Would you concider a relationship with someone who lost the ability to walk ?

SLIDESHOW: if they just cant walk anymore

• linz 2011/11/16 22:57:26
• xcheshirecat 2011/11/03 13:34:23
  no

  

  My sex life is one of the most important thing. I wouldn't treat them differently, but it's not for me

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• shydrea... to xcheshi... 2011/11/03 16:07:31 (edited)
  

  +2

  please dont assume cant walk meant cant do sex, (im trying to use clean language)
  this is if they cant walk, doesnt say they cant still do that.
  heck whoever ends up with me will stay satisfide,
  like most men, im always ready :)
  but thanks for your honesty im sure many assume the same kind of thing you just did along with the atitude that they dont want to be seen in a relationship with someone in a wheelchair.i think i would rather hear the truth than have a coward just run away
  or act like i dont exist till i get "the message."
  at least your not a coward You say what you think, thanks.

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• xcheshi... to shydrea... 2011/11/03 18:59:12
  

  it's not the same sex life. For example, he woldn't be able to get me from the bed to the kitchen table
  
  it can satisfy others people, but it depends on what are the needs of the other person
  
  But yeah, people try to not hurt feelings, but I guess it does even more to feel that the person is lying

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• Constitution Believer 2011/11/01 01:04:33
  yes

  

  +1

  Just because he cannot walk does not mean he cannot love.

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• frozenKmadness 2011/10/31 19:21:46
  maybe

  

  +1

  if I really really loved that someone.

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• joel dunning 2011/10/31 19:19:09
  yes

  

  +1

  a persons ability to use their legs is not a measure of how much they can or can not love or be loved......J

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• Octoplasm 2011/10/31 14:28:04
  maybe

  

  What you are is not defined by how many legs and arms you have it is what is in your soul. Depends on their soul. Some folks go bitter though when faced with such a loss.

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• shydrea... to Octoplasm 2011/10/31 15:02:29 (edited)
  

  +1

  I wrote this blog and i didnt get bitter when i couldnt walk anymore.
  the people around me did change though they acted as though i had done something unforgivable most would not have anything to do with me once i couldnt walk.
  others just wouldnt look at me and acted as though i no longer existed.
  heck im 1 of the lucky ones who came back from the gulf war
  i still have both legs. i just cant feel below my knees anymore.
  as far as trying to find someone to settle down with, not yet
  there doesnt seem to be a shortage of those who want to have sex with me
  but since i wont settle for just sex im alone for now.

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• Octoplasm to shydrea... 2011/11/28 13:13:59
  

  Most people I have found can see better than they can think... I think the poor dudes just dont know how to deal with stuff. We are actually as a species most immature and I wonder if we'll ever grow up as a species ...its just plain weird that they all seem to be working on everything except their souls as that is the only thing you take with.

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• ELLIE 2011/10/31 11:29:23
  yes

  

  +2

  If the committment to the person is there then yes.No good trying to live a lie with oneself just to look good to others..

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• Jazzy 2011/10/30 17:21:57
  yes

  

  +2

  I wouldn't think or see them any different.

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• METALheadMom 2011/10/30 17:09:38
  yes

  

  +1

  You have to be a pretty shallow and selfish person to say no.

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• jennie 2011/10/30 16:24:06
  yes

  

  +2

  Walking is not necessary to relate to someone, love and be loved.

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• Kennedy1st 2011/10/30 15:41:22
  no

  

  +3

  I am i n a chair...so many of us are but we have our minds,our hearts can feel love and we want to be accepted as "whole" persons not a person that can't walk and that stops us from feeling emotions like "whole"humans can.Come on,we are real. feel.We care.We love.We are tired of being treated as "different".

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• Jazzy to Kennedy1st 2011/10/30 17:24:14
  

  +1

  I am so sorry you have had to walk that walk.

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• Kennedy1st to Jazzy 2011/10/30 18:40:48
  

  +2

  Thanks Jazzy, I do alot of writing,photography and art now.

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• Jazzy to Kennedy1st 2011/10/30 18:57:36
  

  +1

  That is good.

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• shydrea... to Kennedy1st 2012/10/21 03:55:31
  

  My hobbies had to change i wont let myself dwell on what i cant do anymore but focus on what i can
  I sure woudnt mind if your willing to be Friends ?

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• Fenris 2011/10/30 14:04:43
  yes

  

  +1

  Why not!?!

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• Joe 2011/10/30 12:52:23
  yes

  

  +1

  That's nothing but a thing...if you really want to be with them then nothing should stand in your way.

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• Fearless 2011/10/30 12:29:23
  yes

  

  +1

  the disability of them not being able to walk is only a dust for me. all i care is they're personality. disable people should not be treated bad. i once met a disable woman in a supermarket and she was very nice to me.

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• Doc Frank stein 2011/10/30 11:43:32
  yes

  

  +1

  Let's put it this way: If she looked good and kept herself in such shape as this delectable girl in ur top left hand corner here - good stomach, nice arms, nice bust ... and most importantly, she was 'the goods' as a person - which is by far the key point ... if these types of things wee in place, I would make her 'the goods' - No trouble. The only thing that would ever need us to go through is how we might need to handle the kids as they came along, and what the implications might be in the practical world ... but simply for the purpose of making necessary adjustments.

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• justnotsaying (: 2011/10/30 10:42:50
  yes

  

  +2

  I wouldn't ever exclude a wheelchair bound guy, or a amputee. People are people, and worthy of love and affection.

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• BHGOzzy 2011/10/30 10:09:38
  yes

  

  +3

  What's wrong with someone who can't walk?

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• matt 2011/10/30 10:08:14
  maybe

  

  +2

  Depends on how hot they were...lol we can fall in love with anyone.

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• Toby 2011/10/30 10:06:27 (edited)
  maybe

  

  +1

  Not sure how the whole sex thing would work exactly... can they still feel... that?
  
  Also I've heard that some people can be rehabilitated to walking again , if they could that would make it easier to say yes

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• Doc Fra... to Toby 2011/10/30 11:47:22
  

  +1

  Sex is rarely a prob with these situations. The person usually has to be in a pretty bad state to prevent sex taking place :)

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• monica 2011/10/30 10:00:48
  yes

  

  +2

  Only cause they cant walk or something dosent mean that they have changed their feelings and their heart . Would you still luv your parents ?

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• I NEED A HORSE 2011/10/30 09:41:20