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Freedom of Expression.

Since coming on to Sodahead, I have heard the term "Freedom of Speech" being tossed around whenever an abuser wants the freedom to insult someone without any consequences. Although I am a firm believer in "Freedom of Speech," I do think that when that "Freedom of Speech" includes harrasment and/or persecution because of someone's choices, noone should have to endure this behavior. A person has the freedom to continue on with their abuse if given an audience, however the person that the abuser chooses to attack does not have to subject themselves to anymore abuse; hence the block feature.

Many people have abused the block feature. Many have silienced people for merely differing in opinion. I frown upon those that have done so, however I would not cry out censorship as what is my freedom to state my opinion is also their freedom to choose not to hear my opinion. I have been blocked for a mere differing in opinion and I believe it to be cowardly especially by those that continue to distribute vicious lies about me around Sodahead. But if they are given an audience and the audience is ignorant enough to believe them, then that is no longer my problem but that of ignorant and the choir.

When blocking someone because they attack and harass, then the block feature is necessary as it will prevent even more chaos. If someone cannot convey their opinion absent of insults and accusations, then they no longer deserve to have the privilege of debating with me. What is even more mind boggling is how hypocritical people can be as to harrass someone for their mere opinions (which is of course is UNPATRIOTIC in a Democracy) and then be upset when you make the gesture that you no longer will give them an ear for their abuse. Isn't it my right to choose who it is I want to listen to? When I am blocking, I am not taking away one's right to express themselves, just taking the ability to express themselves to ME! If you take away my right to refrain from receiving insults, wouldn't this be a violation of MY rights?

I am a fan of "Freedom of Speech" as I am a fan of blocking abusers. Of course, people should not block for a mere differing in opinion and I have not done so as I enjoy a little differing in opinion. Take a look at my friendlist and see how many I differ with in opinion. Yet, when the discourse becomes hostile and abusive I should not and will not tolerate it any longer. I will utilize my right and block those that cannot debate in a civil manner. I think people should learn to express themselves absent of harassments and insults. If one cannot do so, I will exercize my right and not continue to listen!
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  • +8 raves fluer August 15, 2008 13:02:27
    fluer
    Girl, as you know we back different candidates but I have always found you to be fair and open to a discussion. I defended you vigorously against the idiot in one poll as you probably remember. I have blocked many people on here generally when their one and only issue is race and because I don't support their candidate they call me racist. I have lived most of my life listening to the words of Dr. King when he sai I have a dream that my 4 little children will grow up in a world where they are judged by the quality of their message rather than the color of their skin. Racism between any race is just unacceptable to me and I just refuse to deal with it. But you remain one of my SH friends because of the quality of your words. I do however use the block feature when I give up on a person as someone who has no quality and who wants to argue over one issue and forget that others do not see the world through the prism of their eyes.
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    cathy~COB "Love One Another" August 16, 2008 02:52:49
    cathy~COB
    Good blog, Girl. The blocking has gotten weird lately, very weird. I have people block me, unblock, block, unblock, on and on and on. I'm very careful not to be offensive, so I feel it is ridiculous, and adolescent.
  • +5 raves
    sadiesmom August 16, 2008 01:25:04
    sadiesmom
    I have only blocked mikeb***, yet, I've tried to respond to three different people's polls this week and found that I was blocked by them. Two of which, I've never had a word said between us..go figure!

    It gets mis-used and abused..as does the DR, still, with all of the criteria that they ask for when you do it now. Again, go figure!
  • +4 raves
    Girl, I... sadiesmom August 16, 2008 11:41:03
    Girl, Interrupted
    I think they are blocking when they see your political stance. Can you say pre-judg-ing?
    *LOL*
  • +2 raves
    sadiesmom Girl, I... August 17, 2008 21:26:24
    sadiesmom
    Since I'm a moderate and all over the board, I could say more! LOL!
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    Chocolat-In the universe I ... August 15, 2008 19:12:02
    Chocolat-In the universe I trust.
    Girl,

    Very well stated and very true! Kudo's to you!
  • +3 raves
    Girl, I... Chocola... August 16, 2008 11:41:25
    Girl, Interrupted
    Thanks Tresor!
  • +2 raves
    PLANETEATER August 15, 2008 19:08:51
    PLANETEATER
    BLOCK ALL THEY ASSES GIRL! THAT'S WHAT I DO! FUCKEM!!
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    Girl, I... PLANETE... August 16, 2008 11:41:17
    Girl, Interrupted
    *LOL*
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    Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas August 15, 2008 16:03:47
    Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas
    One problem...

    We are not a democracy...

    We are a republic...

    Democracy is marked by the majority opressing the minority...
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    Girl, I... Ihr Has... August 15, 2008 16:10:24
    Girl, Interrupted
    In technical terms we are considered a Republic. But common knowledge is that we all have Freedom of Expression and that includes not persecuting one for their beliefs.
  • Ihr Has... Girl, I... August 15, 2008 16:28:40
    Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas
    I can call you names and march on your house as much as I will, solong as I am not restricting your rights I am well within my own....

    As much as I do not like people that are any race supremacists, I do reserve their right to say what they will...

    The issue I had with what we discussed was the fact that the people in question were protesting to grant 1/3 of this country to Mexico....
  • +4 raves
    Girl, I... Ihr Has... August 15, 2008 16:32:14
    Girl, Interrupted
    If you read my blog completely, you will see that we agree. Anyone can do and say whatever they please. I don't have to listen. When they insult and I block, this is not restricting their Freedom of Speech, this is my Freedom of Speech stating I choose not to listen. The block feature does not restrict anyone's broad rights, it just allows me to use mine. That's what my blog is about.
  • +1 raves
    Ihr Has... Girl, I... August 15, 2008 16:34:54
    Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas
    I agree with everything except the one small point in my original post, as for the persecution part, that is what my reply was about...

    And I brought up the other thing to explainhow I was being consistent with my view...
  • +3 raves
    Girl, I... Ihr Has... August 16, 2008 11:42:00
    Girl, Interrupted
    Thanks. I know you are consistent and very mature which is why I enjoy our debates :)
  • +2 raves
    Wesloco Girl, I... August 16, 2008 13:40:27
    Wesloco
    Absolutely! How absurd to equate the block feature with a restriction of freedom of speech. The block feature is simple a way of taking your phone of the hook so as not to be annoyed by crank callers. The person being blocked can still stick there head out the window and make their views known.
  • +3 raves
    Girl, I... Wesloco August 16, 2008 15:04:33
    Girl, Interrupted
    Good analogy, Wesloco.
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    Wesloco Ihr Has... August 16, 2008 13:33:32
    Wesloco
    Would we really want to live in a true democracy where we do not have the parameters of the Constitution? I mean things are bad enough as they are with the powers that be voting themselves all kinds of perks and leaving the masses to struggle with the burdens they impose.
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    Shoshana Shescynical August 15, 2008 15:50:36
    Shoshana Shescynical
    LOOK, I FINALLY GOT ON.....Okay moving on
    I find when people do not want to hear from the side that is opposition to their opinion/views, it is because they have doubt about their position. And sometimes they are just ignorant followers. By stating your opposition to their side, you are casting doubt/fear in their minds. I for one like to hear the opposition because it just lets me know that I am right. :0)
  • +4 raves
    Girl, I... Shoshan... August 15, 2008 15:55:06
    Girl, Interrupted
    Hey!!!! I had given up on you.
    Did you get my message? So when will you be flying to NY?

    I enjoy hearing the opposition as well when they are worth hearing. However when one continues to insult or uses irrelevant information rather than state their issue, they are proving themselves an unworthy opponent.
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    Wesloco Shoshan... August 16, 2008 13:46:54
    Wesloco
    I agree Shoshana and as long as we're able to this without using pejorative terms I think it adds vibrancy to the conversation and allows us to understand why others feel as they feel. They may not change our persuasion but at least we catch a glimpse of where they are.

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