Would you change yourself, for someone you care about?

by kidkewlsgirl8888 Posted 2011/05/05 00:50:46

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Raindropkitten™~the author ... 2011/05/05 01:16:10

yes..

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I need an undecided option lol

Only if those changes were for the better. If they were changes that defined who I am then no.
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meltrab9194 2011/05/19 22:41:59

yes..

i guess it depends cause you shouldnt change who you are if theres notthing wrong with you to begin with someone should love you for who you are but when it comes to appearences then yes you shgould cause YOU cant see yourself 24/7 its your spouse that will be looking at you the whole time so if you dont like dresses but he likes you with them on you should wear it more if she dont like skinny jeans wear them less ya know.

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BLT ^MOTOOP^ 2011/05/07 18:38:59

yes..

+2
Well, it really depends on what it is that I am changing. Many things about my personality, I cannot change, but if someone that I cared about asked me not to curse around them or somethig simular, I would have no problem with it.

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Christiexjmdmj ~Killjoys, m... 2011/05/06 00:21:10

yes..

+1
Depends on the change.
Like, would I change the way I put the roll of toilet paper on?
Maybe - though it would take a lot of begging.
Would I eat myself?
I'm gonna go with a no. Unless there's barbecue sauce, that is.

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TOUIodfisopdj 2011/05/05 22:45:03

no...

+1
Honestly, if they love you, they should be happy with how you are.
If you change how you act, you're being someone you aren't so,
it's like they're falling in love/already love someone else.
Be yourself, find someone who loves you the way you are.

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LilaGrace ~ Proud Liberal 2011/05/05 19:16:55

no...

+1
If you can't accept me as I am, you don't deserve me.

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lolzforthefall 2011/05/05 19:13:06

no...

+1
I wouldn't change something that was really petty about me. If people don't like me for who i am that's their problem, not mine :D

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william 2011/05/05 13:02:14

no...

+1
nope

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sky blue pink - American 2011/05/05 09:14:01

no...

+1
Not in this life time.
Have a Nice day !

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Walt 2011/05/05 06:53:04

no...

+1
Hell no. My days of trying to change for other people is over. If they don't like me the way I am, they can take a hike.

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Shawna 2011/05/05 06:27:35

yes..

+2
That would depend on what it was that might need changing. Changing my behviour to improve a relationship is different from trying to be someone I am not or denying a part of me that is significant.

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permial 2011/05/05 04:57:14

yes..

+1
I have and possibly would again.

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kidkewl... to permial 2011/05/05 17:29:07

may i ask what did you change?

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permial to kidkewl... 2011/06/24 23:40:17

Girlfriends.

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cheaperthantherapy 2011/05/05 04:45:22

no...

+1
Did this once and it was a horrible mistake. It may have been a change for the better, but it wasn’t me.

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Kris Steitz 2011/05/05 04:38:43

yes..

+2
I quit smoking after my husband asked me nicely (several times). He never was ugly about it. But after smoking for nearly 20 years, I was getting pneumonia a lot, and always struggling with upper and lower respiratory problems, and developing asthma. He was a paramedic for 20 years, and had seen people dying from diseases caused by smoking. Drowning from all the mucous in their lungs. Gasping for their final breath. He pleaded with me to stop one night when I woke myself up coughing and couldn't stop. Never thought I would stop smoking cigarettes, but I did it 3 years ago March 9th - for me, but also because he wanted me to grow old him. Awwww!

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meltrab... to Kris St... 2011/05/19 22:45:35

that is soo sweet reading it put such a big smile on my face

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glass_butterfly ~YSU~ 2011/05/05 04:20:35

yes..

+1
I would BETTER myself, if that is what you mean by "change"; but I would only do it cause I know the people I care about would do the same. But only if something about myself was hurting the person I care about.

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Jeannie Ritter 2011/05/05 04:14:42

no...

+1
Always be true to yourself I would never want anyone to change for me unless they truely wanted to but only if it was to make them lead a happier life or make them a better person.

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Lynn 2011/05/05 04:09:13

no...

+1
Love me as I am or leave me as I am.

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Toodleloo SodaHead 2011/05/05 03:46:10

no...

+1
If they were trying to change parts of me I felt made who I am, than no, they can shove it.
However, if I'm some crack whore living on the streets and they're there to help me get back on my feet, than yes, I'll change for them.

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Wella Sheen Requiz 2011/05/05 03:33:13

yes..

+1
Yes,I believed that their criticism will build you to become a better you But you should not do that just for theme But also for yourself!!first love yourself and you will see the things you should change to yourself..!!Kudos.;P

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fairiefang -annoying fashio... 2011/05/05 03:23:17

no...

+1
Why would I care about anyone who expects me to change?

Little changes as part of compromising (if he's willing to make changes too) are fine...but my overall personality, clothing, lifestyle, interests, etc...definitely not.

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Sweet Insanity 2011/05/05 03:17:55
holdenferall 2011/05/05 03:17:40

no...

+1
People don't change.

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Kris St... to holdenf... 2011/05/05 04:40:18

+1
I'm sorry you haven't known anyone who showed you that it's possible.

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holdenf... to Kris St... 2011/05/05 04:40:50

I guess I am too.

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Kris St... to holdenf... 2011/05/05 04:44:06

+1
awwwww < hugs >

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sweetgreatmom 2011/05/05 03:12:51

no...

+1
Take me as I am or leave me alone.

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Monster Claws 2011/05/05 03:10:40

no...

+1
i wont change myself for anyone

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Jenna ☮♡ッ 2011/05/05 03:01:12
Linkums 2011/05/05 02:42:00

yes..

+2
If the changes were reasonable and good changes. Like... if I had to change by getting more exercise, then sure, that'd be a good change anyway. If I had to give up video games, probably not. xD

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meltrab... to Linkums 2011/05/19 22:47:09

LOL

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L.P. 2011/05/05 02:31:43

no...

+1
If they wanted me to change they obviously don't love me for who I am, of course there are exceptions to this.

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Quantum 2011/05/05 02:19:46

yes..

+1
But only if I actually want to make the change. I'm not going to change my interests or my style for anybody. And I mean anybody. Bad personality traits, when brought to my attention, I will try my hardest to get rid of with help from somebody.

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METALheadMom 2011/05/05 02:15:08

no...

+1
MAYBE. If changes helps ME be a better person, than I would TRY. But changing to make someone else happy is a waste of time, as once you do that, the list of demands never stops. Trust me, I admit I once was that insecure and actually thought it would work. It didn't.

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★earthbound_misfit★ 2011/05/05 02:12:29

yes..

+1
I wouldn't change the core of who I am, because that would just make me a fake person. But I would change aspects of my appearance, habits, etc.

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The Potato Princess 2011/05/05 01:55:19

yes..

+3
Well, I might change for the better, like not being lazy, not procrastinating, etc.

And for a certain person... I know it sounds pathetic, but I think I might change anything for him.

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kidkewl... to The Pot... 2011/05/05 03:42:11

same here different him of course :P

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