Would you stay in a marriage without love?

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Would you stay in a marriage without love?

by Treasure Posted November 07, 2009 11:01:41

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Maddie November 12, 2009 03:51:04

yes oh wait that says would you not have you.. lol so I guess my answer is still yep lol
poorboy November 10, 2009 16:53:28

for the children
Sc ♥ Angel ♥™ -Won't be bac... November 09, 2009 11:53:02

Been there, done that (stayed for the kids much longer than I should have ) ..and would NEVER do it again.
Squint November 09, 2009 06:03:21

No, you're not doing anybody any good by continuing a sham. All you achieve is preventing both of you from finding a more compatible partner. And, if there are kids in the equation you can be certain they know exactly what is going on. Definitely the answer is no!
Bob, the reasonable one November 09, 2009 05:39:33

Nope, I ended my marriage after 12 years...to much stress and too much of everything else....
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NO.
Treasure November 09, 2009 05:22:07

I tried to for 7 yrs...because of my son. But, then I saw the ill effects that our marriage was having on him... and realized, I needed to take action. It was very difficult but has been the best thing for my son.....and for me.
allergik2love November 08, 2009 06:15:21

then whats the point of the marriage part, economy is in the shitty...i wod stay cuz of divorce money
ReverendDeathface13 November 08, 2009 02:06:19

No way! What would be the point?
Blistful November 07, 2009 23:53:53

Why would someone even marry without love. There are many cultures that choose for their children to marry. In the olden-days some of our parents stayed together for the sake of the children. I personally, wouldn't do it cause it would be to much torment for me, my husband and the children...
Charge November 07, 2009 23:28:27

If there is No love there is No point.... end it.
MrDazzling November 07, 2009 22:41:16

Ah no........
Nicky November 07, 2009 21:56:27

I truly don't know. I can't imagine being married to someone I wasn't in love with. I suppose it depended on the circumstances.
Big daddy November 07, 2009 21:19:13

no.....
Kanaka Rican - I know my Re... November 07, 2009 19:15:07

Unfortunately the easy way out is the norm. It takes work to make a marriage work and shouldn't be entered into lightly. When you love someone, you may not necessarily like them all the time....it's about acceptance, tolerance, dedication and some self examination....We tend to expect people to change to please us....and that is not love...that's selfishness. The vow's specifically says through better or worse, the good and the bad, in sickness and in health...so it seems to me that we don't take oaths or binding contracts seriously...what does that say about our integrity?

I would stay and work on my marriage....only in extreme circumstances would divorce be an option....abuse.
Sarah November 07, 2009 17:26:22

No
sky blue pink - American November 07, 2009 16:23:37

No, I'd leave.
Blessed Be !
BlondieBrownEyes November 07, 2009 16:18:53

A lot of people do because of kids, financial reasons...I've never had that problem, so don't know what I would do.
Malika November 07, 2009 15:04:41

Certainly is not present
littledreamer68 November 07, 2009 14:41:08

No, when one person falls out of love with the other, they have no respect or compassion anymore. You are going through the motions but don't really mean it. Why stay married. Life gets pretty unbearable. And it hurts the kids more because they see the motions and know its only motions.