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Andrea 2012/08/19 04:27:56
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  • Fef 2012/08/19 07:41:39
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    Fef
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    Redefining marriage has a negative impact on all of us.

    One, in general (with some exceptions) marriage exists to create a family of biologically reproducing parents. Of course, not all couples marry to have kids and some cannot.

    And... redefining marriage confuses children. Whom should they marry when they grow up? Liberal and homosexual agenda want to redefine marriage in a way that prevents parents from telling their children that men/women married to create kids thousands of years. If homosexual couples want to commit to each other they can. Call it whatever they like.

    And.... don't radically redefine thousands of years of history for a political agenda. What should we redefine next? Religion to include a faith in government? Sounds ridiculous, but no more radical than redefining marriage.

    And... I don't want government regulating marriage. Not heterosexual or homosexual couples committing love to each other for whatever purpose. Leave the definition of marriage to religion, from whence it came. Government should regulate civil contracts not religious ones.

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  • Alexander T Steward 2012/09/20 19:46:01
  • Random 2012/09/03 09:02:17 (edited)
    It does not affect me at all
    Random
    I met a gay couple the other day celebrating their wedding anniversary (they were married abroad), as far as a I know, I'm still free to participate in a heterosexual marriage and would still be free to do so if they were married in my Country.

    Now, people not only claiming that they are the sole owners of the definition of marriage, but pushing that particular definition of marriage into civil law?

    Well that limits my right to get legally married to another woman.

    You can define marriage however you wish in your place of worship and I would fight for your right to dictate which couples you would bless and which couples not to bless, but could you extend the same courtesy to others and not limit a human adult couple in a stable relationship from getting married according to man's law?

    Shesh, what ever happened to "Do unto others as you would have done yourself?" I certainly wouldn't like my marriage to be banned if I wasn't harming anyone, would you?
  • Bulbasaurus Rex. 2012/08/26 01:08:12
    It does not affect me at all
    Bulbasaurus Rex.
    It has absolutely no affect on me. None whatsoever.
    People need to butt out of our love lives.

    Oh, and I'm apathetic.
  • Jen 2012/08/21 04:32:48
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    Jen
    Practicing Catholics, Protestants, and Jews all over the country who provide wedding-related services (bakeries, florists, photography, etc.) are being told by "human rights commissions" that they either have to violate their religious consciences and serve these "gay weddings," or go out of business.

    So, let's stop this tired old "it doesn't affect you" argument. It's not only repetitive and parroted, it's also false.

    It's a sin to enable sin, and anyone who participates in a "gay wedding" is morally complicit in sin. It's one thing to choose to do that. It's quite another to be forced to do it, especially in a country where freedom of religion is clearly guaranteed in the Constitution, while "gay marriage" isn't.
  • Rogue_Loner 2012/08/20 22:11:54 (edited)
  • RJ~PWCM~JLA 2012/08/20 22:00:38
    This is how it will affect me...
    RJ~PWCM~JLA
    +1
    What Fef said!
  • Red Branch 2012/08/20 20:01:34
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    +3
    It does not speak well for the future of Western Civilization.
  • BUCCANEER~POTL~PWCM~JLA 2012/08/20 19:33:15
    It does not affect me at all
    BUCCANEER~POTL~PWCM~JLA
    +2
    Directly,but perversion and in this case,it's corrosive effect on a normal decent society does
  • Footage 2012/08/20 15:39:12
    It does not affect me at all
    Footage
    In all honesty, it really has no impact on my life one way or another.
  • conservyT 2012/08/20 15:01:06
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    Marriage belongs to God and Not to humanity.

    People can and do as they want, but the end result will always be that God created Marriage for a man and a woman PERIOD!
  • ☆ QueenAline 2012/08/20 13:27:47
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    ☆ QueenAline
    +4
    redefining marriage has a negative effect on all of us, our lives, our morals, our decency, our culture, our very being...marriage is between a man and a woman...I don't think that will ever change...
  • Luv♥Luv 2012/08/20 12:57:02
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    Luv♥Luv
    +5
    Redefining marriage has a negative impact on all of us.
    Opens the door for humans and animals getting married.
    Opens the door for marriage with more than one person at a time.
    Etccccccccccccccccc
    Close the doors and let's close the borders also!
  • Seonag 2012/08/20 12:51:34
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    Fef says it all!
  • Kat 2012/08/20 12:39:25 (edited)
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    Kat
    +6
    Redefining marriage has a negative impact on us all.
  • heirsoftheking 2012/08/20 12:28:51 (edited)
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    heirsoftheking
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    God did it right, once and for all, when he created the eternal blueprint for marriage in the book of Genesis in the Bible: 1 man 1 woman.

    Now same-sex individuals inflamed with lust for one another are trying to change that, claiming God doesn't know what he's doing, or by even saying there is no God - so they want to write their own formulas for marriage. But many of them won't stop there, because their thirst for ever-increasing lust is unquenchable.

    Next these intolerable bigots will want legalized child molestation and homosexual-sex-on-demand in the streets, just like Sodom and Gomorrah were, just before their destruction.
  • Mike 2012/08/19 20:46:06
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    Mike
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    Marriage should not be defined by government
  • Red Branch Mike 2012/08/20 20:03:37
    Red Branch
    It always has been because govt (society) has a vested interest.
  • Mike Red Branch 2012/08/21 18:15:43
    Mike
    No it has not
  • Red Branch Mike 2012/08/21 19:17:17
    Red Branch
    Oh yes it has you uninformed one.
  • Mike Red Branch 2012/08/22 22:12:06
    Mike
    Wrong
  • Red Branch Mike 2012/08/22 22:17:10
    Red Branch
    Your revisionist history has no effect here.

    Marriage has always required permission.
  • Mike Red Branch 2012/08/24 22:21:59
    Mike
    From who ?
  • Red Branch Mike 2012/08/24 23:47:59
    Red Branch
    Is this a real question?

    Father of the bride, head of the clan or tribe, the lord of the manor, the village minister or priest ...

    The US because of Separation of Church and State decided it would be the local judge or the assistant appointed to handle it.

    Somewhere, there was a someone who would get very angry if permission was not sought.
  • Mike Red Branch 2012/08/26 17:11:04
    Mike
    You said marriage has always required governmental permission - sorry that is wrong
  • Red Branch Mike 2012/08/26 22:35:57
    Red Branch
    It has and same sex marriage has never been sanctioned at anytime.
  • Mike Red Branch 2012/08/29 22:10:39
    Mike
    please provide the proof
  • RogerRover 2012/08/19 19:34:41
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    RogerRover
    +4
    To attack the oldest and most important institution on the planet affects EVERYONE. The cradle of a loving, workable, sustainable environment for training children resulting from this union was planned by someone far above my pay grade. If we, as a nation,fail to respect the honor and sanctity of marriage as set forth in the Bible, as well as the Definition of Marriage Act signed into law by civil authority...we will ALL pay a big price. Cheapening and coarsening of society will show up over and over again. Worse affected will be our children, floundering to make healthy and wholesome decisions based on values that greatly impact their lives going forward.
  • HipJipC RogerRover 2012/08/20 03:20:06
    HipJipC
    +1
    Well the dude with the higher pay grade apparently only chooses certain children to have cradled in the (heterosexual) so-called loving, workable, sustainable environment. Considering the amount of heterosexual married adults out there that don't have a problem molesting and beating their children it puts a great big hole in your sermon. I paid a big price when I was 3 years old, back in 1963. Was it at the hands of some homosexual ... no. It was at the hands of my Christian Grandfather. When are heterosexuals going to stop raping little children?? Or is it more natural for a man to rape a little girl because she is of the right sex? Worse affected will be our children because of homosexual marriage? Why, because more men will start raping little boys? And you're right about one thing ... the cheapening and coarsening of society does show up over and over again. Because there are evil people and their sexual orientation and who they marry has nothing to do with it.
  • RogerRover HipJipC 2012/08/20 04:18:40 (edited)
    RogerRover
    +2
    Sincerely appreciate your response. So many people labeled (by self or others) as "Christian" are grossly deceiving themselves and others. I dislike the label because of the gross mis-application. There ARE many Christ seekers and followers who avail themselves of higher standards that produce more positive results. Sincerely sorry for your horrendous treatment by those you trusted, who were definitely NOT walking in love. Many, so injured, toss out the whole concept of a God capable of love. I was close to that position myself. I was raised in an ultra legalistic, religious church, by good parents, who were quite blinded by extremely narrow views. Every heart is basically looking for love, but I kept seeing hate and division at every turn. Because of grace and compassion, (at age 35) I was permitted an encounter that totally and forever filled me with relief, joy, peace, hope and a love for every person. I still despise religion when compared to relationship, and pity those caught up in it, and long to see those who tossed the baby out with the dirty bath water, realize that we Do have a Maker, who loves us with an unconditional love. Accepting Him and His ways can change the vilest person. So many men are no ways near deserving of that title. Has all to do with the heart.
  • HipJipC RogerRover 2012/09/15 17:49:05
    HipJipC
    Thank you, I appreciate your input.
  • Red Branch HipJipC 2012/08/20 20:05:29
    Red Branch
    Your response is a non sequiter. Two wrongs do not make a right.
  • HipJipC Red Branch 2012/09/15 18:07:41
    HipJipC
    Just because you don't understand me, doesn't mean what I say is illogical. It just means you don't understand, period.
    And where did I say that two wrongs make a right??
  • bob 2012/08/19 15:02:34
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    +5
    I think that there are many on the Left in the Gay Marriage Issue who want to use this as a way to Attack the Church to force the Church to accept what it cannot or to rewrite the Bible, first they Legalize Gay Marriage then they sue the Church for violating the 14th Amendment of Equal Protection. Up until 200 years ago Marriage was only performed by the Church there was no JP or judges preforming weddings. Marriage should be defined as a religious ceremony and call ceremonies preformed outside the Church a Civil Union whether they are between a man and woman or same sex couples. This way same sex unions have all legal right given in Marriage and you then take away any effort to force gay marriage on the Church.
  • elijahin24 bob 2012/08/19 18:12:21
    elijahin24
    +1
    And what of those churches who WANT to perform same-sex weddings? Is it not a violation of THEIR First Amendment rights, to deny them that right?
  • bob elijahin24 2012/08/19 21:13:17 (edited)
    bob
    +4
    In the Christian Islamic and Jewish Faith Marriage is defined as between a Man and a Woman as long as there is no effort in any way to force these faith to accept Gay Marriage something they cannot so be it marriage is still defined as between a Man and a Woman a Civil union that can allow for same sex
  • elijahin24 bob 2012/08/19 21:23:55
    elijahin24
    +1
    Don't be a smart-ass. This is a reasonable question. There are many denominations of each of the Abrahamic religions which DO think gays should be allowed to marry. And even if that were not the case, they are not the only religions that are protected by the First Amendment. I would oppose ANY bill which would REQUIRE any religion to do anything that violates their faith. If your church doesn't want to marry gays, I would defend their right not to; but that same freedom should be protected for those who DO believe in it.
  • bob elijahin24 2012/08/20 00:35:57
    bob
    +2
    I agree with that and if we could find away to have Gay Marriage and know that there would not be an attack on the church for having Policies against it I would not have an Issue I Believe Marriage should be between a Man and a Woman but I believe every one should have the right to to be happy and to have all the legal rights given to married People. but as I said above I believe many who are behind this issue are there not for Gay rights but to use this Issue to attack the Christian Church and the First Amendment.
  • elijahin24 bob 2012/08/20 16:56:11
    elijahin24
    There is a pretty powerful safeguard against attacks on the church: it's called the First Amendment; but it only protects YOU, if it also protects those who disagree with you.
    I think it's the height of paranoia to think that people defending equality, is just an excuse to attack religion. I also think that if a specific religion not only opposes, but actively fights against equality, that religion NEEDS to be attacked. Not eradicated, but put into its place. Either we are all free, or none of us are.
  • bob elijahin24 2012/08/20 19:26:41
    bob
    In the Eyes of the Three major Faiths ( Christian, Muslim and Jewish) . Homosexuality is a Sin.All tree faith use the Old Testament and this 5000 year old text says it is a Sin so what you want is to rewrite the Bible that will not happen.When you attack you should be ready to be attacked that is just the way. As I said in my first Post I Believe some of the People behind the Gay Marriage Issue are there to attack the Peoples First Amendment rights by using the 14th Amendment . The way to settle this Issue is to amend the Constitution and Define Marriage, 30 states have voted on this issue and all have voted to define Marriage as between a Man and a Woman.
  • Red Branch bob 2012/08/20 20:07:48
    Red Branch
    Same sex marriage was never sanctioned by any culture, religion, or civilization at any time in history.

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