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From the saying what needs to be said department: teacher tells graduating students "you’re not special "

Farnsworth 2012/06/08 18:18:26
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A straight-talking English teacher at Wellesley High School set out to
take students down a notch in his speech to the class of 2012, by
telling them they’re nothing special.



“You are not special. You are not exceptional,” David McCullough Jr.
told graduating seniors from the affluent Massachusetts town last
weekend.



The teacher's controversial advice caught the nation's eye, in an age
where many believe today's youth suffer from a sense of self-importance.



"Yes, you've been pampered, cosseted, doted upon, helmeted,
bubble-wrapped," McCullough said in his speech. “Yes, capable adults
with other things to do have held you, kissed you, fed you, wiped your
mouth, wiped your bottom, trained you, taught you, tutored you, coached
you, listened to you, counseled you, encouraged you, consoled you and
encouraged you again. You've been nudged, cajoled, wheedled and
implored. You've been feted and fawned over and called sweetie pie. ...
But do not get the idea you're anything special. Because you're not."


Driving the point home, he added, "Think about this: even if you're one
in a million, on a planet of 6.8 billion that means there are nearly
7,000 people just like you."



He continued to tell it like it is. Americans have come to appreciate
accolades more than genuine achievement, he said, and will compromise
standards in order to secure a higher spot on the social totem pole.



"As a consequence, we cheapen worthy endeavors, and building a
Guatemalan medical clinic becomes more about the application to Bowdoin
than the well-being of the Guatemalans," he said.



In the quest for accomplishment, everything gets watered down. A 'B' is
the new 'C.' Midlevel courses are the new advanced placement, the
teacher said.



The reaction to MuCullough’s blunt advice was overwhelmingly positive,
both from students at the receiving end of the reality check and people
who saw the speech as it circulated the Internet this week.



"For once someone told us what we need to hear and not necessarily what
we wanted to hear," said one commenter on The Swellesley Report.



"Undoing all 'they've' done in on 10-minute speech. My faith in the world may have been restored," another commenter said.



McCullough, the son of the Pulitzer Prize-winning historian David McCullough, explained his provocative words on Fox News Wednesday.



He said kids need independence. They need to struggle and stumble to
make it in today's difficult, competitive world. But too often parents
are there to throw the pillows on the floor.



"So many of the adults around them — the behavior of the adults around
them — gives them this sort of inflated sense of themselves. And I
thought they needed a little context, a little perspective," McCullough
told Fox News. "To send them off into the world with an inflated sense
of themselves is doing them no favors."


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  • Dodgerfan 2012/06/08 18:24:51
    Sweet! About time someone told our arragant youth the plain truth
    Dodgerfan
    +7
    Thank you, thank you, thank you for posting this. Now if they would write this in a form kindergarteners can understand and tell it to them the first day of school a lot of non-sense could be avoided for 13 years.

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  • Farnsworth Maddog 2012/06/08 21:03:29
    Farnsworth
    +1
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    excellent!
  • Cliff 2012/06/08 19:39:42
    Sweet! About time someone told our arragant youth the plain truth
    Cliff
    +3
    True humility is being honest about yourself.
  • Farnsworth Cliff 2012/06/08 20:49:03
    Farnsworth
    +1
    Bulls-eye.
  • prosperhappily 2012/06/08 19:30:26
    Sweet! About time someone told our arragant youth the plain truth
    prosperhappily
    +3
    I'm not going to call them ALL arrogant. That's not the case.

    But, he's right. One of the worst things you can do for a kid is teach them that they're exempt from life's hardships. it's tough enough being broke, losing at love etc. It's far worse when you think "This isn't supposed to happen to ME".
  • Farnsworth prosper... 2012/06/08 20:51:05
    Farnsworth
    +1
    I agree to a point. I do believe the arrogance is rooted in the "we are owed" attitude. Kids today are not taught that life owes them nothing.
  • prosper... Farnsworth 2012/06/09 21:08:06
    prosperhappily
    +1
    I'm not sure what you disagree with. I agree with what you just said 100%. You just said it better than I did.
  • Farnsworth prosper... 2012/06/10 11:55:22
    Farnsworth
    +1
    oh, ok.

    thank you
  • ☆ QueenAline 2012/06/08 19:19:59
    Sweet! About time someone told our arragant youth the plain truth
    ☆ QueenAline
    +3
    i agree...right from high school..none of them are anything special..they're still wet behind their ears...They need to get out in the world to become extraordinary.....a task few will achieve.
  • Farnsworth ☆ Queen... 2012/06/08 20:52:31
    Farnsworth
    +2
    expectations that were artificially set high, then they become disappointed. Some recover, many do not.

    I agree
  • Sheila 2012/06/08 18:54:52
    Sweet! About time someone told our arragant youth the plain truth
    Sheila
    +3
    And in a follow up on the teacher who told kids life is not fair. He has been fired for refusing to follow the liberal mantra and due to no case of sexual harrassment being filed against him he was fired with no severance package.
  • Farnsworth Sheila 2012/06/08 19:00:01
    Farnsworth
    +3
    he is "vacationing" at a teachers union reeducation summer camp.
  • Sheila Farnsworth 2012/06/08 19:16:13
    Sheila
    +1
    I would laugh....but.........
  • Farnsworth Sheila 2012/06/08 20:53:13
    Farnsworth
    +1
    you never know, todays speculation is tomorrows fact.
  • Grandbr... Sheila 2012/06/08 21:31:39
    Grandbrother
    Way to veer off point so you can inject your dogmatic political ideology into the discussion.
  • Sheila Grandbr... 2012/06/09 02:05:04
    Sheila
    Well so glad to have obliged ya there hun! Have a lovely weekend.
  • Tennyson James 2012/06/08 18:53:46
    Undecided
    Tennyson James
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    While I agree with much of what the speaker was saying, I strongly disagree that this was the occassion to deliver the message. A student's graduation is the occassion to mark his or her accomplishment; to inspire them to go out into the world and out their knowledge to use. It sounds like the speech was more of a message saying "You graduated. Big deal." and that is extremely sad.
  • Sheila Tennyso... 2012/06/08 18:56:38
    Sheila
    +2
    IF this had been being told to them for the last 12 years I would agree, but this is the last chance he had to say it.
  • Tennyso... Sheila 2012/06/08 23:43:32
    Tennyson James
    +1
    But the occassion also marks their first major accomplishment (graduation) and IMO using this particular occassion to focus on how insignificant they are rather than encouraging them to feel pride in what they legitimately accomplished does more harm than good.
  • Farnsworth Tennyso... 2012/06/08 19:00:57
    Farnsworth
    Sorry I don't agree.
  • Lady Wh... Tennyso... 2012/06/08 20:58:25
    Lady Whitewolf
    +1
    agreed
  • Grandbr... Tennyso... 2012/06/08 21:35:38
    Grandbrother
    +1
    It's safe to assume though that he wasn't the only speaker, and surely the rest of them all focused on more inspirational messages. Given that, I personally think this was the perfect time for it. If it was during a normal class, it would have just gone in one ear and out the other for many kids. But at graduation, it's a stern warning about the reality these kids are about to enter into that'll shock it's way into their brains. I'd guess they'll be better off because of it.
  • Tennyso... Grandbr... 2012/06/08 23:46:37
    Tennyson James
    I disagree. It was an occasion when these kids should be proud of their first major accomplishment and to celebrate that; not to make questioin whether it was even worth it given their bleak future. It's like if a minister conducted a wedding ceremony by telling the couple how very unlikely it is that their marriage will survive.
  • Grandbr... Tennyso... 2012/06/09 00:28:48
    Grandbrother
    +1
    I don't think it brought into question whether or not their education was worth it. It just struck me as a reality-check that made them understand that they aren't guaranteed anything simply because they're graduating - they'll need to keep working hard for their goals.

    On your wedding analogy, I would argue that a typical ceremony does include cautionary notes that reflect on the constant work and attention marriage requires to succeed. At my own wedding, and at every wedding I can remember well enough, these types of sentiments were expressed.

    Just my take on it though....
  • Tennyso... Grandbr... 2012/06/09 17:53:41
    Tennyson James
    +1
    I do understand what you are saying. I just think there is a time and place for certain messages to be delivered. IMO a graduation is a time when we should be encouraging kids to be proud of their accomplishments; not telling them that they are nothing special and that their grades and awards didn't mean anything b/c the very occassion of graduation is a celebration of all that.
  • Andrew 2012/06/08 18:51:24
    Sweet! About time someone told our arragant youth the plain truth
    Andrew
    +4
    About time someone told the truth. Hide the truth from these kids and they'll be blindsided when they amass a huge college debt and can't find a job to pay it off!
  • Farnsworth Andrew 2012/06/08 18:55:32
    Farnsworth
    +4
    little late as senior, but better late than never.

    I wonder if this school is a high end one in Massachusetts where rich spoiled white liberals are raising the next generation of OWS protesters?
  • Andrew Farnsworth 2012/06/08 19:02:29
    Andrew
    +5
    Probably! These are the kids who get $100K sixteenth birthday parties and never learn to do anything for themselves except whine! That, they do exceptionally well!
  • Dodgerfan 2012/06/08 18:24:51
    Sweet! About time someone told our arragant youth the plain truth
    Dodgerfan
    +7
    Thank you, thank you, thank you for posting this. Now if they would write this in a form kindergarteners can understand and tell it to them the first day of school a lot of non-sense could be avoided for 13 years.
  • Farnsworth Dodgerfan 2012/06/08 18:42:50
    Farnsworth
    +5
    true. Parents bare a majority of the responsibility for the attitude of todays youth, but the education system reinforces it.
  • Adam Farnsworth 2012/06/11 01:16:34
    Adam
    +1
    Ya but they are not the only ones at fault, you see the parents today are the results of schools of yesterday where they told them this is how we teach children and how you should teach yours. Where children sleep 8 hours a day and go to school 8 hours a day 5 days a week, they may see their parents at a maximum of 8 hours day in the week. In all likelyhood though parents work 10 hours a day and younger children sleep 10 hours a day and parent are tired 2 of those hours and 2 hours are getting ready for school and getting read for bed. This leaves 0 hours a day with the children in the week days. So who are really teaching the young children when they are most influential.
  • Mark In Irvine 2012/06/08 18:24:31
  • Farnsworth Mark In... 2012/06/08 18:43:58
    Farnsworth
    +7
    Sorry, I don't agree.
  • Mark In... Farnsworth 2012/06/08 18:46:17
    Mark In Irvine
    +3
    ok - we agree to disagree. peace be with you, farnsworth.
  • Lady Wh... Mark In... 2012/06/08 20:58:52
  • Temlakos~POTL~PWCM~JLA~☆ 2012/06/08 18:24:20
    Sweet! About time someone told our arragant youth the plain truth
    Temlakos~POTL~PWCM~JLA~☆
    +4
    Better that they hear it now, rather than hear it for the first time later.

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