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Would You Date Someone Who's Unemployed?

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Not only will being unemployed affect your bank account, it will affect your love life, too -- especially if you're male. A whopping 75 percent of women say they are unlikely to date a guy who is out of a job, according to a poll from dating service It's Just Lunch.


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More specifically, 33 percent of women said they would NOT go out with someone who is unemployed, even on one date, and other 42 percent said "Maybe" with the caveat, "I wouldn't want to throw a lot of time into it unless they had a game plan for getting back on track." Only 4 percent said "Of course" and 21 percent said "Yes. But I'd be curious to see how they're keeping occupied in the meantime."

Meanwhile, almost two-thirds of men were OK with dating an unemployed woman, with 19 percent having no reservations at all and 46 percent saying they would definitely date a jobless gal.

Our friends at How About We aren't overly shocked by the poll results, but think women should be more open-minded. "To women, having a job is huge, and I understand. Not because I want a guy to be rolling in benjamins and buying me stuff, but because having a job is a sign that you have your sh*t together and care about stuff and are ambitious and are working toward something, etc.," writes one female blogger.

She continues, "But! Obviously (especially today), people are between jobs all the time. I have a friend who pretty much quits his job whenever he feels like it and then travels to Iceland for two weeks and then comes back and easily finds another job. Some people can do that." Would you date someone who's unemployed?

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  • Elaine 2012/07/01 16:51:51
    Yes
    Elaine
    At the rate our country is headed we'll all be out of work! So, whataya gonna do? Give the old man the heave ho...I think not!
  • ehrhornp 2012/07/01 16:39:13
    Yes
    ehrhornp
    Well not really as I have been married for over 40 years so I am not likely to be dating anyone. But if I was and the person was unemployed but had great potential to be employed, sure I would date them. Times tend to be a bit tough right now but the economy is slowly improving so unemployment shouldn't be a problem in the near future.
  • raschell97 2012/07/01 16:26:13
    No
    raschell97
    wish there was another option if he's actually looking for a job maybe if he has no intention of actually getting a job no
  • purpleicecreamvan<3 2012/07/01 15:45:07
    Yes
    purpleicecreamvan<3
    it depends, if someone is just lazy and has never tried to get a job then no, but if they've just had an unlucky time like so many millions of others in uncertain financial times then it would be cruel to hold that against anyone
  • pinkturtles3 2012/07/01 15:09:59
    No
    pinkturtles3
    +1
    Show me the money honey
  • MASOUDLETON 2012/07/01 14:21:58
    Yes
    MASOUDLETON
    i need job all ....
  • jonny 2012/07/01 12:56:40
    Yes
    jonny
    As long as they could support themselves. unemployed doesn't always mean poverty.
  • Gloria 2012/07/01 12:00:05
    Yes
    Gloria
    Who has a job?
  • Faith ~... Gloria 2012/07/02 01:06:59
    Faith ~American Patriot~
    Most people
  • Maxine 2012/07/01 11:45:34
    No
    Maxine
    +1
    It depends on their circumstance. I wouldn't date someone who was happy to live off the state and not even try and get a job. But if they've been made redundant or something through no fault of their own and were looking for work then yes I would.
  • Loki 2012/07/01 11:04:45
    Yes
    Loki
    +2
    I find it disconcerting (also not surprising considering how people today go through relationships like toilet paper. zip your pants guys and close your legs once in a while ladies) that people look at bank accounts saying "neh...not worth loving if they don't have a job right now or make X amount of money". The saddest and most beautiful think I saw when I was a young teen, was a homeless couple. The women women was holding a sign asking for anything that could be spared, and the guy was dancing for money. I saw from the car on the way to the store. On the way back, I saw them coming out of a pizza place with a pizza. they sat down, hugged each other. the guy took a slice out and handed it to her, then they kissed. Money wasn't the glue that held them together. they loved each other, and the stood by each other even at their worst. I may had been just a kid, but I realized that is what's important. The only reason why you care about the job and the money so much, is because you're used to relationships that need something else other than that kind of commitment and love. You've replaced it with dollar signs.
  • Loki Loki 2012/07/01 11:06:52
    Loki
    Woman* and hope you're TYPOallergenic, and forgive them =P
  • me4ever 2012/07/01 10:49:46
    No
    me4ever
    if the person was looking for a job then ok
    but i am not going out with someone like Drillbit Taylor
  • Somkey the Hores 2012/07/01 10:29:24
    Yes
    Somkey the Hores
    They would have more time to be with you. Work is for jerks, in America anyway.
  • Arianne 2012/07/01 10:07:05
    Yes
    Arianne
    But they have to be people with a game plan or doing something else like studying.
    But that's because I'm headed to uni. But if I were older and we were in a live in situation then that depends. There are fabulous men out there who would want to be house husbands if income from the wife/girlfriend was stable. Them I wouldn't mind.

    If he was just a lazy bozo on the other hand. Nah.
  • SicFux651 2012/07/01 07:18:47
    Yes
    SicFux651
    +1
    i have a job but dont have a steady income...so that makes being unemployed irrelevant on a bank account
  • Playerazzi 2012/07/01 06:59:58
    Yes
    Playerazzi
    Of course I would. I'm a guy, after all.
  • Kat 2012/07/01 06:41:24
    Yes
    Kat
    +1
    I'm currently unemployed & engaged to someone who is unemployed......we've both had jobs but are looking for more jobs. Jobs are hard to get anymore!
  • S.Lewis 2012/07/01 05:33:22
    No
    S.Lewis
    +1
    No, I would not.
  • Redneck 2012/07/01 05:30:36
    Yes
    Redneck
    I would go on a date with a woman that didn't have a job, but I wouldn't get involved with a woman that atleast didn't have a clear and attainable career plan.
  • Tim-tam ;) 2012/07/01 05:22:41
    Yes
    Tim-tam ;)
    I would. I'm not fussy with my guys; if I like them, I like them. What ever issues there are (such as unemployment), we'd find a way around it.
  • flyingseaturtle BN 2012/07/01 05:22:21
    Yes
    flyingseaturtle BN
    I date the person and not the employment status ;-)
  • Inquisitve Kat 2012/07/01 05:21:52
    Yes
    Inquisitve Kat
    As long as it is only temporary... I've been there.
    I just got a job, after over a year and a half of being out of work, so I know what it's like!
  • lady blue 2012/07/01 05:13:26
    Yes
    lady blue
    +1
    It all depends on the man and our relationship. If I care about a man I would
    date him with the understanding that he is serious about finding a job.
    I date a man for who he is and for his character and not for money.
    Just because a man is unemployed doesn't mean he has no money or that he won't
    be working in the future. In short, if a man is worth it, I would date him if he was unemployed. If a man isn't worth it, I don't care if he was a millionaire. I wouldn't date him.
  • Red_Horse 2012/07/01 04:46:55
  • Bibliop... Red_Horse 2012/07/01 07:21:46
  • Red_Horse Bibliop... 2012/07/01 07:22:45
  • Jeffrey 2012/07/01 04:44:21
    No
    Jeffrey
    I wouldn't if they were just sitting around all day not trying to get a job. If they were actively trying to get a job then i would.
  • Fef 2012/07/01 04:25:44
    Yes
    Fef
    +5
    I expect to provide the income.
  • Jo 2012/07/01 04:18:27
    No
    Jo
    It depends on the circumstances, but my 'no' response is not because what most men would think. Men think women only want men with money, and that is soooo not true. We want the characteristics that it typically requires to be successfully employed.
  • Party of One 2012/07/01 03:53:45
    Yes
    Party of One
    +1
    Of course...most of my dates have been unemployed. I'm curious as to whether those women who place a high value on males being employed are employed themselves.
  • Hidden ... Party o... 2012/07/01 04:47:31
    Hidden Noname
    +1
    I'm employed, but wouldn't date a man who is unemployed and not ACTIVELY looking for employment, or has a history of being fired because that would be an indicator of his stability, ethics and character.
  • Party o... Hidden ... 2012/07/01 05:11:31
    Party of One
    it'd have a good bearing on that, sure...i can understand that
  • Red_Horse Party o... 2012/07/01 04:47:51
  • tobe 2012/07/01 03:10:26
    Yes
    tobe
    but it all depends. it would depend on if they were unemployed because their in between jobs or going to school or if they're just plain lazy and don't want to work.
  • shotgun the 3rd 2012/07/01 03:10:24
    No
    shotgun the 3rd
    +1
    Especially if they were unemployed by choice like the liberals I know..
  • Red_Horse shotgun... 2012/07/01 04:50:48
  • shotgun... Red_Horse 2012/07/01 07:31:42
    shotgun the 3rd
    Red Horse, I said unemployed by choice...
  • Red_Horse shotgun... 2012/07/01 07:38:09 (edited)
  • wilsonmja 2012/07/01 02:17:27
    No
    wilsonmja
    I wouldn't date an unemployed girl and I have no respect for girls who date unemployed men.

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