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Would you date someone who disrespect their parents ?

Gunner 2012/05/12 19:31:37
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I just hate people who do!!
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  • Andy 2012/05/21 16:55:58
    No!
    Andy
    +1
    They may not get along... but, there still should be a level of respect
  • Swan Eshdeh 2012/05/18 21:14:45
    No!
    Swan Eshdeh
    +1
    me too!!!
  • Sportygirl 2012/05/14 12:45:41
    Undecided
    Sportygirl
    +1
    I don't like it when people are disrespectful, but It all depends on how the parents act as well.
  • nikkie276 2012/05/14 07:57:45
    Undecided
    nikkie276
    +1
    Parents can be wrong too
  • giggity giggity 2012/05/13 17:50:14
    Yes
    giggity giggity
    +4
    Why not? I don't like my parents.
  • Chancy99: Plague Rat 2012/05/13 15:10:38
    Undecided
    Chancy99: Plague Rat
    +1
    Depends. Some parents are deserving of no respect at all.
    I actually watched a web series where this mother was a complete bitch to her daughter, her daughter's Friend, and her daughters 'girlfriend', in that situation the mother isn't deserving of any kind of respect.
  • mwg0735 2012/05/13 14:31:02
  • ♥Gabs1697♥ 2012/05/13 12:53:35
    Undecided
    ♥Gabs1697♥
    +1
    Well, it depends...What if the parents are bad?
  • Somkey the Hores 2012/05/13 09:37:50
    Undecided
    Somkey the Hores
    +1
    What if their parents are JERKS?
  • Gunner Somkey ... 2012/05/13 10:04:17
    Gunner
    +1
    Then it's not he's fault probably
  • CREW grand 2012/05/13 09:11:34
    Yes
    CREW grand
    +2
    There are a great many parents who are undeserving of any respect.

    Don
  • "SennaKoshiba" 2012/05/13 08:05:23
    No!
    "SennaKoshiba"
    +1
    My brother's friend does that SOOO much. True, she is currently a dope fiend, but wasn't always like that, and he shouldn't have done it back then either >,<;;;
    I also have to hear about how everyone's parents are so terrible, yet they're perfectly rational individuals, which have raised brats.
  • Tara-ABO-2012 2012/05/13 07:59:20
    Yes
    Tara-ABO-2012
    +3
    It really depends on the situation. My husband respects his father a great deal, but has ZERO respect for his mother. And that is all her doing. You cannot expect to get respect if you don't give it. Respect is earned, it's not a right
  • D D 2012/05/13 07:47:21
    No!
    D D
    +1
    No. I can understand not agreeing on everything, but being rude to them, no.
  • Beat Magnum True Hero 2012/05/13 07:24:44
    Undecided
    Beat Magnum True Hero
    +1
    Depends on the situation. Since I am adult dating other adults, the relationship that people my age have with parents is a lot more complicated. More often than not, I see parents treating their adult children with disrespect. Many times, parents become controlling and manipulative of their adult children. Emotional blackmail is the currency of these relationships. In my mid twenties, I stopped dating women who still lived at home. They had the worst parents to deal with. Still super attached and controlled. I have a lot of respect for an adult woman who is able to lovingly, respectfully, but firmly tell her parents to shut up and let her live her own life.
  • Beat Ma... Beat Ma... 2012/05/13 07:28:39
    Beat Magnum True Hero
    +1
    In my own life however, I am a big fat mama's boy and will be until the day I die. She doesn't run my life though. My father however is an ass and I have no respect for him. He ran out on me at a young age and hides a brother and sister from me because he can't admit to his past indiscretions. When I needed a father's guidance and mentoring as a young man, he was absent. He is deserves neither my love nor respect, because such things are not a birthright in my world. He donated the sperm that made me, gave me a last name, and left my mother at age five for a younger model. On my 18th birthday, he left me a birthday card saying "I am no longer obligated to you."

    If this makes me un-dateable in your eyes, then so be it, I don't give my respect blindly.
  • Gunner Beat Ma... 2012/05/13 07:34:56
    Gunner
    That case!.. I'm saying he doesn't deserve ur love, but about the respect i don't know what... U don't need him anyway
  • evangelism_vision 2012/05/13 04:36:41
    No!
    evangelism_vision
    +2
    That says a lot about a person and sends up Red Flags
  • GeminiWolf 2012/05/13 03:55:32 (edited)
    Undecided
    GeminiWolf
    +1
    My daughter's father's family are very disrespectful with each other, swear at each other, call each other names. I know they love each other, but it took a lot of getting used to since I came from an opposite background.
  • Coasterdude02149 2012/05/13 03:44:11
    No!
    Coasterdude02149
    +1
    How someone treats their parents is usually a good indicator of how they'll treat others.
  • wandadear 2012/05/13 03:40:53
    No!
    wandadear
    +1
    i will slap them for their parents
  • rockyjr5 2012/05/13 03:33:35
    Yes
    rockyjr5
    +2
    Maybe the girl's parents are mean to her, and always puts her down every time she makes an mistake, so that might be why she might disrespect her parents. I would still date her as long as as she's a good person, and accepts me for who I am. I won't say I don't want to go out with you just because you and your parents don't get along.
  • ★earthbound_misfit★ 2012/05/13 03:32:13
    Undecided
    ★earthbound_misfit★
    +1
    It depends on the parents and what you mean by "disrespect." I would definitely not date someone who was mean and rude to their kind, loving parents. However, I would date someone who didn't have much respect for their parents (but still treated them civilly) if it was for a good reason.
  • La 2012/05/13 03:19:45
    Undecided
    La
    +4
    Not every person in the world is deserving of respect. Some people are trash bags, and trash bags can reproduce as easily as decent people can. If someone disrespects their parents out of immaturity, I won't be impressed, but if someone has cause to not respect their parent/s, that's fair enough.
  • Al 2012/05/13 03:14:52
    Undecided
    Al
    +2
    Depend on their reasons.
  • Maria 2012/05/13 03:05:57
    No!
    Maria
    +1
    the trick is will turn back on you later...not worth to dating a person who doesn't show any respect...it show lack of respect...what if you're in hospital and this person is lack with respect doesn't show up....whoever don't respect will regret later..
  • Dark Angel AKA Hippiegirl 2012/05/13 02:57:35
    No!
    Dark Angel AKA Hippiegirl
    +1
    Never - If they Dis their parents they will Dis you
  • Libertarian Right 2012/05/13 02:25:24
    No!
    Libertarian Right
    +3
    Unless her parents are blatantly abusive, no.
  • Tabitha 2012/05/13 01:47:23
    Undecided
    Tabitha
    +2
    I would try to get them to treat their parents better but if they didn't then I wouldn't stay.
  • Mrkando 2012/05/13 01:43:47
    No!
    Mrkando
    +1
    I would not because it shows you exactly what kind of parent they will make. And that would not be good.
  • cupcakes 2012/05/13 01:40:48
    Yes
    cupcakes
    +1
    IF THERE HOT
  • Jack's Pearl 2012/05/13 01:40:12
    No!
    Jack's Pearl
    +3
    I don't tend to involve myself with disrespectful people period.
  • S.H 2012/05/13 00:45:59
    No!
    S.H
    +3
    No. My mother had a terrible relationship with her parents because they were the type to have a favourite child, yet she still tried to make amends and was never once disrespectful to them, despite how they treated her. I have a lot of admiration for her because of that. It isn't easy, but it's the better thing to do.
  • Daedalus 2012/05/13 00:28:29
    No!
    Daedalus
    +3
    I don't feel right around people who make a habit of disrespecting other people in general. It is rarely a good sign .... what will they say when your back is turned?
  • sockpuppet 2012/05/13 00:27:36
    Yes
    sockpuppet
    +2
    I've known some nice ladies who came from sleazy families.
  • Swampdog 2012/05/13 00:18:49
    Yes
    Swampdog
    +1
    Yep, but not for long.
  • Yes
    Pixie·ŸŸMzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠
    +4
    If their parents do not deserve respect... there are some that don't.
  • TheHushedScreamer 2012/05/13 00:05:19
    Yes
    TheHushedScreamer
    +5
    Not everyone holds an amicable relationship with their parents. I, for one, disrespect them many times. I've met people who do, also, and they're amazing beings.
    So, what, I should not date someone JUST BECAUSE he or she does not have a good relationship with his or her parents? That would just make me a hypocrite.
  • La TheHush... 2012/05/13 03:25:22
    La
    +1
    *invisible rave*
  • Beat Ma... TheHush... 2012/05/13 07:30:46
    Beat Magnum True Hero
    +1
    Exatly. In some cases, I see a woman who allows her parents to walk all over her. I have no need for a doormat.

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