Would you be so cruel to as disown or hate your child if it was born homosexual?

I wouldn't be too happy but I would live with it because i'm not cruel.

I don't agree that children are born gay. That would be like saying that kids are born as alcoholics. Makes about as much sense

A child is not born homo, they are born hero, it's just some time down the road they decide "ditch herosexualty I'm going homo"

Nobody is born homosexual. Some people are born with genes that make it more likely they will become homosexual. But loving your child no matter what is something called unconditional love and its totally natural and normal.

That's why it's called unconditional love.

No one is BORN homosexual. The question is not even valid.

...sigh.

I won't lie, I know it probably would bother me, but as I told my kids, there is nothing they could do to make me stop loving them or disown them. I do think I would do everything I could to convert that child into being straight again though.

Luckily I have a son who I feel is a Straight..... as well you can do nothing if he is a homo, I feel....

Homosexuality is not innate.

CHILDREN ARE NOT BORN HOMOSEXUAL...
this is just a misleading question designed to blind and blame..
typical of the Liberal agenda that uses and abuses 'homosexuality'

I wouldn't "disown" her but I would not hide my disapproval of her lifestyle. I would be very disappointed and do everything I can to change her mind but I would still love her.

How can you tell if your newborn is a homosexual?

CHILDREN ARE NOT BORN HOMOSEXUAL...
this is just a misleading question designed to blind and blame..
typical of the Liberal agenda that uses and abuses 'homosexuality'

If they are not born that way then how are they made?

Mother’s affection, without the overriding, corrective influence of a father’s firm, no-nonsense, patient presence, tends to build the child’s ego-identity beyond its natural state and, by doing so, unwittingly tempts the child to become spoiled and prideful. Escaping guilt through a sense of power is the usual motive for spoiling a child. Getting high on the worship you require is an attempt to make good the loss and pain you formerly experienced at the hands of your hateful parents. The sin that has made you a loser now impatiently cries out for its own victim to feed upon

You do realize you have written a very grand version of "The Overbearing Mother" argument don't you?
I don't mean to be rude Deep007 but that argument makes no sense. Any argument for cause that is not innate must include an explanation for different centuries, societies, locations, family structures, income level, education, and over a hundred other variables having to so with environment.
Then there is the issue of homosexuals who are successful, happy, and well adjusted. If you are going to argue for nurture rather than nature, you must account for the fact that for many the only manifestation is an attraction to the same sex.
I'm sorry but you not even close.



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Different reasons for different people. - just like any other proclivity.

I do have a soul and would be worried about the soul of a child that chose to get involved in AIDS spreading homosexual behavior. I deal with homosexuals and I don't preach at them, but their behavior is still very wrong. It has fatal consequences.
I hate it when people start that ignorant jibberish about "being born that way". When they do that I know that they really don't know much about homosexuality and are juvenile in their though processes. I know too many who went through a divorce and became lesbians, then found a man, got married and had children. They go back and forth all the time. NO ONE IS BORN GAY.
When homosexuality was removed from the list of mental illnesses, in the 1970s, there was much dissent from psychiatrists. It was removed for political/monetary reasons.
Why did the local gay pride event ad say to "bring children"? DO YOU EVEN WANT TO GO THERE? Maybe you don't know why it used to be illegal. (Cameron, et. al.)
I have been around the gay community for decades and have done the research.
Save the nasty name calling for a mirror.

Bottom line though is that it is a choice, not a right nor a disease.

Disowning them for making their choice, if they're over 18... then no, the parent does not have a right to dictate for them. If their decisions forces a break in the family, so be it.

It just shows that the parent has higher priorities then their own children.

God got it right first....Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it."

Grace to you, Glory to God!

I would be a hypocritical bastard to do that.

Why? Are you gay? How could you then be hypocritical in this regard?

No im bi-curious...

I'd be angry at you if I were your dad but I wouldn't disown you. Hopefully you will grow out of your curiosity.

But why would you be angry?

Because you're confused and doing things with your body that you will grow to regret later in life, things that will come back to haunt you every time you look in the mirror. It might seem like you're just "experimenting" but you're really giving your body up to degradation. Stop it, for your own good!

Your trying to change who i am, and thats not posible because i wont change for any one. Every one either has to accept me or hate me chose your side.

The thing is, who you "are" is not yet set in stone. You're still a teenager and still "becoming" who you will be. Your parents aren't trying to "change" you as much as they are trying to "mold" you in the best possible way they know how. This includes passing on things to you such as morals, beliefs, and ethics. I'm not trying to "change" you but "change your mind" on doing things that will haunt you later in life. And people can love you but hate some of the things you do. My brother is an alcoholic and I HATE that about him but I still love him as a brother.

My morals ethics and beliefs are completly straight, and i accept who i am right now, and what i will be, and what i was. I am the one who is willing to take responsiblity for my actions because all of them where my choice.

Good for you! But taking responsibility for your actions doesn't make your actions right. It just means you're willing to suffer the consequences for your actions if they turn to be wrong.

Are you saying that you engage in bisexuality by *choice* then?

Im saying i lived in denial for years and im embracing who i am.

I think you are still in denial and just "think" this is who you are. You're still growing up. Who you "are" is not yet formed. In fact, I'd argue that we NEVER stop "becoming" as long as we live! But moreso in your youth. I think you're just a confused teen (as were we all) and are just experimenting with your sexuality. Perhaps it's just your way of rebelling against your parents. I don't know but I do remember what it was like to be your age. I just don't want you to grow up having done things with yourself that you'll regret later in life.

1. if i where to rebel it wouldent be a rebelion it would called an insurection
2. I have learned to make amends in my heart and soul and with the people in my life, I regret nothing i do.

I like your attitude, Soot! Especially the "insurrection" part, that was classic! I had the same attitude myself growing up. However, I made a lot of mistakes along the way and wish I would have listened to my parents a bit more when I was your age. But a big part of growing up is making your own mistakes and learning from them, and becoming a better person for them. I don't like what you are doing and think you're hurting yourself in the long run by your actions but you sound like a smart kid who'll be able to live with whatever life throws at him. Good for you! I still think homosexual activity is destructive and that it robs men and women of their dignity. But whatever choices you make in life I hope that your life turns out OK and that you find your way through this confusing and often terrifying ride that is Life. Best wishes!

Thank you. And its not like id just go screwing every guy in sight. Its a very very very small list.

Ugghh...I wish you hadn't spoken such a vulgar thing out loud! But peace to you nonetheless.

Sorry. Nice too talk to you.