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Woman Goes 18 Months Without Shaving Armpits: Gross or Great?

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If there's one beauty ritual that almost all women partake in, it's shaving their armpits while they're in the shower. But graduate student Emer O'Toole from Dublin decided to examine why she felt she had to be hair-free -- and stopped shaving 18 months ago, The Daily Mail reports.

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"I started examining my own relationship with my body, and my body hair," she told "This Morning." She continued, "Why did I feel I had to shave? I thought back to when I first started shaving. When I sprouted hair at 14, I didn't think, 'Will I shave or not?' I just knew I had to shave it off."

Over a year later, O'Toole says she's mostly OK with her armpit and leg hair. "Over the past 18 months, if I've felt awkward in a certain outfit that shows my hairy armpits, I've started to examine where my confidence comes from. If it's my looks, and my self-esteem is linked to that, then I've realized I need to find other sources for that confidence. Your looks aren't with you when you wake up in the morning if you have to put your makeup on first. And they don't stay with you as you age."

And she says guys are totally fine with her fuzzy pits, but women are pretty grossed out by it. Do you think women should feel free to go without shaving their armpits? Or is it a beauty must-do?
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  • Riobhca 2012/05/04 22:32:37 (edited)
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    Riobhca
    +50
    If that is her preference, so what? If you bathe, you won't smell, hair or not. Sometimes it's good to question societal conventions. Good for her for having the courage to do just that.

    Americans are always so quick to judge other cultures. That is what is "gross."

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  • Anthony Souls 2012/05/05 01:15:08
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    Anthony Souls
    +1
    It's gross to me, but she is exploring some great introspective questions which will help her grow. People shouldn't depend on their looks for confidence, and they shouldn't feel obligated to do something that is the social norm.

    Take care,
  • lavender 2012/05/05 01:11:00
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    lavender
    Very grossly unhygenic, i would not like to stay with her a minute, shaving your armpits is an easy job.
  • Scream lavender 2012/05/05 03:08:03
    Scream
    +3
    So do you not hang around men with hairy armpits either? You mustn't know a lot of guys.
  • aidet lavender 2012/05/05 03:14:45
    aidet
    +3
    Unhygienic? Guys have hairy armpits but that's ok so..unhygienic uhh I don't think so.
  • Jay Theyme 2012/05/05 01:00:18
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    Jay Theyme
    +4
    Why is this newsworthy? For most of human history and around the world today - post-pubescent women have armpit hair. Billions of humans.
    Do you think its 'dirty' or what is the cultural hygiene myth on this one?
    *(I have a good idea having once worked for an advertising and marketing guy)
  • relic 2012/05/05 00:59:54
    Gross
    relic
    Ah, the French.
  • penguin66 2012/05/05 00:53:34
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    penguin66
    I PUT GROSS NOT GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS DISGUSTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Kidasha 2012/05/05 00:53:13
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    Kidasha
    +3
    Good for her! She's got guts!
  • JCLadybug 2012/05/05 00:52:54 (edited)
    Gross
    JCLadybug
    +1
    I'm not a fan of not shaving my armpits. But, if she likes it that way...good for her being comfortable with her body. Personally, I don't wear make-up and shave my legs once a week, which probably would gross some people out. I just prefer my armpits shaved....so that personally grosses me out.
  • nadia bieber 2012/05/05 00:48:51
    Gross
    nadia bieber
    it reminds me of mens armpits
  • paws4thought 2012/05/05 00:48:07
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    paws4thought
    +2
    I think it is great she has decided this is right for her and is going for it. Could I? Probably not. I'm not particularly hair anyway and can go weeks without shaving leg hair... it's so blonde and fine, no one notices... but this would be itchy and bug me. Not to mention I like stick deodorant and the idea of rubbing it in hair is a little repulsive to me... But I admire her ability to do what she wants!
  • Rob 2012/05/05 00:46:49
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    Rob
    +1
    Dude, break out the weedwacker and shave those things before someone throws you a banana.
  • JenSemPa 2012/05/05 00:35:23
    Gross
    JenSemPa
    +3
    One time at the gym, I saw this very slim, attractive woman wearing a sleeveless put a yoga mat down on the floor.

    She sits down on the floor, starts doing some stretches ... and she stretches her arms up, and ... WOW.

    She had some of the hairiest arm pits you'd ever see. It was nasty.
  • Scream 2012/05/05 00:25:19 (edited)
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    Scream
    +2
    This is funny because I recently stopped shaving my armpits too. I really prefer how it looks, and it's great to not have to shave.
    I can't believe how many people are saying it's gross.
  • justnotsaying (: 2012/05/05 00:21:17
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    justnotsaying (:
    +4
    Not for me, but great for her.
  • Nekosarethebest 2012/05/05 00:20:58
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    Nekosarethebest
    +6
    Wtf? Is growing leg hair gross? Is pubic hair gross? No. Its natural...
  • Yaati Nekosar... 2012/05/05 01:22:05
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    +1
    It is natural, but I think it's good hygiene to at least shave your pubic hair and underarms every once in a while. But that's just me. I at least admire the fact that she's taking this journey of building self-confidence than someplace deeper than 'beauty'.
  • Nekosar... Yaati 2012/05/05 11:41:52
    Nekosarethebest
    The main reason why I don't think it is gross is because they are always washed in the shower. I don't think anyone will cut their hair on theor head off (unless they want to) they wash it. Yeh, there is much truth to what you're say, and I can see the benefits. Its the same as how some people don't care to clean under their nails, right?
  • Omni 2012/05/05 00:15:01 (edited)
    Gross
    Omni
    Not shaving your armpits isn't necessarily a bad thing. I do find it unnatractive, but the whole idea is cultural. Do what you want with your body :P
  • BRIDGET 2012/05/05 00:14:33
    Gross
    BRIDGET
    UNLESS SHE'S EUROPEAN, IT'S WAY GROSS.
  • Snow 2012/05/05 00:10:13
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    Snow
    +1
    It's her choice. If she saw no good reason to do it, then okay! No big deal. It's only body hair. All of us have body hair.
  • Odinsown 2012/05/05 00:09:13
    Great
    Odinsown
    It is more of an "eh" thing for me,
  • Alex(: 2012/05/05 00:08:45
    Gross
    Alex(:
    I find it disgusting.
    Well for me mostly. I guess I really don't care about other people doing it though. I feel gross without being shaven.
  • Bibliophilic 2012/05/05 00:00:09 (edited)
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    Bibliophilic
    +4
    I don't care. It's great if she likes it. STFU if you don't like it and get a life. I hope that you also don't approve of men with hair under their arms.

    I personally only shave under mine because it cuts down on the smell (less hair=less smell). I did no-shave November once and survived, but I'd never make it through the heat of the summer.
  • Omni Bibliop... 2012/05/05 00:17:04
    Omni
    Heh, I'm one of those odd people who doesn't emit body odor. I don't use deodorant; and simply because there's absolutely no smell. U jelly?
  • Bibliop... Omni 2012/05/05 16:57:51
    Bibliophilic
    Whoa, you are lucky!
  • Anthony... Bibliop... 2012/05/05 01:35:10
    Anthony Souls
    That's right, I oppose it on purely aesthetic and cultural indoctrinating levels. :P And I will not shut up, as I prefer my women feminine without hair, and I don't oppose men with hairy arms as it is masculine and outside the realm of my attractions: that's right, I'm sexist in that I prefer women over men :P LOL. How diabolical of me :P

    Take care, :)
  • Bibliop... Anthony... 2012/05/05 16:58:12
    Bibliophilic
    +2
    Hair is not unfeminine. Both male and female adults have it.
  • Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥ 2012/05/04 23:57:14
    Gross
    Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥
    I feel so dirty if i don't shave my pits and legs
  • Jay Calderone 2012/05/04 23:48:21
    Gross
    Jay Calderone
    why...?
  • Aly Hart Jay Cal... 2012/05/05 17:54:52
    Aly Hart
    Why *not*? waggleplz
  • Jay Cal... Aly Hart 2012/05/05 21:40:43
    Jay Calderone
    +1
    touché...
  • Aly Hart Jay Cal... 2012/05/05 21:41:48
  • Jay Cal... Aly Hart 2012/05/06 16:24:20
    Jay Calderone
    +1
    lol i love those XD
  • Mark 2012/05/04 23:43:23
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    Mark
    +5
    When and why did we get indoctrinated into this? What is the issue with looking at adult women who look like adults and not little girls? Men dont have to do it, why should women?
  • Undead Little Red 2012/05/04 23:43:23
    Great
    Undead Little Red
    +2
    I only save mine in the summer b/c it helps keep me cool (I mean its bad enough I'm gonna sweat the hair just makes it worse) Then again I cant grow much there. Anywho its up to her if she wants to shave. Not even that big a deal
  • Tank 2012/05/04 23:41:02 (edited)
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    Tank
    +3
    Go her. It's her body, she can do what she likes. It's not even like she's got a tattoo or unusual modification or anything, she's just letting her body do what it naturally does. Who are we to judge? She's not forcing anyone else not to shave their pits, and no-one should be forcing others to shave their hair, either.

    I usually don't shave my armpits either, I shower almost everyday with or without pit hair, and I can honestly say that my BO smells better not shaved (I use deodorant both with and without hair, though), have no skin irritation, and generally feel better about my pits. I sometimes even dye them (usually blue).

    Why do so many people seem to think that men can be hairy and women can't? It's ridiculous. And who cares if it's attractive to you or not, women aren't just objects there to please you and conform to how you want them to look, just as how no other gender (male, trans* etc.) is, either.
  • Gooky 2012/05/04 23:36:29
    Gross
    Gooky
    +2
    I wouldn't do it...but if that's her 15 minutes of fame....ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
  • Muriel 2012/05/04 23:32:35
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    Muriel
    +4
    Her choice. More power to her. She is her own person. Too many follow the crowd to feel accepted. That said. I don't like the look.
  • 098765 2012/05/04 23:30:47
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    098765
    not gross or great, it's just hair. but for god sakes, shut up and keep it concealed. there's no reason we should all know about it.

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