Would you have sex with someone who had had over 100 partners?
☆ElenaDiamond☆
2012/07/11 04:09:12
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Safe Sex Is your responsibility no matter how many partners each of you have in your past
Tell me this. Imagine that you were (or are) single and you met a guy you liked. After a few weeks (let's say 6 dates = 2 per week for 3 weeks) the subject of sex came up (either talking it over, or making out starting to lead to something more). Would you really say to him, "I wish I could have sex with you, because I really like you and I think we're forming a good relationship. The problem is, I've reached an arbitrarily determined number based on my idea of how many men a 'good' girl should be with. As such, I'm pretty much done. Except for ex-sex, I'm at my limit. Sorry."
I never said that he or anyone should announce that. That wasn't my question at all. If someone chooses to stop at a certain number (not unheard of) then they wouldn't put themselves in that said situation to begin with.
It's like asking someone how many meals they plan to eat in their lives. Or how many times they are going to go to the bathroom. "Is there a number you plan to stop at? Have one in mind?" No, I don't have a number in mind nor do I think ant0n has one, either. I plan on taking as many breaths as I can, eating as many meals as I can, taking as many dumps as are necessary, earning as much money as I can, and having as much sex as I can, too. If it's with my wife, then super. If she (God forbid) checks out of this life early or divorces me, that doesn't affect my plans in the sightest.
What about you? How many songs have you listened to in your life? Is there a number you plan to stop at? Have one in mind?
And If you have a problem with my question, that's your own fault & on you to deal with...but would you look at that my question was to ant and not you oops your fault.
I also note that you never answered my question. How many songs have you listened to in your life? When did you plan on stopping? Have a number in mind?
Of course you didn't answer my question - because it's a stupid question. Who in the world keeps an exact count of how many songs they've heard, or plans on knocking off at some arbitrarily determined number? It's the same with sex. Only those who put notches on their bedpost know how many they've been with, and no one in their right mind would plan on knocking off once a certain number is hit.
"If you didn't care about my initial question then you wouldn't have said anything to me to begin with, so that's a lie."
I figured it was just a typo. A momentary lapse because you'd changed thoughts midway through typing the sentence. But here, in your most-recent followup we find:
"...if I wanted to ask it in private I could or would have."
So in light of this, I can only conclude that you are incapable of forming conditionals properly and so, sadly enough, it falls to me to educate you.
You see, when we say "If I were you..." although we are using the past (were) we are not talking about the past, rather we are talking about now - that is, an imaginary now. A hypothetical situation where, in some strange fashion, I ended up being you.
However, in what you've typed, you are clearly talking about the past. As such, what you should have said was "If I had wanted to ask it privately, I would have done so." In order to continue your remedial lesson on English, try hitting up http://www.englishclub.com/gr...
Really, though, I must say it's surprising that you (at the age of 40) never learned how to speak English properly. Personally I would be hum...
"If you didn't care about my initial question then you wouldn't have said anything to me to begin with, so that's a lie."
I figured it was just a typo. A momentary lapse because you'd changed thoughts midway through typing the sentence. But here, in your most-recent followup we find:
"...if I wanted to ask it in private I could or would have."
So in light of this, I can only conclude that you are incapable of forming conditionals properly and so, sadly enough, it falls to me to educate you.
You see, when we say "If I were you..." although we are using the past (were) we are not talking about the past, rather we are talking about now - that is, an imaginary now. A hypothetical situation where, in some strange fashion, I ended up being you.
However, in what you've typed, you are clearly talking about the past. As such, what you should have said was "If I had wanted to ask it privately, I would have done so." In order to continue your remedial lesson on English, try hitting up http://www.englishclub.com/gr...
Really, though, I must say it's surprising that you (at the age of 40) never learned how to speak English properly. Personally I would be humiliated if some foreigner had to come and correct me about the proper way to speak my own language, but I won't ask you how you feel because, as you have pointed out, you weren't asking me.
But perhaps it isn't that surprising at all. After all, at age 40, you haven't learned how to have successful relationships (witness the divorced status) yet so perhaps what you really need is a trip back to kindergarten to learn how to play well with others.
But I will ask you this:
How many times do you intend to abuse the English language? Thinking of stopping? Have a number in mind?
if I were single
If protection was used (no exception)
and with an open mind ... (100 partners... either an animal with lots to teach or just a slow student... I wouldn't know until we "got busy"!)
*shudders*
I kinda need more info
Is this person just asking out of the blue XD
or im in a relationship with this person ....
ofcouse i would want them tested and all
I don't know i don't want to be the person that judges people on their past it isn't good
but as sigmund freud said our beds are crowded .
Again it really shouldn't matter if the person has had many people just how good hearted and caring is the person
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