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Do sluts ask to get raped?

Pixie·ŸŸMzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠ 2012/06/24 16:48:35
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I do not usually get really angry on here but one thing that pisses me off is people saying sluts ask to get raped. I made a poll the other day about it being no panties day and some guy was saying any girl that did that is an immoral slut who is asking to get raped. I have been raped. I was wearing Jeans and a t shirt. was I asking for it?
How about instead of telling girls not to get raped we tell people not to rape?

Edit: I am leaving this open but ignoring it for it is bringing up bad memories if I do not respond to you this is why.
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  • ~Here Comes The Sun~ 2012/12/29 21:21:58
  • Serenit... ~Here C... 2013/01/01 22:48:32
    Serenity  Guru of lurve *wink*
    +2
    I am so sorry, you are a strong women to come on this poll and I hope you are Ok
    Do you believe in Karma babe, I do and he will suffer the bastard that did this to you.
    XXX Serenity
  • ~Here C... Serenit... 2013/01/01 23:07:10
    ~Here Comes The Sun~
    Thank you so much. Xxx
  • Serenit... ~Here C... 2013/01/02 00:39:27
    Serenity  Guru of lurve *wink*
    +1
    Your welcome Sunshine. XXX and so it begins. Lol
  • ~Here C... Serenit... 2013/01/02 01:16:37
    ~Here Comes The Sun~
    Hehe!
  • meshell Serenit... 2013/01/06 08:03:49
    meshell
    I dont think its a matter of being strong , .. swearing and snapping isnt strenght. we learn this in times of trouble.
  • ~Here C... meshell 2013/01/06 14:46:50
    ~Here Comes The Sun~
    Listen, this subject is still tender to me so don't tell anyone who has been raped how to handle it..
  • meshell ~Here C... 2013/01/07 01:05:48
  • Serenit... ~Here C... 2013/01/07 05:31:24
  • ~Here C... Serenit... 2013/01/07 15:53:59
    ~Here Comes The Sun~
    Thanks and yeah, I'm not letting that guy get away with it. I am a strong person - mentally, not so much physically. And yeah, she's right about not feeling sorry about myself.. Xx thanks for that. Xx
  • Serenit... ~Here C... 2013/01/07 16:56:39
  • ~Here C... Serenit... 2013/01/07 17:01:04
    ~Here Comes The Sun~
    +1
    That's true and thanks again, you're a good person. :)
  • meshell ~Here C... 2013/01/11 12:54:54
    meshell
    +1
    she is , isnt she. she has a good heart ,. We have different thoughts on this topic, we all deal with things in a different way. A lot say forgiving helps, if it works for them, thats good for them. I dont believe in it, I do believe in myself though, for the most part anyway, lol. stand up take a deep breath and go for a walk, flowers animals, the smell of fresh cut grass, live.
    It is not them that entrap us after the fact, Its us.
    crap so sorry mate i forget our summer is your winter. Take care I will not answer your posts if I disagree. not in a harsh way anyway. :)
  • ~Here C... meshell 2013/01/11 14:04:33
    ~Here Comes The Sun~
    No no, you are right. If someone lets the person get to them, they have won. Yeah I still do get some bad times but then I talk to my boyfriend and then listen to loud, happy music..
    You take care too :) have a nice summer while I freeze my ass off.. :P
  • meshell ~Here C... 2013/01/13 12:17:11
    meshell
    +1
    lol you will always have bad days, our memories cant be cut off.. LOL I would be happy to swap a few of your butt freezing days for a few of our sweltering days, Its the hottest summer to date they say. have a good one.
  • ~Here C... meshell 2013/01/13 19:11:31
    ~Here Comes The Sun~
    +1
    Promise? Lol.
  • Serenit... meshell 2013/01/06 15:16:13
  • meshell Serenit... 2013/01/07 01:13:29
    meshell
    no darl im not snappy but i do swear a lot... Things happen in our lives we either accept them and move forward, or we dwell on them, and keep the fear ride going. yes we all have defences and we all deal with it differently, but either way we must deal with it. or allow what others have done to us to drag us down, become a shell of our former selves... The rape is their doing, but the way we handle it is ours..we can either stand strong and look fear in the eyes and beat it or we can sit back feeling sorry for ourselves... I will not be part of the latter..
  • Serenit... meshell 2013/01/07 04:51:03
    Serenity  Guru of lurve *wink*
    Knew you were a fighter babe, good for you , don't. Let. The bastards grind ya down. I hope you never had to face those fears alone. Even your words show strength. Nice meeting you Meshell. XXX. Serenity.
  • meshell Serenit... 2013/01/08 12:26:51
    meshell
    thank you , nice to meet you too.most of my strength and fighting spirit comes from my MOTHER, SHE was a strong woman. She was a ward of the state, and we've all heard the stories from behind the walls...The rest is mine through living life,, being kicked around and knocked down time and again(metaphorically) I went from a timid little girl to a raging storm in the space of a day, basically i snapped.. and have never regretted it..i can now stand my ground, and will. it not only blew me away, but everyone i knew. lol some wernt to sure of me for a while, but all good now. :) Enjoy your day Serenity.
  • Serenit... ~Here C... 2013/01/02 06:37:16
    Serenity  Guru of lurve *wink*
    +1
    NO Sunshine, he is SCUM. XXX
  • meshell ~Here C... 2013/01/06 07:56:44
    meshell
    settle little lady, no-one said you were a slut.. plenty get raped and plenty are slutty things, but not everyone.
  • ~Here C... meshell 2013/01/06 14:51:43
    ~Here Comes The Sun~
    There is no such thing as a slut... Women who wear short dresses aren't sluts, women who like to go about men aren't sluts... Men do it and they don't get called a slut.. Double standards, eh?
  • meshell ~Here C... 2013/01/07 01:18:10
  • meshell ~Here C... 2013/01/07 01:25:48
  • Serenit... ~Here C... 2013/01/08 15:35:46
    Serenity  Guru of lurve *wink*
    +1
    Few of my male friends I have had were called SLUTS by me but that was only said in fun because of the way they would sleep around. They took no offense in fact they would sit there and say. " I am a slut " and laugh You are so right about the double standads, never effected me though I have always been far too emotional to be a slut
    (Which basically means very promiscuous.) When I fall for someone, I fall hard .
  • ~Here C... Serenit... 2013/01/08 17:12:49
    ~Here Comes The Sun~
    Yeah, I'd rather find someone I love to sleep with than not wait and have casual sex.
  • Serenit... ~Here C... 2013/01/08 19:05:32
    Serenity  Guru of lurve *wink*
    One night stands are really not what they are cracked up to be, but when you know your lover intimately its amazing. There maybe others that disagree but this is my opinion not what I believe is right or wrong of others.
  • Kat ♪ ~BTO-t-BCRA-F~ ♪ 2012/12/28 22:21:43
    No one asks for it
    Kat ♪ ~BTO-t-BCRA-F~ ♪
    +6
    If you have issues controlling your body it's no-ones fault but your own. No-one asks to be raped.
  • joseph ... Kat ♪ ~... 2012/12/31 14:57:32
  • A Lionheart 2012/12/28 22:09:37
    No one asks for it
    A Lionheart
    +6
    Obviously.
  • Rogue_Loner 2012/12/28 19:56:56 (edited)
  • laydeelapis 2012/12/28 19:56:13
    No one asks for it
    laydeelapis
    +5
    This pisses me off too. There's something wrong with the world when people in a sophisticated, advanced society still have such archaic beliefs.
    "How about instead of telling girls not to get raped we tell people not to rape?"
    Well said.
  • BlunderWoman ~ FTGOP~ BN 0 2012/12/28 18:27:35 (edited)
    No one asks for it
    BlunderWoman ~ FTGOP~ BN 0
  • No One Blunder... 2013/01/02 00:48:16
    No One
    +5
    I love that analogy. It really shows how rediculouse the idea that someone would ask for rape is when you try to use a similar analogy to justify any other crime.
  • Blunder... No One 2013/01/02 13:56:05
    BlunderWoman ~ FTGOP~ BN 0
    +2
    I agree! Thanks!
  • Chaya2010 Blunder... 2013/01/02 21:38:41
    Chaya2010
    +1
    Blunder - there are times you say what NEEDS to be said!
  • Blunder... Chaya2010 2013/01/03 16:39:39
    BlunderWoman ~ FTGOP~ BN 0
    +1
    Thank you, Chaya. I really appreciate that!
  • Bill No One 2013/01/02 18:03:52
    Bill
    It's a silly analogy and too well scripted, too tendentious. The word "Officer" should be "Defense Attorney" to have this scenario a little more palatable.
  • ♥əmma~*In Padfoot I trust*~♥ 2012/12/28 17:08:44 (edited)
    No one asks for it
    ♥əmma~*In Padfoot I trust*~♥
    +8
    "She left that bar at four in the morning drunk, what was she expecting? That was stupid and irresponsible."



    I keep hearing arguments like this. That the woman did something "stupid or irresponsible," and therefore should have expected to have been raped. But my question is this: is it not stupid to rape someone? Is it not irresponsible? The woman did nothing wrong in leaving a bar late at night drunk--that's perfectly legal. What's not legal is raping someone. We need to get rid of the stereotype in our head that shows us a man in a trench coat grabbing a woman off the street in the dead of night. Husbands rape wives. Boyfriends rape girlfriends. And women can even rape men, too.



    As for the slut argument--I don't care if a woman is walking around naked. If she says no, you're a rapist.

    This things kinda awful/awesome:
    anti rape

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