If Canada Bans Spanking, Should U.S. Do the Same?
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2012/09/07 18:41:00
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Yes, that's right: Canada wants to ban spanking. America's northern neighbors currently have a "spanking law," which allows physical punishment toward kids, but Canadian medical experts are calling for a repeal of the century-old law. Do you think spanking should be banned? Or is it a decision that should be left to parents?
SHINE.YAHOO.COM reports:

SHINE.YAHOO.COM reports:
Canada's top medical journal has called for the repeal of that country's 120-year-old "spanking law." In a strongly worded editorial published on September 4, John Fletcher, the editor-in-chief of the Canadian Medical Association Journal (CMAJ), called physical punishment an "anachronistic excuse for poor parenting." The editorial accompanies a meta-analysis of 20 years of research about the ill effects of spanking, led by Joan Durant PhD of the University of Manitoba, first published in February and reprinted in the current volume of the CMAJ.

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nightcrawler2005 2012/09/07 19:03:53No+25As a Canadian Canada will not ban spanking. These quack doctors are trying to say it screws kids up psychologically later in life but since most adults were probably spanked once or twice when they were kids know that that conclusion is complete BS.





















It is not just "spanking", it's abuse.
Spanking should be done and under conditions where children know why they are being spanked, what they should have done instead, and that the discipline will be repeated if the disobedience is.
If it's done simply out of anger or frustration it does no good.
By the way, never threaten to spank and not carry through on it. But the more willing a parent is to spank a child the less they have to do it.
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now, i know that probably at least half of you are hitting children cause god tells you to do it. and i'm sure that another 25% of you think its ok cause it happened to you and "you turned out fine right?"
well guess what? IT IS NOT OK !
IF YOU ARE SPANKING YOUR KIDS IT IS ABUSE..
just find another for of punishment. take away toys. go to time out. it is just as effective and now you don't have to be a child hitter.
That said, I've tried time out. It works, if you're patient, and have the time to watch the child and make sure that they don't move, then reset the whole thing when they do. I also take away privileges, and, for the older one, threaten to unhook the Internet if she doesn't comply.
All of the methods work, and each is applied, depending on the severity of the infraction.
Me? I can say for DAMN SURE, that I was far more patient with punishment as a child. So for all the little teens who are doling out parenting advice, there are some children that nothing else works for. I was one of them. I was patient, I was creative, and I could happily stand in a corner, living in my head for 10 or so minutes without it fazing me. Hell, I could have stood in a corner all day, but my parents didn't have that kind of time.
I think that those who make these silly laws are wasting everybody's time and taxes. Kids get spanked, it's a fact of life. Some kids respond better at the woodshed than in their toy-filled bedroom.
Now, I don't condone Child Abuse, the beating of a child into submission. But I think that if a kid hurts another kid, or burns your favorite chair to the ground, or does something dramatically wrong, the punishment should fit the crime. Spankings are not meant to harm the child and shouldn't. Growing up is hard. You were born naturally stupid, all children were, but that is no excuse to remain that way (Though most people do all of their lives).
Part of a parent's mandate is that we punish our kids whenever they do bad things. This is how we force the child to learn and grow.
Governments are set in place to do the same job for their citizens that parents do for their kids. If I am caught speeding, I am slapped with a fine. If a child is caught giving the dog a haircut, or being a Wallpaper Picasso, they need a little reeducation.
We just need to realize that parents today were the spanked kids of yesterday. You shouldn't pamper today's kids. Believe me, we mostly all turned out all right, and we were punished, weren't we?
I myself have used spanking maybe a 10-12 times in the last 22 yrs (5 boys, 22 to 8). They are all very well adjusted, productive and they know that when they got spanked they deserved it.