I hate this so much...

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I hate this so much...

Posted October 29, 2009 21:53:37
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I am seriously not the smartest kid at school. I try so hard, but my grades still aren't the best. My parents don't seem to understand that I am struggling. They just think I am being stupid and slacking off. My older sister got praise for having good grades. My little sister gets praise for everything she does and I get yelled at because I always seem to do something wrong. I try hard, but get nothing in return. I get disrespect and can't say anything at all because I will get yelled at for showing disrespect. I try to do all my work I try to do things, but my parents swamp me with other stuff that I have a hard time getting it all done. And if I don't finish either I get in trouble. I have a hard time sleeping at night because I am majorly stressed and my parents just think I stay up and watch tv all night just because I don't want to sleep. Which they never bother to listen to me when I try to defend myself. I am the quiet shy sibling of the family who never talks. I can't a word in. I try so hard, but no one ever listens to me

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A7X Fan November 01, 2009 18:28:06

=/ thats sucks really bad
Laura♥TH&HP *The Great Esca... October 30, 2009 10:52:58

I don't really know what to say to be honest..
In my family nothing like that happens..
The only thing I can think of is trying to convince your mom/dad to sit down and have a talk about it with you and force them to listen (I'd speak to them one at a time otherwise its 2 v 1).
Explain to them how you feel and hopefully they'll want to help you with your grades and maybe they'll back off for a bit with getting you to do other stuff...
~*Bryn*~ October 30, 2009 05:00:37

Babygirl, the same thing happened to me and in fact STILL happening to me. The best thing I can tell you is just to do your best. Screw them. Be yourself. I believe in you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3 <3
JessicaChamiye October 30, 2009 03:50:18

damn thats like me!!!
i try so hard but yet its never enough!
but im the oldest and opposite of shy
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Amber V... to Jessica... October 30, 2009 03:52:22

I've never really been able to get friends. People tend to make fun of my looks and everything so I spend a lot of time alone
Jessica... to Amber V... October 30, 2009 03:55:33

oh im funny lookin too
but i have soo many friends!
like on my myspacei have like 900 friends!
and i know all of them!:O
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Amber V... to Jessica... October 30, 2009 03:57:34

I spent most of my years in school alone. I really didn't get friend until 9th grade. Even then I only had like 3. I am too shy to go up to anyone
Jessica... to Amber V... October 30, 2009 03:58:17

im the total opposite
im now afreshman
Jessica... to Amber V... October 30, 2009 03:58:29

i think you need to be more out there hun
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Amber V... to Jessica... October 30, 2009 03:59:43

I am out a lot, but I don't have any friends. My last 'friend' left me in a park for 3 hrs with no ride home because she didn't tell me she wasn't coming. I don't trust people
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Ghost October 30, 2009 02:08:10

It always seems like its the middle child that gets screwed in every house. That must suck.
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Amber V... to Ghost October 30, 2009 02:29:25

I got screwed over even when I wasn't the middle child
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Ghost to Amber V... October 30, 2009 02:32:22

Do your other siblings help around the house?
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Amber V... to Ghost October 30, 2009 02:33:46

My little sister messes up the house and my older sister and my mom gossip onec they get home which preoccupies them until they get tired. So no
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Ghost to Amber V... October 30, 2009 02:45:34

I guess you should confront your parents about that. If they helped out too it would alleviate your stress. I'm usually the one whose expected to do everything in my house so I go in my room a lot of the time to escape their constant demands when I have other things to do forcing my parents to get my other siblings involved in helping more, I guess you could try that too.
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Amber V... to Ghost October 30, 2009 02:47:18

My mom just gets mad and says I spend too much time in my 'batcave'. Her and my older sister will still gossip. Also my little sister is only 2
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Ghost to Amber V... October 30, 2009 02:53:43

I can't think of anything else you could do then. Sorry I wasn't much help.
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Amber V... to Ghost October 30, 2009 02:55:01

It's fine. Only 2 more years to deal with this stuff
Ghost to Amber V... October 30, 2009 02:59:00

That's good.
chandy October 30, 2009 02:04:18

I have the exact same problems as you. . . i can relate to this very well because it sounds like you just described my life but i also have a nephew i get yelled at to babysit and have two weeks of school work to make up from being sick with swine. . . but it helps alot to get a tutor or someone to help you for a few hours a day. . . TRUST ME it helps ALOT and with the parents i have learned that if you just restrain yourself from arguing back and just try to get as much of the shit they request done as possible they bitch alot less and i also found out that no matter how pissed you are they get even madder when you just dont say a word and walk out of the house ha so just a btw
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