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Does having openly gay people in the military upset you.

☆WillThompson☆ 2012/08/22 04:29:45
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Knowing the people you serve with comes with the territory. There are just some unsaid occurrences that happened. Having a gay guy in the unit was just never a big deal. We knew, not because it was ever asked or information freely given, it was just known. No one ever let it become a problem. I was in an all male unit (given at the time combat arms were closed to females) and no one cared about. the only thing anyone cared about was whether or not you were going to pull your own weight and do you job. Yeah, in off duty hours we joked around and said off color remarks but for the most part we were kids trying to act like men It helped us ease the stress from training. When it came down to brass tacks thought we knew who we could depend on and we didn't give a rat's ass what the sexual orientation was of the guy next us, it was the furthest thing from our mind. We didn't know it but we were more mature in that aspect than the civilian world was. That is just my opinion, and that is all it is, just my opinion from my perspective.
So, what say you?

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  • Random 2012/09/03 09:15:29
    No
    Random
    +1
    "If you give up your life to defend my rights, you can have sex with a pie and I will heat it up for you." -Will Anderson.
  • FRED 2012/09/03 00:03:50
  • ☆WillTh... FRED 2012/09/03 14:23:07
    ☆WillThompson☆
    or for that matter, which was the one that was straight?
  • sockpuppet 2012/08/30 21:58:58
    Undecided
    sockpuppet
    +1
    If they have an impact on the morale of the service members' unit, there's a problem. It's nice to think everyone *should* feel a certain way about these things, but in Reality, there are concerns. Even hetero relationships create tensions under certain circumstances.
  • Vision of Verve 2012/08/25 16:48:31
  • ☆WillTh... Vision ... 2012/08/25 18:18:42
    ☆WillThompson☆
    I agree
  • handeman 2012/08/24 01:13:19
    No
    handeman
    I honor their service
  • SICARIO 2012/08/23 05:10:52
  • clasact 2012/08/23 02:26:53
    No
    clasact
    +3
    as long as they have my back and can shoot stright I dont care who they sleep with
  • AlexTheDrummer 2012/08/22 23:06:03
    No
    AlexTheDrummer
    +3
    Why should it?
  • Drake 2012/08/22 22:26:27
  • remy Drake 2012/09/03 21:56:34
    remy
    so you're saying that gays are "trash"?
  • Drake remy 2012/09/04 10:55:22
  • remy Drake 2012/09/04 12:10:27
    remy
    wow.....
  • Drake remy 2012/09/04 12:42:45
  • remy Drake 2012/09/04 12:47:26
    remy
    hehehehe
  • remy Drake 2012/09/04 12:48:23
    remy
    shouldn't you be playing Dungeons and Dragons?
  • Drake remy 2012/09/04 14:05:37
  • brian.southworth.921 2012/08/22 21:01:39
    No
    brian.southworth.921
    +2
    The greatest military mind in human history slept with men. His name was Alexander the great. We can thank him for expanding his territory which allowed western civ to exist.
  • Mark 2012/08/22 19:26:37
    No
    Mark
    +1
    Do you think a taliban fighter will go to hell if he gets killed by a homosexual soldier?
  • Rev☠Donny☠Doom☠Agnostic 667 2012/08/22 18:47:32
    No
    Rev☠Donny☠Doom☠Agnostic 667
    +1
    Not even a little bit!!
  • none 2012/08/22 17:24:29
    No
    none
    +1
    If they're willing to take the oath and serve it's okay with me but I wouldn't want one for my room mate.
  • freakoutnow... cuz mom's here 2012/08/22 17:01:24
    Undecided
    freakoutnow... cuz mom's here
    +1
    Gay people have been in every country's militaries and in every era too. Doesn't bother me but it could be a possible issue if the gay person doesn't keep themselves in check though. Gay and Bisexual guys have it worse than lesbian and bisexual girls do though. Most of us girls are more tolerant of the LBGT community than most guys are. I've been hit on by some lesbian and bi girls and while I was very uncomfortable with them doing so I just shrugged it off. My husband has gotten hit on by gay and bi guys and he gets pretty testy and wouldn't hesitate to knock them out if they didn't stop flirting and coming on to him.
  • Jackie G - Poker Playing Pa... 2012/08/22 15:46:02
    Undecided
    Jackie G - Poker Playing Patriot
    +1
    Anyone willing to fight and, perhaps, die for this nation deserves respect. I still have no understanding why we must all know about each other sexual habits and must approve of same or be called ridiculous names. My private life is just that private - I have no interest in anyone else's bedroom habits.
  • Tastentier 2012/08/22 14:02:25
    I don't have enough info to make an informed decision.
    Tastentier
    +1
    I don't serve in the military, so it doesn't matter how I personally feel. The important question is, does it upset members of the military? And if so, are those who experience a negative psychological effect a small minority or a majority?

    Even more important, what effect does it have on the cohesion in military units? If evolutionary psychologists like Gordon Gallup are correct that so-called homophobia is a natural majority instinct, how does this instinct affect troops in the field? Will politically correct conditioning be enough to override this aversion?
    If soldiers are aware that one of them belongs to a group which historically used to have and still has a higher disease rate, will they still be able to work together like a well-oiled machine? Only time will tell.
  • marky 2012/08/22 13:56:19
    No
    marky
    +2
    If someone is prepared to fight and die for any country they should be respected
  • die Küss der Tod 2012/08/22 13:24:34
    No
    die Küss der Tod
    +2
    I'm thankful for having anyone in the military to serve and defend my country, regardless of their sexual orientation. It doesn't matter to me what your sexual orientation is, if you're a nice/good person then I like you.
  • classic 2012/08/22 12:58:44
    No
    classic
    +1
    22 years in the military,, there has always been gay people in uniform.. it wasnt a big deal... mostly they kept to themselves, and didnt bother anyone.. Many fought and died in Vietnam, right along beside "Straight" men... All one has to do is say no.. Straight or Gay....
  • D D 2012/08/22 12:56:28
    No
    D D
    +1
    Not at all. Any place else either. Wouldn't bother me at church.
  • YepIDidItSo 2012/08/22 11:56:13
    No
    YepIDidItSo
    +1
    I don't care who you screw if you do your job correctly.
  • Abuza 2012/08/22 11:45:17
    No
    Abuza
    +1
    nothing against gays=)))
  • DH 2012/08/22 11:37:34
    No
    DH
    +1
    Not at all.
  • Angela Chambers 2012/08/22 11:01:02
    No
    Angela Chambers
    +1
    As long as they are serving our country. I could care less.
  • mwg0735 2012/08/22 10:29:36
  • classic mwg0735 2012/08/22 13:00:16
    classic
    +4
    You just lost that bet... I served...and it didnt bother me that gays were there in vietnam fighting alongside of me....
  • ☆WillTh... classic 2012/08/22 14:16:12
    ☆WillThompson☆
    +2
    He lost that bet more than once. I too served in Iraq for close to three years and it didn't bother me in the slightest.
    12B.
  • classic ☆WillTh... 2012/08/22 14:35:26
    classic
    +1
    Vietnam era,, 11D4H and 55D4H Recon scout section leader, and EOD instructor...
  • ☆WillTh... mwg0735 2012/08/22 14:15:10
    ☆WillThompson☆
    And what was your MOS?
  • clasact mwg0735 2012/08/23 02:31:06
    clasact
    +1
    i said No and servered so you lose
  • mwg0735 clasact 2012/08/23 04:04:40 (edited)

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