Would you forgive your spouse for cheating on you in your own house ?

Depends;
I don't know if he's willing to reconcile and give our relationship another chance, when the anger and the hurt has faded and we have children then yes.
But if he has been cheating on me and lying behind my back not having the guts to tell the truth instead then no.

Thanks Miko !

i think i would act like i didn't care and move out the first chance i got. maybe when hes at work, so when he did get home, the house would be empty.

No I would kick him to the curb, out the door and out of my life. Not only would I do that if it were in my home but just cheating on me period. Even on line stuff, out of here. I am a one woman man, do not share my love. If he doesn't want me then he can move on. Spoken by a real redhead!

Thanks RED ! : )

You are welcome Tudie!

I wouldn't be angry. I would be disappointed that our relationship had slipped so far that my spouse would be able to do that. It takes two to make a good relationship so I would want to know what happened and if there was an opportunity to move forward. I love my wife unconditionally.

Thanks Rod !

Thanks GoreGirl !

What difference does it make where it happened????

NO!!

Thanks Flor de Luna !

it would be conditional. and she would have to let me bang some strange once, cause its only fair.

Thanks i00waltz !

My spouse doesn't really need to cheat on me, I already gave the freedom to do it for physical enjoyment, as long as no love feeling is involved. However, my spouse isn't that type of person, me neither though I'm quite open-minded about other people doing it. But if my spouse cheat on me emotionally, even if it's online, there's no way this relationship can be saved.

Thanks Cecilia !

No Way! Whats a relationship without trust? If that happened he would be living in the gutter.

Thanks LMarie !

But I wouldn't forgive my spouse (if I had one) for cheating on me anywhere, not just in my own house...

Thanks Matt !

My, you do like to thank people, don't you? And that was THANK that I wrote! My pleasure!

I'd forgive her at the funeral.

now thats funny! (as a joke)

Thanks Chuckroast ! : )

I have forgiven cheating. Some people may call that stupid, but we've been together since he was 15, and some cheating when he was a silly little hormone-driven teenage boy is more forgivable.

However, he's an adult now. And psssh, cheat on me in OUR own bed...you'll be lucky if you find his body ;) lol jk.

Thanks LeAnn !

I wouldn't forgive them no matter where they were cheating on me but especially so if it was in my own house.

Thanks Night !

No problem!

it depend on what it is and how serious it was

Thanks Jessie !

you welcome

There would be nothing to forgive it will be over. Marriage is sacred, so is your home sacred in which boundaries are not to be broken. To have a spouse bring someone in your home to cheat with in your bed or anywhere in your home is one of the most treacherous things your spouse, your lover and your sweetheart could do to you. When its done in your home; that other person's spirit drifts around in your home, trying to connect with your spouse. Its like your house isn't yours anymore, its a place where your lover cheated on you.
Would I forgive my spouse for cheating in our home..."hell no" and the marriage would be over; because the trust would be broken forever.

Thanks barby karring !

Thanks flyingseaturtle !

Exactly' the male spouse does not accidentally trip and fall into a. "hole" and a female spouse does not accidentally trip and land on a pole.

Confusing, but I am saying it does not matter who cheats it is still wrong.