How would you handle it if you were disowned by your family?

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How would you handle it if you were disowned by your family?

by Me Posted November 05, 2009 04:43:48

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+4 raves Jester November 05, 2009 04:46:38

I can't imagine that ever happening (or maybe I don't want to). I am only the sum of my past, and without them, I would lose a big piece of what makes me who I am.
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Penguinz ►Art of Fighting◄ November 15, 2009 06:39:04

Good riddance,
wolfsan11 November 07, 2009 05:02:17

I don't think that will ever happen, but I imagine that I wouldn't handle it well at all.....
Enigma November 07, 2009 02:11:36

Nobody owns me. At least not since I left the Army that is!
A N G E L A November 06, 2009 02:04:00

sometimes i wouldnet care but other times i will
Ace~Mr.Giantess~ November 06, 2009 01:30:07 (edited)

That's happened before. I didn't care. If it happened now I'd probably be thrilled =D
hatshepsut123 November 05, 2009 23:25:55

i really don't know...
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ƬяαиƨΔмƬαм~Ѧɛтαℓ Ǫʋɛɛи \м/ November 05, 2009 23:08:53

$ƬяαиƨΔмƬαм~Ѧɛтαℓ Ǫʋɛɛи \м/$
Happened just yesterday with one member of my family.
Fuck 'em.
BlondieBrownEyes November 05, 2009 23:00:13

Being from a large family that would probably kill me. We all seem to get along quite well for such a diversity of personalities. Have some real mean ones in the family as well...
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Treasure November 05, 2009 22:49:51

I have been disowned a few times in my life...it is a terrible feeling. I always thought family loved a person unconditionally. But, in my small family, that didn't hold true.
tazimad November 05, 2009 17:39:18

I couldnt imagine that.
&LostNReality& November 05, 2009 17:04:36

It is kind of weird my father and I was just talking about how we are the black sheep on his side of the family.
Will November 05, 2009 15:16:48

It would be a very hard thing to deal with. I have always been accepte in my family even when the outside world seemed against me. It would bropably make me more of a rebel. I am little rebel now against injustices of the world because I belive in family and helping each other. If you take away the love for the family I do not know what type a rebel I would be. The thought is unconceivable.
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brandy carter November 05, 2009 14:35:30

i would make sure the rest of there life was a living hell
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wombat November 05, 2009 13:32:18

In my childhood I felt like that. Now I would miss beeing a part of the family.
Tutboy November 05, 2009 12:45:39

It would bother me when a few of them did it....but the majority, no big deal. I guess I would have to consider if I really wanted contact, anyhow, with people that would toss me aside.
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brittney paige November 05, 2009 12:40:18

quite well i think. it would give me the freedom and separation i need from them
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Alexander November 05, 2009 11:45:47

Wouldn't bother me at all. Relatives are generally people you would not normally associate with.
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dagnab1t November 05, 2009 11:40:27

Not very well......I'd probably inform them that I was never owned by them in the first place and have since grown to be self-sufficient anyway. I'd even be courteous enough to show them the door .........
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mistiblu November 05, 2009 11:20:16

at first i thought i handled it pretty well..years later i realised i handled it not too well...now i am older and wiser and handle it to the best of my abilities..sometimes i have a down day but thats a step up for me cos at one point everyday was down :)
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katycapone November 05, 2009 08:38:54

Emotionally it would be really hard. I'm pretty strong and independent so I would ultimately be o.k., but I think it would give me bouts of depression here and there. Hard to imagine though. My parents are the least judgmental, most forgiving people. This question makes me miss them, they live on the other side of the country.
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elptrek November 05, 2009 08:18:52 (edited)

I wish I was, maybe they leave me alone.lol
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Gun665 November 05, 2009 06:02:52

Just look at it as though they all died in a plane crash or something. Then ye can revel in all the money you'll save not buying Christmas, Birthday, etc.
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zulu49 November 05, 2009 05:48:35

Well, being an only child & both parents are dead; I don't think I have to worry much about being disowned; the problem would come from having the same amount of love that the disowning would create........God what a memory!
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Keen ToJones November 05, 2009 05:48:07

Hasta La Vista.
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regurgitated abortion-Regen... November 05, 2009 05:10:38

i'd probably do something that would get myself and a bunch of other people killed.
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Me to regurgi... November 05, 2009 05:12:08

Thats always an option :)
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mistiblu to regurgi... November 05, 2009 11:21:02

hmm i never thought about that........
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BienvenuJDC November 05, 2009 04:48:20

I would make sure that I wasn't being stubborn and arrogant... and if I was in the right...
Adopt a new one!
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Me to Bienven... November 05, 2009 04:50:12

LOL
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Sam the Pulsar November 05, 2009 04:46:59

That'd pretty much suck. My family is huge and I love them all.
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Me to Sam the... November 05, 2009 04:47:52

I agree :)
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JivinGene in da hizz-ouse! November 05, 2009 04:46:47

I am already considered the black sheep of my family..

So I am pretty close.
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Me to JivinGe... November 05, 2009 04:48:08

Stay the black sheep, trust me :)
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JivinGe... to Me November 05, 2009 04:48:39

It was not a choice.. So it is not up to me
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Me to JivinGe... November 05, 2009 04:50:27

Trust me I know the feeling
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Jester November 05, 2009 04:46:38

I can't imagine that ever happening (or maybe I don't want to). I am only the sum of my past, and without them, I would lose a big piece of what makes me who I am.
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Me to Jester November 05, 2009 04:48:27

Yeah, you would
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they call me hippie woman lol November 05, 2009 04:46:36

depends on who did the disowning
if it was my kids i would be devestated
my mothe i would be thrilled that she finally will leave me alone
but the rest idk really
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Me to they ca... November 05, 2009 04:49:08

Even when you don't get along disowning someone is crossing the line in my opinion
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they ca... to Me November 05, 2009 04:52:36

i dont agree with disowning
i dont disown
i may get mad and not speak to them for a while i dont disown tho
and after all my mom has done i respect her for bringing me into this world and i still see her as my mother but as nothing more