ARE STAY AT HOME MOMS CLUELESS ABOUT FINANCES?
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2012/04/14 20:26:25
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You comment so much about the "millions" that I felt you were envious of their wealth. Millions don't necessarily guarantee you health or happiness...it's how you use it that is important.
I felt that they have used it for good and shouldn't that count for something? What you think is excessive is a way of life if you have earned a goodly mount of money.
Should you be criticized because you just inherited old money, or worked hard and are successful?
I think people who are very critical of the wealthy are envious:-)
Thus the "share the wealth mentality". If one earns it honestly, one should be able to spend it as they see fit. (For instance, is the car elevator for Ann R because she has MS and has difficulty with stairs and getting to the car? We don't know why people do what they do and should have no input!)
Have a nice day!
In fact I rather enjoyed our dialogue. It isn't necessary that we all agree...how boring that would be...I'd run away screaming!
Ps..No fear, I am not the smartest twit on the block, nor the dumbest
I hope!
Have a nice day! Peace..truce!
There are those who have NO Healthcare because they prefer the frills, the big car, the McMansion etc and there are millions of those, who live like millionaires with credit cards, not the money to back it!
EVERYONE who can't really AFFORD healthcare qualifies for free Medicaid and that include ILLEGAL ALIENS who flood emergency rooms for routine care!
So much for peace and truce!
Planned Parenthood's main objective is abortion...that's where the money is. It originated as a way to reduce the black race. (Look it up.) You are mistaken! Getting my tax dollars out of that abortion mill
whose goal is the killing of babies, paid for by my tax dollar does not upset, me but makes me cheer for the lives of those saved! Planned Parenthood pretends to prevent pregnancy, but simply removes the offending fetus.
This dialogue is going nowhere....and for you to hope someone chokes, no matter who it is, seriously offends me. Therefore, let us agree to disagree and end this counterproductive discussion...with or without the truce and peace.
"During the White House forum on women the Obama administration held today, pro-abortion President Barack Obama misled during a speech he gave in which he falsely claimed the Planned Parenthood abortion business does mammograms."
“When a mammogram is indicated, a patient is often referred to a local program, such as the STATE'S BREAST AND CERVICAL CANCER PROGRAM."
PP income is derived from tax payer abortions...the other wonen's health issues are not addressed at PP, that's a fallacy you've been sold!
Please Google..Planned Parenthood Obama for various sites.
Also the Komen Cancer group has an article about "no mammograms" at PP.
I prefer to do my own research than rely on only one source!
My quotes were from various sites.
here are the things that are said during campaigns.
they get funding from many sources, how are you suggesting they get revenue from abortions?
Primary example of this Lily "aunty" Daniel, who turned 77 last month. When raising her five children (two born in India, two in US and one in Germany), she had to stretch rupees even beyond what may ABJECTLY POOR stay-at-home mums did.
she knows she cannot spend what not in the bank ...
a simple concept that harvard graduates still dont get ......
Those kids are not with OWS screaming for a free college education! They know responsibility...it was taught at home!
I know rich women who stay home for the same reason as the poor women. They want to raise their own children with their OWN values.
It is automatically assumed by some elitists that the rich woman has others care for her children. Not true. She may need a nanny for times when she wants to be by her husband's side for business entertainment and such, (and hey--that gives someone a job!!!), but she also sacrifices for it all. She could have a job that pays much and boosts her ego like so many others. BUT, she seizes the opportunity to have her children raised by her and not others (who may compete with mom).
I also know poor women who make sacrifices for a short time, and do without many luxuries they could have if they chose to work, because they want to raise their own children, instill their own values and not a daycare worker's who can't love them like she can. She wants to be there before and after school for them. She may want the latest technology or gadget but she knows what's important to her.. She wants to raise her own children.
I also know women who want to work and don't have to, and put their children in daycare. Again, it's giving...
I know rich women who stay home for the same reason as the poor women. They want to raise their own children with their OWN values.
It is automatically assumed by some elitists that the rich woman has others care for her children. Not true. She may need a nanny for times when she wants to be by her husband's side for business entertainment and such, (and hey--that gives someone a job!!!), but she also sacrifices for it all. She could have a job that pays much and boosts her ego like so many others. BUT, she seizes the opportunity to have her children raised by her and not others (who may compete with mom).
I also know poor women who make sacrifices for a short time, and do without many luxuries they could have if they chose to work, because they want to raise their own children, instill their own values and not a daycare worker's who can't love them like she can. She wants to be there before and after school for them. She may want the latest technology or gadget but she knows what's important to her.. She wants to raise her own children.
I also know women who want to work and don't have to, and put their children in daycare. Again, it's giving someone a job! I don't understand not raising your own children if you can, but I will not say they can't. I think when you have children, you check your selfishness at the door. You have a problem if you think motherhood is 'less-than' or work is your identity.
I also know women who must work as they are single parents. I applaud them for their stamina! We should walk along side them with support. They don't want it this way (usually). I don't think anyone goes into marriage hoping for divorce or widowhood. Let's help and give her some rest. She wants to raise her kids but she is soooo tired. She hurts, and she lashes out in her hurt. There is a certain amount of neglect..not because she wants it, but because she is worn out. Let's take the govt's place and help her!!! Invite her kids to the park or zoo when you take yours, buy her and her kids some goodies she normally wouldn't be able to afford, or some extra quick meals she can just pop in the microwave after a long day of work. Babysit for a few hours to help her 'reset' her buttons! (time alone or out with friends) Those little things really help her and the children!
LOLOLOLOLOL
We are the ones that buy the food, pay the bills, and take the kids to the dr...and car to the shop.
We have to be EXTRA careful most the time because our home is a one income family. We cook, clean, teach the kids(or homework), balance the check book, fix things around the house....basicaly work 24/7 with no sick days or holiday time.....so to think just because a parent (mom or dad) is clueless with money is a joke:)
The other 1% don't have to worry about finance, and just shop.. Just saying it like it is