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This is one very frustrating thing about sodahead.

I know this is a site for discussion. I know that people have the right to block here if they feel the need to.


However, I feel that my blogs are my personal space, they are quite different from questions or news.

Yes, people have the right to RESPECTFULLY disagree with me on my blogs...but not come to my blog, be extremely rude and nasty to me, then block me.



Hmm let me rephrase this. Sure they have a right to block me, however, why can't I remove these nasty comments on my blog?

I equate this to someone spraying graffiti on my rental home, then being told I cannot remove it.

I don't own the home, but it is still my personal space, I should have some power here.


I also think that we should have the option of only allowing our friends to read our blogs, or at the very least having the option of banning some people from our blogs. Sure we can block people here, but they can still view our profile and read and share our blogs.

Again, this is like not having the power to say who gets to come into our rental homes.

Sodahead has potential to be one of the best social websites, but they need to fix a few things.
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  • gibyob November 11, 2009 02:46:00
    gibyob
    I understand your feelings about this issue. Ultimately you have the true power Chose to be the better person by ignoring their taunts and balderdash and move on to the people that are really interesting and have quality responses.
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    flaca November 11, 2009 02:40:32
    flaca
    I don't think you should be able to block. Nasty folks go away eventually.
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    Death F... flaca November 12, 2009 02:27:06
    Death Faerie
    I think we should be able to block, we shouldn't have to put up with people we don't want to..however, its rude to go on someones personal space, say nasty stuff, then block them. Its nasty and rude to say intentionally nasty things in a question, then block someone, then send people to bully that person on their blog
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    sugarbuzz flaca November 12, 2009 04:34:05
    sugarbuzz
    But I have seen some annoyingly persistent ones, and blocking is the only way to get them to back off, unless you can think of a temporary way to put a halt to the immediate situation.
  • ptete i... flaca November 12, 2009 14:56:26
    ptete in left I trust
    I think everyone should have the right to put anyone who is insulting on permanent ignore. I for one, am a strong fan of blocking someone who is rude, nasty, insulting or demeaning. I don't want to open up yet another reply with the same content of hate that the previous one had, and I'm not one for "turning the other cheek" and walking away. I'll let that person know how offensive they were as civilly as possible, and then tell them why they are getting blocked, and then block them permanently. No second chances.
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    Puck November 11, 2009 02:27:20
    Puck
    That's actually one change I'd love to see here. Blogs should be more personal. We should have the option of only sharing them with our friends, especially since the rest of the site could care less about what's going on in the personal lives of people they don't know and don't care about.
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    Death F... Puck November 12, 2009 02:28:04
    Death Faerie
    That's right! I cannot stand it when someone uses a blog I meant for my friends to read against me in some future argument.
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    moomoof "Jin Kazama!" November 11, 2009 02:24:28
    moomoof
    Or spam that would be great!
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    casperan November 11, 2009 02:21:31
    casperan
    Very good blog!
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    Michael November 06, 2009 23:07:36
    Michael
    Great suggestions. Thanks...give us some time but these make good sense.
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    Fef November 06, 2009 23:05:34
    Fef
    Thanks for the suggestion. We will note it and give it serious thought -- really. Already several people on the team discussed your blog.

    Next time, please post it here:
    http://www.sodahead.com/other...
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    Death F... Fef November 07, 2009 03:47:38
    Death Faerie
    Thank you, I will try to remember this.
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    Katie Fef November 11, 2009 02:57:54
    Katie
    Go Fef! You're absolutely amazing!
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    Edward Barrera November 06, 2009 22:57:39
    Edward Barrera
    Hey, I'm a SodaHead editor. I think some of the things you brought up are pretty reasonable. I know we're in the process of changing some things, and I'll pass on your suggestions. People like you are important for the site to grow. Thanks for caring so much.
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    Death F... Edward ... November 07, 2009 03:48:14
    Death Faerie
    You're welcome : )
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    DER WAHNSINN November 06, 2009 20:55:09
    DER WAHNSINN
    I completely agree, and I rather liked the simile about rental homes.
    I was just recently wondering why we can't remove others' comments on here, and also I'd like it if we could give a thumbs-down to people's comments as well as having the thumbs-up option, like they do on YouTube.
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    Death F... DER WAH... November 06, 2009 21:16:46
    Death Faerie
    I thought the downrave was the thumbs down. Well, you have to have a reason, unfortunately. I wish they would add more reasons you can downrave people for. I wish we could add these reason's

    stupidity
    bad grammar


    I can't think of anymore. I had a list, but alas! I forgot them.
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    Fef Death F... November 06, 2009 23:41:54
    Fef
    Only use the Abuse flag for abuse -- not poor quality or spelling.
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    fairiefang0 November 06, 2009 18:44:49
    fairiefang0
    I think a good number of people on this site have no idea what respect is.
    I hate people that say rude shit and than block...it's annoying and only makes them look like cowards.

    Did you see what this one chick did to Astoria? They were arguing and this kid posted: "If u don't reply I'm just gonna assume they're worse and ur to ashamed of them to say anything!"....She made sure Astoria couldn't reply by blocking her...some of the kids on this site are so dumb.

    You really should be able to remove bad comments.

    I like the idea of an option where only friends can read our blogs. I usually don't mind anyone reading my blog, but if I want to talk about something more personal I usually don't bother b/c I don't need commentary from people I don't even know.
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    Death F... fairief... November 06, 2009 19:16:01
    Death Faerie
    Yea, that's why I like to blog on myspace. I can have a preferred list there. However, I love sodahead, I wish I had a bit more privacy.

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