May 07, 2008 10:40PM GMT
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Relationships - Other
My friend is Bi and she is confused and dsnt kno wat2 choose? help?
she hsnt kissed a girl, but she said she thinks gurls are freakin hott like me, she has a bf but like gurls better she has no idea wat 2 pick, but she also says guys are fuckin hott and she has gotten like a ton of bf(i was one of them) and now that she came out of the closet evrybdy is diff. wit her xcpt me and a lil a bit of other ppl, and she wants 2 kno she shuld be bi, str8, or lesbian??? p.s. she hsnt kissed a girl, yett
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raves +2 posted May 27, 2008 02:56PM GMT
Answered Undecided
She should just really think about it first b4 she labels herself as straight, bi, or lesbian. U might end up regreting the choice u make if u don't think it through. It took me 3 years until I came 2 the conclusion that I'm bisexual. -
raves +2 posted May 27, 2008 02:51PM GMT
Answered She shuld stay bi, but she dsnt relly want 2
If she is bi, why does she feel it necessary to choose? Seriously, if she is genuinely bi and not just a confused kid, if she chooses one or the other out of feelings of being pressured, she'll be denying a part of herself and she'll hate herself for it. -
raves posted May 08, 2008 02:25PM GMT
Answered Undecided
This is a decission she had to live with...It will have a baring on the rest of her life...only she can make that decission...not easy...I love my wife and kids...would not do anything to hurt them...I also am attracted to guys and have enjoyed time with them...I love both but live my life for my wife and kids... -
raves +1 posted May 08, 2008 01:19AM GMT
Answered She shuld become a lesbian
doesnt being bi mean not making a choice between one or the other? your friend is a female. i say be a lesbian, in the long run she will probably have more in common with the ladies. a man will try to encourage her to have threesomes, a woman will not. to many diseases out there to be michevious in the bedroom. -
raves posted May 08, 2008 12:17AM GMT
Answered Undecided
She should wait, and not decide until it feels right to make a choice. One day she'll meet that special someone, who she wants to spend the rest of her life with, and it all depends on whether that special someone is a guy or a girl. I was bi for a long time, since my teens, and I didn't settle until I was 29. -
raves posted May 07, 2008 10:44PM GMT
Answered Undecided
A bi does not have to choose, and no one can help her choose. This is a decision she must make about what makes her happiest. You can listen to her is she wants to talk, but trying to convince someone to go one way or the other is not the right thing to do. Just tell her to be herself.
Answered Undecided
She should just really think about it first b4 she labels herself as straight, bi, or lesbian. U might end up regreting the choice u make if u don't think it through. It took me 3 years until I came 2 the conclusion that I'm bisexual.