped you in the face. I've given you LEGITIMATE places to get real facts. I gave you a civil debate. It was you who resorted to name calling and whining because someone doesn't agree with you or think like you. That makes YOU a bigot. My facts are real. You don't know that because you refuse to go and find out! If you refuse to go, that's your loss and your ignorance. Your head isn't in the clouds, it's buried in the sand. So you just keep in whining and crying and being the selfish jackass you've proven to be. Try learning something for a change instead of wanting something bad enough to make things up. I pity the poor child you may ever try to influence with your bigoted and selfish ways!
  • TommyB 2012/07/04 05:08:16
    No
    TommyB
    +3
    I left California in 1961 and never looked back. This just reinforces my resolve to never return to the land of fruits and nuts.
  • America... TommyB 2012/07/04 06:14:15
    American☆Atheist
    +2
    HAHA you live in TX
  • Kibbles 2012/07/04 05:05:41
    Yes
    Kibbles
    +2
    It takes a village to raise a child.
  • sbtbill 2012/07/04 04:50:25
    Yes
    sbtbill
    +2
    Would think the way things are no that it is common.
  • Your Favorite Nerd Guru 2012/07/04 04:44:17
    Yes
    Your Favorite Nerd Guru
    +1
    Sure, why not?
  • VICTORIA 2012/07/04 04:36:12
    Yes
    VICTORIA
    +5
    Considering that the highest divorce rates ALL occur in "red" states- it seems like the conservatives should be the LAST people who get to have an opinion on the structure of families.
    http://www.divorcestatistics....

    They're like a perpetually dissatisfied Goldilocks- single heads of household parents- no good- now 3 parents- no good- when they can figure out how to keep their own families intact- maybe I'll care about their opinion.

    As it is, we have many families with step=parents- there have always been 4 grandparents- we used to have extended families with lots of adults playing parental roles-

    If 3 people want to love and be responsible for a child- lucky child!
  • MCA VICTORIA 2012/07/04 10:00:42
    MCA
    Do you just make up things, only listen to the left view points without checking them or what? Your statements are grossly inaccurate which means you are simply spreading lies! Try using the US Census site, http://www.census.gov/compend... , which has different numbers from your source, even though your source says its from the census! Then compare it to red / blue states, which you obviously don't know which is which. http://www.270towin.com/ Or maybe you just don't realize that blue is liberal and red is conservative. For data where the census says it's not available, search individual states records. That's what I did. I researched it because I didn't believe you and I wanted to know the truth. Sure would be nice if more liberals did that.

    For your information, liberals have more than twice as many divorces as conservatives based on your red state, blue state criteria.

    The most complete data is from 2009:
    Red States Divorce total: 328,003
    Blue States Divorce Total: 695,818

    As you can see, your way off! Falsely claiming "conservatives should be the LAST people who get to have an opinion" due to a higher divorce rate is bad enough, but to make a statement like that is outrageously bigoted! How would you like it if all liberals opinion don't count since the facts are...



    Do you just make up things, only listen to the left view points without checking them or what? Your statements are grossly inaccurate which means you are simply spreading lies! Try using the US Census site, http://www.census.gov/compend... , which has different numbers from your source, even though your source says its from the census! Then compare it to red / blue states, which you obviously don't know which is which. http://www.270towin.com/ Or maybe you just don't realize that blue is liberal and red is conservative. For data where the census says it's not available, search individual states records. That's what I did. I researched it because I didn't believe you and I wanted to know the truth. Sure would be nice if more liberals did that.

    For your information, liberals have more than twice as many divorces as conservatives based on your red state, blue state criteria.

    The most complete data is from 2009:
    Red States Divorce total: 328,003
    Blue States Divorce Total: 695,818

    As you can see, your way off! Falsely claiming "conservatives should be the LAST people who get to have an opinion" due to a higher divorce rate is bad enough, but to make a statement like that is outrageously bigoted! How would you like it if all liberals opinion don't count since the facts are in and they get divorced twice as much? Seems fair going by your rules and statements!

    You stated, "when they can figure out how to keep their own families intact- maybe I'll care about their opinion". When you can stop being blinded by your political party to the point of discriminating against people you don't even know, maybe then I'll care about your bigoted opinion. Actually, don't hold your breath. I don't listen to bigots. Check your facts before you spread more liberal lies like your president does.

    Conservatives and liberals both make good parents. What's important is the child! Not what someone wants to do for sex!
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  • VICTORIA MCA 2012/07/05 02:18:04
    VICTORIA
    The statistics I posted are ALL based on the US Census. The CURRENT US Census.
  • Arianne 2012/07/04 04:20:16
    Yes
    Arianne
    +5
    I know someone who has his bioilogical parents, who both have new families. But he's close to his parents partners as well. He likes to say he has 4 parents.
  • ~HopelessRomanticM17~ 2012/07/04 04:14:43
    Yes
    ~HopelessRomanticM17~
    +5
    A lot of kids do. With stepparents and adoptive parents.
  • Knight Of Blood 2012/07/04 04:12:37
    No
    Knight Of Blood
    +1
    VAT ZAH HELL?!
  • Michelle 2012/07/04 04:11:50
    Yes
    Michelle
    +7
    It's none of my business what kind of family they have. As long as all the parents are loving, it's not really something people should complain about.
  • Pm 2012/07/04 04:08:48
    No
    Pm
    +3
    This is insanity. Homosexual activists are trying to change the meanings of a parent of a marriage...What's next? Soon we wont even be able to call them homosexuals because it will offend them and place a label....
  • sbtbill Pm 2012/07/04 04:52:32
    sbtbill
    +1
    Would think this would affect more heterosexual couples. There have always been step fathers and step mothers. It's dumb not to consider them parents.
  • Pm sbtbill 2012/07/05 20:07:54
    Pm
    It is fine the way it is.
  • CG Pm 2012/07/04 05:27:39
    CG
    You have such a fundamental misunderstanding of the "human experience". I'm not gay, but I recognize that emotions don't play by any rules, not yours not mine. But you do come across as an ass. No judgement just an observation.
  • Pm CG 2012/07/05 20:09:08
    Pm
    I'm an ass because I see the libs in this country trying to redefine meanings to fit their beliefs. I'm sick of it. Leave it the way it is.
  • CG Pm 2012/07/06 02:54:06
    CG
    Actually you're just boring.
  • Pm CG 2012/07/07 22:21:12
    Pm
    You're gay and proud. Have a cookie lib.
  • CG Pm 2012/07/08 04:32:52
  • Pm CG 2012/07/08 08:59:03
    Pm
    I am sorry Im not a homo, but if you'd like to get your ass beat come to 5862 east Cir ave, Chicago IL.
  • CG Pm 2012/07/08 19:16:41
    CG
    Give the correct address. Pinche puto pendejo baboso. I hear you like to perform DATO to clean up the Santorum when your done with "Father".
  • CG Pm 2012/07/09 07:23:14
    CG
    Hey Paula, is that really your pic? Oooooh one ugly puta. Tengo familia en Humboldt Park, mierda estúpida. My cousin told me the address was bs. He did take a liking to you. He really wants your full and complete address. He asked me if there was smoke detectors and family. Keep in touch. Also, he said that you look like someone called "snaps", the guys snap their fingers and you go face down, ass up. Good for you. You go girl. Chat me up bitch. We will find you.
  • Pm CG 2012/07/10 19:19:05 (edited)
    Pm
    lmao cockroaches haha
  • CG Pm 2012/07/09 07:54:35
    CG
    Hey Paula - me again hey just give me your address so my cousin can came visit you. He told me that he would like to have some beers and just hang out with you. Amigos, si! How about your phone # ? It's nice to have family wouldn't you agree. It's funny how life can take an unexpected turn and change the way you live. Sleep tight chica.
  • America... Pm 2012/07/04 06:14:42
    American☆Atheist
    oh stfu
  • Pm America... 2012/07/05 20:09:54
    Pm
    duly noted
  • CG 2012/07/04 04:01:18
    Yes
    CG
    +2
    It is a discussion that is being framed by our current constructs of social standards. We seem to be letting language dictate the parameters of what a family "is". termimology
  • XXrawwwrXX 2012/07/04 03:47:33
    Yes
    XXrawwwrXX
    +5
    my children have 6 parents (me, my boyfriend, and 4 of our best friends) we all help raise the kids, and we all are here when they need something.
  • Fef XXrawwwrXX 2012/07/04 04:23:55
    Fef
    +2
    do the other 4 "parents" have legal custody of your kids? Do they write them off as tax deductions? Will they pass their inheritance on to your kids? Do your kids call them "mom" and "dad"?

    I understand that "it takes a village" -- but it doesn't take 6 parents.
  • Sarah Fef 2012/07/04 06:50:13
    Sarah
    +1
    The point is they would if they could just because they would do anything for those children being that they consider themselves parents.
  • XXrawwwrXX Fef 2012/07/04 16:29:19
    XXrawwwrXX
    nope. im the only one with legal custody of my kids, but if they could all be listed as fathers, then they could do legal stuff like that. and no, they call them uncle____, or by their first name.
  • Live Fr... Fef 2012/07/05 20:59:08
    Live Free Or Die
    You make a good point. I'm a Democrat in that I vote Democrat, but I don't agree with all of their agenda. A law recognizing every sperm donor and step-parent as having equal rights as biological and adoptive parents will do more to break down the family than help it, but the lawyers will make a lot more money.
  • Skye 2012/07/04 03:41:57
    Yes
    Skye
    +2
    Yes. I consider myself to a 2 moms and 1 dad :)
  • Christopher Kirchen 2012/07/04 03:41:39
    Yes
    Christopher Kirchen
    +2
    I do; my mom, my dad, and my stepmother.

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