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Would You Date Someone Who's Unemployed?

SodaHead Living 2012/06/29 19:00:00
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Not only will being unemployed affect your bank account, it will affect your love life, too -- especially if you're male. A whopping 75 percent of women say they are unlikely to date a guy who is out of a job, according to a poll from dating service It's Just Lunch.


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More specifically, 33 percent of women said they would NOT go out with someone who is unemployed, even on one date, and other 42 percent said "Maybe" with the caveat, "I wouldn't want to throw a lot of time into it unless they had a game plan for getting back on track." Only 4 percent said "Of course" and 21 percent said "Yes. But I'd be curious to see how they're keeping occupied in the meantime."

Meanwhile, almost two-thirds of men were OK with dating an unemployed woman, with 19 percent having no reservations at all and 46 percent saying they would definitely date a jobless gal.

Our friends at How About We aren't overly shocked by the poll results, but think women should be more open-minded. "To women, having a job is huge, and I understand. Not because I want a guy to be rolling in benjamins and buying me stuff, but because having a job is a sign that you have your sh*t together and care about stuff and are ambitious and are working toward something, etc.," writes one female blogger.

She continues, "But! Obviously (especially today), people are between jobs all the time. I have a friend who pretty much quits his job whenever he feels like it and then travels to Iceland for two weeks and then comes back and easily finds another job. Some people can do that." Would you date someone who's unemployed?

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  • Papillon 2012/06/30 16:42:06
  • ..tisha... 2012/06/30 16:34:27 (edited)
    No
    ..tisha...
    +2
    "Money isn't important", "It's about love".... those are some pretty naive views. Money is important if you plan to share a life with someone, you may love that person but it can get old real quick when you work a 9-5 paying the bills while the other just helps spend it. A relationship is not only about love, it's about how much both contribute to it- finances included. But hey, if you want to date someone who has no job, no car, doesn't have any goals at the moment but you really love them- then go ahead.
  • DavidK 2012/06/30 16:25:28
    Yes
    DavidK
    +2
    I would rather date an unemployed anti-Obama woman with no arms and no legs and hair on her chest, then to date a working gal who STILL supports Obama.........
  • mollymomo 2012/06/30 16:20:45
    Yes
    mollymomo
    Well depending on his looks and personality...
  • sm237 2012/06/30 15:59:15
    Yes
    sm237
    +1
    What the hell does employment have to do with attraction????
  • NarcolepticGoat 2012/06/30 15:54:58
    Yes
    NarcolepticGoat
    We could help each other and support each other's job search :)
  • Odinsown 2012/06/30 15:38:55
    Yes
    Odinsown
    At this point if she is single and legal it is game on, it has been too long
  • SethJackson81 2012/06/30 15:25:16
    Yes
    SethJackson81
    +1
    As long as she shared my opposition to white genocide via mass immigration and "assimilation" imposed on ALL white countries and ONLY white countries.Anti-racist is a codeword for anti-white,I would date her.
  • Kat 'CARROT' 2012/06/30 15:19:22
    Yes
    Kat 'CARROT'
    it's not about the money
  • Ichini 2012/06/30 15:12:45
    Yes
    Ichini
    Depends on how cute he is and how devoted our relationship is. If I am at work, then I am entrusting him to do housework.
  • The Mosher 2012/06/30 15:12:29
    Yes
    The Mosher
    if they were actually "actively searching" such as myself
  • meagan.taylor.167 2012/06/30 14:41:20
    No
    meagan.taylor.167
    +1
    absolutely not!
  • DavidK meagan.... 2012/06/30 16:28:28
    DavidK
    +1
    I suppose seeing as you have no money also.......
  • meagan.... DavidK 2012/07/05 23:53:46
    meagan.taylor.167
    I am not in denial, I also don't expect to find love till my feet are completely under me.. Live in shame & will hide till the day I can walk w/ my head held high like most I see around.
  • DavidK meagan.... 2012/07/06 14:02:14
    DavidK
    Live in shame?!?!?!? Why? Many Americans are in the same boat! Whats sad is that in most cases its the fault of our failed President! Weak hiring continues into June as sluggish economy generates only 80,000 new jobs, well below expectations, keeping unemployment rate at 8.2 percent.
    Great job that Obama and the Democratic controlled Congress have done, huh? If Romney becomes President we will pull out of this slump in time. Obama is in full campaign mode as he's been for the last 2 1/2 years, so don't expect anything positive to happen until he's gone. 4 more years of him and I'm afraid our Country as we knew it will be beyond any help for the majority of Americans.
  • meagan.... DavidK 2012/07/07 15:49:52
    meagan.taylor.167
    We have been in a slump longer than Obama.. It's not our preidents.. Its our way of living, how we suck eachother in to make our own profits, yet we are all weak enough we just can't keep our money in our pockets & our trust, faith & support level w/ one another.. We live a shamefull way, one that will never change. I am very thankful to be here in the US-- however the one thing I am not proud of is how we have turned this place in to a Greed shop.. I have pulled my own stunts & made my own choices however I am not proud & would like to change all that for a better me & maybe a better tomorrow.. Time is what I am in need of & untill then I will keep my head down & my chest in.
  • DavidK meagan.... 2012/07/07 16:07:16
    DavidK
    you can thank the liberals and Obama for supporting all of the illegals, which in turn hurts "legal" Americans. You are correct, it won't change until we get someone like Romney in office who will correct this problem!
  • meagan.... DavidK 2012/07/07 16:14:14
    meagan.taylor.167
    Who is this Romney.. Obama when he came out everyone had stars in their eyes, how has he made such an impact for your hopes?
  • DavidK meagan.... 2012/07/07 17:35:18
    DavidK
    Obama had NO EXPERIENCE! No surprise he would turn out to be a total failure. Romney has worked in the private sector and became very successful. Obama never did. Romney is a Mormon and they are very honest people. Who knows what Obama is. Google the differences and see for yourself.
  • meagan.... meagan.... 2012/07/07 14:53:12
    meagan.taylor.167
    +1
    Most the unemployed I have met are low class, careless individuals that are looking for a free dollar while they could be out there making something of themself in some way! My answer is still, no.. N if I were living on unemployment it would not break my heart if someone refused me for that reason!
  • meagan.... meagan.... 2012/07/07 15:01:34
    meagan.taylor.167
    +1
    I'm not saying if I loved the guy I'd dump him, love is very important to every part of me.. However so is personality & that individuals drive for success!
  • :)SuperGirl(: 2012/06/30 14:39:28
    No
    :)SuperGirl(:
    Ment to put yes.
  • bluelady 2012/06/30 14:29:08
    Yes
    bluelady
    +1
    my hubby was unemployed when I met him, and I took him out for pizza on our first date
  • Papillon bluelady 2012/06/30 16:46:00
    Papillon
    That's a REAL woman. These other ones that vote no are nowheresville.
  • bluelady Papillon 2012/07/01 14:22:16
    bluelady
    why wouldnt I??, I worked a full time job in a factory and another 25=30 hours a week at Sears doing tires,batteries,oil and shocks...I had money, he didnt .
    and it was weird, it was love at first sight for me... I just knew he was the ONE
  • Papillon bluelady 2012/07/02 18:22:57
    Papillon
    I had the same experience.
  • Vieuphoria 2012/06/30 14:05:27
    Yes
    Vieuphoria
    +1
    Why wouldn't you? A relationship is about love not money.
  • TKramar 2012/06/30 13:43:31
    Yes
    TKramar
    I prefer it. In fact, I don't want to date anyone who IS employed.
  • 001 2012/06/30 13:36:34 (edited)
    Yes
    001
    Dating one right now. I don't push him to get a job either. It's hard enough to find a job, especially if you can't work full time and have a sleeping disorder.
  • lori 2012/06/30 13:08:31 (edited)
    Yes
    lori
    +1
    People i date are all retired! Including me.
  • Tony Cicarella 2012/06/30 13:06:51
    Yes
    Tony Cicarella
    If I was single and attracted to her sure. Men like to feel needed so it would actually play more to their egos. The dangerous part of that for a woman is some men would use it to control and manipulate them. Too many of us guys are into power trips.
  • L K 2012/06/30 12:46:25 (edited)
    No
    L K
    +1
    No, not unless they were retired. Heck, not at this stage of the game. I am a widow and after about a year, I was fixed up with an old college friend who I thought was retired. He wasn't! He was out of work and wanted to cash in on my job and then on my pension. They call that a mooch!! (And a looser.) No, No, No!!!! I think anyone who can't hold his own, who doesn't have the initiative to find some kind of work is not worth your time or energy. I have two sons who work. The youngest in the film business and when he isn't working on a major film he always finds work on some level to do. There isn't any excuse for a man not to be employed. A man has no business even dating if he is out of work. How can he pay his way then??? Women are just looking for trouble if they date a guy without a job. It is really a show of his character. What self respecting man ( or woman) would date someone knowing he can't afford to even pay halves???? It shows that he is a mooch, selfish, has no self respect for himself or others. I remember when My father, who owned his own business in Ohio, moved to Florida and tried to open up his own business down here and it didn't work. He went from being the boss, to working behind the counter and did whatever he had to do until he found the right kind of work. There was NEVER any time the man didn't work. I have no respect for men OR women who sponge off others.
  • Papillon L K 2012/06/30 16:47:55
    Papillon
    You are extremely unlucky.
  • L K Papillon 2012/06/30 20:04:48
    L K
    Not really, I have two great sons and two wonderful grandchildren. Life happens...I can't help that my husband passed away from cancer....so I have to be grateful for what I do have and not what I don't. But, I have learned that in life, you have to take care of yourself because you can't always depend on others.
  • Kei_Jo 2012/06/30 12:43:35
    Yes
    Kei_Jo
    +1
    This is a 50/50 answer. I would date someone who is unemployed if they were trying to get a job or further their education.

    But for the unemployed people who spend hours on SodaHead answering questions ( <- joke) and not doing anything about it; they are lazy and unproductive. Would they be so lazy as to not show up for our next date, etc?

    Yes, if they where doing their best to get work or further education,
    No, if they weren't doing anything about it.
  • Franklin 2012/06/30 12:35:06
    No
    Franklin
    +2
    there are always jobs for people who want them , not having a job is just a sure sign of a weak moral code -
  • L K Franklin 2012/06/30 12:49:05
    L K
    I agree!!!!
  • Papillon Franklin 2012/06/30 16:49:35
    Papillon
    +1
    I don't have a job; I'm disabled. Do you think that I have a weak moral code?
  • beach bum 2012/06/30 12:32:28
    Yes
    beach bum
    yes
  • Peter O'Reilly 2012/06/30 12:15:50
    Yes
    Peter O'Reilly
    +1
    employment is not the be all and end all of life.

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