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raves posted Oct 22, 2008 05:23PM GMT (edited)
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Absence till marriage isn't for everybody. So have some sex and enjoy yourself before you tie the knot.
Ok my serious moment...
There are some who chose to wait till marriage and those who don't. As long as you are responsible and protect yourself and your partner I don't see a problem. I am not for pregnancy before marriage oddly enough... -
raves +1 posted Oct 17, 2008 12:53PM GMT
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On humanities slide back to the swamp intellectuals and sociologists today feel free to ignore both modern sociological data, classic philosophical truth, and basic rules for preservation of the species. First the data: Couples who live together before marriage have a higher divorce rate than those who wait. As premarital sex has increased divorce, domestic abuse, std's, infertility have all gone up sharply. Now the philosophy: natural law, religion, and basic moral teaching recognize that faithful marriage is necessary for social stablity. Lastly the biological imperative: In developed countries the birth rate is falling below replacement levels and children are testing (phyically, mentally, socially) below their parents. But sex now and with whomever is fun (for a few minutes,) so ingore facts, history, and evolution and enjoy the slide to oblivion. -
raves +1 posted Oct 15, 2008 03:47AM GMT (edited)
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As long as you're being responsible, and you are not a young teenager doing it because "everyone else is" or because you'll be made fun of because you're a "virgin". It's not a bad thing. Losing your virginity when you're 13 doesn't make you cool. -
raves +1 posted Oct 14, 2008 04:17PM GMT (edited)
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The correct answer is NO, but most of us do any ways. Me honestly I would rather find out how a person is in that specific department {if you know what I mean} before I get married than after, because what if I wait? I know we're to trust God in this situation, but there's always a BUT. Like what if you were to get married and your sex life is disappointing not only would you be married but you'll be miserable, so I say why not get a sample, so you can know if you want it. -
raves +2 -1 Oct 14, 2008 05:36AM GMTYa know that anytime we get a fun subject, all the fanatics have gotta tell us that we have to follow thier religious beliefs.
Of course, sex with yourself (or some fun toys) is okay anytime! But a bunch of religious nuts will also try to argue against that too! (yeah, like they never touch themselves! lol) -
raves posted Oct 14, 2008 02:04AM GMT
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Missing the point. The emotional growth of the male for the female is based on time, as they slowly grow together by getting to know each other. While the female develops a mental attachment over time, the male will do this also if there is still the drive to access the ultimate gift from the woman. Once the gift is unwarped, the emotional growth stops. The "free love" moment sounds great, full of total freedom, it depends upon what you want from your encounter, decide then reach for the goal. -
raves +1 posted Oct 13, 2008 11:12PM GMT
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When u r old enough not like 14 15 or 16 years old i say about 18 and up! If u have ur first time when u r married and maybe u figure out l8er that hes not the one 4 u then u just ruin ur first time and that should be someone that u r meant 4 and that he REALLY loves everything about u! Maybe he just wants 2 married u 2 just have sex! Do it when u r good and ready! But remember always use protection! -
raves +1 posted Oct 13, 2008 10:20PM GMT (edited)
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You wouldn't bye a pair of shoes with out trying them on first. "But" i'am not saying try on the hole store. Limit you're self to the best. Pick the perfict fit for you and love em forever. Oh and boys -n- girls wear you're socks !!!! -
raves posted Oct 13, 2008 09:36PM GMT
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The bible says no but I do not follow that book because It was written by a bunch of dudes who never walked with the God they are talking about. Sex is a great thing and you should have a lot of it. Don't let the powers of Organized Superstition ruin your night. -
raves +1 posted Oct 13, 2008 07:56PM GMT
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It's not like God is going to strike a lightening bolt down on you if you do have sex before marriage, but it does say in His word that you should have no sexual immorality at all, not even a spot. and He clearly defines that sex should be between husband and wife. -
raves +1 posted Oct 13, 2008 05:39PM GMT (edited)
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Yes, but don't be sleeping with everyone you see. It will help to have sex before hand because you will be a little more experience, how will you please your man if you don't know how to. Or know what works or not. But ultimately it's upto the individual, do what you want do! -
raves +1 Oct 13, 2008 06:24PM GMTivabigun .....Your assumptions that having sex before marriage will lower the divorce rates are way off! If anything it is just the complete opposite. People have been doing it before marriage for a very long time and and the divorce rate is still climbing! Divorce rates were at their lowest 50 years ago when the majority of people still held sex within marriage as the norm. Since the "free love" sixty's when sex before marriage become the norm, divorce rates continue to escalate! It is so easy to see the correlation between the two!
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raves +1 posted Oct 13, 2008 02:06PM GMT
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NEVER before marriage, under any circumstances! "Thou shalt not comit adultry" or anything like unto it, is still God's commandment whether you agree or not. It makes perfect sense and a loving Heavenly Father gave us this commandment for our own good. I have been happily married for many years and my husband and I have raised a family upon that commandment. It truly does pay off in so many ways to wait until marriage. Besides being obedient to God's commandment, other benifits are ... no worries of transmitted diseases, babies being raised by single Mom's and a very high trust level between husband and wife during marriage. Come on guys, have some self control .. we're not animals!! Waiting until after marriage makes sex even that much more speical and treasured! -
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You gotta taste the milk before you buy the cow!