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Would You Ever Try a Friendship Matchmaking Site?

SodaHead Living 2012/07/16 02:09:46
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These days, matchmaking sites aren’t just for romantic relationships. In the last couple of years, a number of websites have emerged with the goal of helping facilitate new friendships. Most (but not all) of them are geared toward women: SocialJane.com, GirlFriendCircles, Girlfriend Social, Companion Tree, etc.

Whether you’ve moved to a new city, recently divorced, or just retired, these sites can help you meet new people who share common interests. The sites work a lot like traditional online dating: you post a profile, search the database, send messages, and eventually meet up in person. Some sites charge a subscription fee and others survive on advertising revenue.

Thousands of people have embraced these sites, but others believe the concept is contrived and awkward. In all likelihood, as time goes on, friendship matchmaking sites will lose their negative stigma, just like online dating websites before them. But right now, we still prefer to make friends the old-fashioned way.

What about you SodaHeads? Would you ever try a friendship matchmaking site?

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  • fallnhope 2012/08/08 02:20:00
    Yes
    fallnhope
    nothing to lose so why not?
  • BIG BAD JOHN R. 2012/07/24 16:58:39
    Yes
    BIG BAD JOHN R.
    Not for me but some may like it,
  • Tallulah 2012/07/22 06:36:27
    Yes
    Tallulah
    As long as your first few meetings are in a public place I don't see any harm really.
  • xxx 2012/07/18 06:09:20
    Yes
    xxx
    why not? I'm on this sort of site and others. I don't really see the difference except for the actual point of the site. You make "friends" on others sites unintentionally anyway.
  • blissful 2012/07/18 05:11:59
    No
    blissful
    Well I have plenty of friends hereon SH. Why should I look anywhere-else?. You can make friends anywhere, as long as you show yourself friendly...
  • Angryface01 2012/07/18 03:08:33
    Yes
    Angryface01
    This answer is in the past-tense. I have tried friend-making sites. They are not as described. For the most part, it's about one more space for people to "hook up" and that's just really passe for me. Been there, done that, it always goes badly. No matter how well matched you end up... people are people and people that have multiple "pokers" in the fire are not people who are looking for companionship.
  • Louisa - Enemy of the State 2012/07/18 01:14:43
    No
    Louisa - Enemy of the State
    Anything that introduces female to female is probably rife with lesbians and I'm not. If you can't find a friend at school, work or in your community, maybe no one wants to be your friend.
  • Christopher Kirchen 2012/07/17 22:10:06
    No
    Christopher Kirchen
    +1
    I make friends the old fashioned way; where I work, where I live, and by chance.
  • Margaret Jacobson 2012/07/17 21:53:23
    No
    Margaret Jacobson
  • TasselLady 2012/07/17 21:26:21
    No
    TasselLady
    +2
    There are too many fruitcakes out there.
    psychos
  • Nonpartisan 2012/07/17 16:02:00
    Yes
    Nonpartisan
    If they are like all of the dating sites that I am a member of they would be overpopulated with SCAMMERS.
  • GLaDOS 2012/07/17 15:38:39
    Yes
    GLaDOS
    +1
    Why not? I mean, people trust the Internet for their more intimate relationship needs, so why not friends? They don't have to be "besties," but at least you might have someone local to chat with.
  • Bronar 2012/07/17 15:15:13
    No
    Bronar
    +1
    I have plenty of friends, so I wouldn't. I have used dating sites with some success though.
  • Sister Jean 2012/07/17 14:54:13
    No
    Sister Jean
  • beach bum 2012/07/17 11:00:33
  • Nessa 2012/07/17 10:19:10
    Yes
    Nessa
    +2
    i think it's a good idea. people should reach out to each other :)
  • AM 2012/07/17 06:07:29
    No
    AM
    +1
    The insanity continues....
  • Huntclan 2012/07/17 05:28:42
    No
    Huntclan
    +2
    Not for friendship... I have nothing against dating sites. Usually, when you date a person you are getting a friend too. Also, when one marries they also tend to change they way they interact with their friends.
  • mikeeonly 2012/07/17 02:23:36
    Yes
    mikeeonly
    +5
    Why not?
  • SimianSays 2012/07/17 00:40:14
    Yes
    SimianSays
    +4
    It's particularly for those people who do not actively pursue cirrhosis of the liver, heart disease, and loud, obnoxious, alcohol induced gregariousness. The quieter, introspective person would get more out of a site like this.
  • Nessa SimianSays 2012/07/17 10:18:44
    Nessa
    +1
    aka not for the partier, for the intellectuals.

    i was more concise :P
  • MOMMA THOMAS 2012/07/17 00:00:05
    No
    MOMMA THOMAS
    +1
    NOPE..
  • Chris 2012/07/16 23:56:32 (edited)
    No
    Chris
    +1
    I'd rather meet people in real life, not in cyber space.

    There is more mystery and you want to get to know each other... on these sites you read a profile all about the person so there isn't as much mystery.
  • metspatriotshd69 2012/07/16 19:47:22
    Yes
    metspatriotshd69
    +2
    That is how my sister and best friend met their mates. So why not
  • Jaiheena Star 2012/07/16 19:18:05
    No
    Jaiheena Star
    +3
    Hell no!
  • TKramar 2012/07/16 19:14:58
    Yes
    TKramar
    +1
    I would use them, but not for their intended purpose.

    You could add friends here...this is merely another social networking site. But I don't want any friends, so I'd just hang around the site's message boards.
  • tori 2012/07/16 18:52:50
    No
    tori
    +3
    I don't think I'd do this. Meeting ppl online is always sketchy.
  • Heisenberg 2012/07/16 17:22:37
    Yes
    Heisenberg
    +2
    It's as good an idea as meeting them on the streets I suppose.
  • frequent–antagonist 2012/07/16 16:27:52
    No
    frequent–antagonist
    +1
    Not really my thing.
  • Yu Ogata 2012/07/16 15:48:43
    No
    Yu Ogata
    +1
    How do you meet gaijin (foreign) friends in Tokyo, Japan?
  • frequen... Yu Ogata 2012/07/16 16:30:36
  • Michael 2012/07/16 15:44:45
    No
    Michael
    +4
    But, isn't that what Facebook is?
  • TKramar Michael 2012/07/17 16:21:16
    TKramar
    Not my Facebook. Mine is reserved for people I personally know.
  • imsmarter 2012/07/16 15:44:11
    Yes
    imsmarter
    +1
    To an extent. When I got married, I didn't lose too many friends because my husband was already friends with most of my own. I did lose some guy friends (who were propably waiting for our relationship demise), but it didn't bother me. However when we became pregnant we did notice a slow but steady reduction in friends. and once my daughter was here, we had almost no friends who wanted to hang out with us. We were the first in our group (various ages between 19 and 35) that had a child, so I can understand. Especially when we ourselves decided to slow life down to raise our daughter. But people need to socialize! We needed friends to stay sane. So we joined meetup.com and its a site where people with similar interests meet up and do activities around the city. I'm now a part of several mommy groups, knitting and crochet groups, and my husband is a part of some NYC fathers groups and wrestling fan groups. Its really nice. I'm glad we did it.
  • YourCompanionCube 2012/07/16 15:29:47
    No
    YourCompanionCube
    +4
    Pathetic.
  • Bulbasaurus Rex. 2012/07/16 15:23:48
    No
    Bulbasaurus Rex.
    +1
    Don't need one.
  • JohnT 2012/07/16 14:40:09
    No
    JohnT
    +3
    No, I don't care for online things. I meet people in person that works for me.
  • geneticmistake 2012/07/16 14:19:25
    No
    geneticmistake
    +2
    Not interested.
  • kyle 2012/07/16 13:52:47
    No
    kyle
    +2
    i rather not because it seems pointless to me
  • Kigan 2012/07/16 12:53:32
    No
    Kigan
    +3
    What...I just...no.

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