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Woman Goes 18 Months Without Shaving Armpits: Gross or Great?

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If there's one beauty ritual that almost all women partake in, it's shaving their armpits while they're in the shower. But graduate student Emer O'Toole from Dublin decided to examine why she felt she had to be hair-free -- and stopped shaving 18 months ago, The Daily Mail reports.

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"I started examining my own relationship with my body, and my body hair," she told "This Morning." She continued, "Why did I feel I had to shave? I thought back to when I first started shaving. When I sprouted hair at 14, I didn't think, 'Will I shave or not?' I just knew I had to shave it off."

Over a year later, O'Toole says she's mostly OK with her armpit and leg hair. "Over the past 18 months, if I've felt awkward in a certain outfit that shows my hairy armpits, I've started to examine where my confidence comes from. If it's my looks, and my self-esteem is linked to that, then I've realized I need to find other sources for that confidence. Your looks aren't with you when you wake up in the morning if you have to put your makeup on first. And they don't stay with you as you age."

And she says guys are totally fine with her fuzzy pits, but women are pretty grossed out by it. Do you think women should feel free to go without shaving their armpits? Or is it a beauty must-do?
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  • Riobhca 2012/05/04 22:32:37 (edited)
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    Riobhca
    +50
    If that is her preference, so what? If you bathe, you won't smell, hair or not. Sometimes it's good to question societal conventions. Good for her for having the courage to do just that.

    Americans are always so quick to judge other cultures. That is what is "gross."

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  • Jayfeather QuietCh... 2012/05/07 19:38:58 (edited)
    Jayfeather
    There are guys who would love to meet a girl with that particular trait. Millions in fact. I should know, as I've been on discussion forums to find others with my taste. We just keep it quiet, for fear of ridicule.
  • TKramar QuietCh... 2012/05/08 23:03:24
    TKramar
    Because it wasn't about that. She very well may.
  • Jayfeather TKramar 2012/05/09 02:15:37
    Jayfeather
    Wouldn't be surprised. People who prefer that kind of thing yearn for the chance to date someone who doesn't shave.
  • Eric Michael Black 2012/05/07 15:28:40
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    Eric Michael Black
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    It is bad enough that the Govt regulates our lives with laws without our imput but we still have some control without fashion and razor companies chiming in. Now many women are shaving their pubic areas thinking all men are some sort of closet pedophile.
  • cc 2012/05/07 15:14:20
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    cc
    +3
    Yeah...love it. Wear a t-shirt.
  • Jayfeather cc 2012/05/07 19:40:04
    Jayfeather
    Isn't it so sexy?
  • ancientmath 2012/05/07 15:12:13
    Gross
    ancientmath
    +1
    Ewwwwww! Too bad she didn't notice the type of men she dates now, too.
  • Jayfeather ancient... 2012/05/07 19:41:26 (edited)
    Jayfeather
    I find that offensive, considering I have that preference.
  • ancient... Jayfeather 2012/05/09 16:21:27
    ancientmath
    Sorry, but I would have to question your preference/taste. I take it you won't be buying me dinner anytime soon. :)
  • Jayfeather ancient... 2012/05/09 18:53:03
    Jayfeather
    My preference is shared by many. They just do not reveal it to anyone, because we are almost as ridiculed as girls who choose to leave hair. I've been called gay more than once, even though I have never looked at a man in such a manner. And no, I suppose not.
  • ancient... Jayfeather 2012/05/15 06:59:03
    ancientmath
    So is mine. They should be ridiculed. It's disgusting and you know it. Sorry. I don't think you're gay, i don' think they're gay. Lazy perhaps.
  • Jayfeather ancient... 2012/05/15 22:58:31
    Jayfeather
    I see nothing disgusting about enjoying the body the way it is supposed to be. After all, why would nature let hair grow if it's not supposed to be there? Logic leads me to say that it wouldn't. There is no shame in logic. And to be frank, logic seems to be something we are lacking in today's world.
  • ancient... Jayfeather 2012/05/25 18:09:04
    ancientmath
    Logic is keeping clean. Uncleanliness is illogical and led to the Black Plague.
  • Jayfeather ancient... 2012/05/25 19:28:08
    Jayfeather
    Body hair is not unclean. As long as you clean properly, it makes little to no difference whether or not you have body hair.
  • Jayfeather ancient... 2012/05/25 19:29:15
    Jayfeather
    Body hair is not unclean. As long as you clean properly, it makes little to no difference whether or not you have body hair. I have a fair amount of body hair, and have better hygiene than plenty of people I know.
  • ancient... Jayfeather 2012/05/31 07:01:57
    ancientmath
    Crabs and lice don't grow for one...big difference. I'm not saying you have that or would be type of person that would date someone who does, but I disagree that having more body hair is cleaner or as clean than not having it. Yes, with or without, simply showering is important. That said, likely those that don't shower probably have a lot more than the normal amount of body hair than people that do.
  • Jayfeather ancient... 2012/05/31 22:50:01
    Jayfeather
    "That said, likely those that don't shower probably have a lot more than the normal amount of body hair than people that do."

    How'd you reach that conclusion?
  • ancient... Jayfeather 2012/06/11 21:30:48
    ancientmath
    Because hair mats up when you don't shower. When you comb your hair, for example, follicles fall out into the comb...without showering, that just sits there and collects more stinky mess.
  • Jayfeather ancient... 2012/06/12 03:50:18
    Jayfeather
    So they don't have more hair. It's the same amount of hair. Just filthy...
  • ancient... Jayfeather 2012/06/12 18:40:16
    ancientmath
    I contend they have more hair because the old isn't brushed out; but whatever....not shaving your armpits or at the very least excercising hygiene is filthy. I think we'll just agree to disagree on the armpit hair being gross or not....to me the picture of this article is Very gross,
  • politicalsoldier 2012/05/07 15:08:27
    Gross
    politicalsoldier
    +2
    I highly doubt guys are fine with her fuzzy pits as she says. Maybe some young, overly horny, desperate, completely wasted guys she brings home from a bar at 2 AM would look past it, but that's about it. And they'd have to be blind-drunk at that.

    It's nasty. Maybe in countries where it's the norm, they are used to it, but here in the states it doesn't fly.
  • cmg politic... 2012/05/07 15:32:20
    cmg
    +1
    You are totally wrong! So if you are a guy stop speaking for all of us, thanks!!
  • politic... cmg 2012/05/07 15:49:57 (edited)
    politicalsoldier
    As a man, I'm wrong to say what men think of women with hairy armpits? You as a woman better know about what men think and should speak for us? LOL! Yeah, hope that works for ya. LOL

    Okay, I left one sector of men out that might like it. Burned-out, old, hippy-leftovers from the sixties. There ... feel better?

    If you want to grow your pit hair out, more power to you. But you can't will men to like it because you want them to.
  • TKramar politic... 2012/05/08 23:04:52
    TKramar
    Or guys who look at other things in making their choice. Beauty is skin deep, but an ugly personality is forever.
  • politic... TKramar 2012/05/09 14:36:26 (edited)
    politicalsoldier
    Yes, that's all well and good in a perfect little world that doesn't exist. But the truth is, men base our first impressions on the physical attraction. That's just they way it works. And for men that aren't into armpit hair, a woman most likely is not going to get to know a guy well enough to show her great personality if she's first setting across from him braiding her pit hair. That is unless the guy is into hairy armpits for whatever reason.
  • TKramar politic... 2012/05/10 15:12:59
    TKramar
    I don't, and I'm a guy. I base my interest in a woman on her interest in me.
  • Jayfeather politic... 2012/05/09 02:18:43 (edited)
    Jayfeather
    So, I am a burned out hippy even though I have never tried drugs or alcohol in my life. I am only seventeen, and have never even met a hippy. I get straight A's in honours classes and have received Honours at every college I've applied to.
  • politic... Jayfeather 2013/03/07 21:52:53
    politicalsoldier
    So like hairy armpits, hairy legs, and bushes that go all the way from her belly button to the top of her ass crack. I don't care. It's weird as hell to me, but to each his own.
  • Jayfeather politic... 2013/03/08 09:07:08
    Jayfeather
    Just cease making generalisations. You will offend people for no reason if you don't.
  • politic... Jayfeather 2013/03/08 14:16:03
    politicalsoldier
    I like hairy tits.
  • Jayfeather politic... 2013/03/09 09:00:17
    Jayfeather
    Your sarcasm failed to amuse. But, we all have our hits and misses.
  • Jayfeather politic... 2012/05/09 02:17:08
    Jayfeather
    I am neither horny, nor desperate, nor wasted. I have never had a drink in my life. I live in New Jersey.
  • ancient... Jayfeather 2012/05/09 16:28:21 (edited)
    ancientmath
    New Jersey??!! That could explain a few things! LOL, j/k

    Jokes aside, though. Personally, I consider it a bad form of hygiene choice. Perhaps if she trimmed it to help with attractiveness, such as beards and private areas. But just "letting it go", no. It's disgusting as we are all aware that humans sweat...some for profusely than others. She may take showers more often to compensate (I can only hope), but nonetheless, I suspect there is also a factor of laziness in her decision as well.
  • Jayfeather ancient... 2012/05/09 18:55:28
    Jayfeather
    +1
    Not necessarily. Some do it because shaving is illogical. Some do it to make a statement. Others do it out of laziness. Some people have a mixture of all three. Anyway, why should they have to do anything extra to compensate? Men do not have to shower more often, nor do we have to trim our hair. It is a silly double standard that makes no sense.
  • santa6642 2012/05/07 15:06:38
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    santa6642
    +2
    I prefer natural.
  • Jayfeather santa6642 2012/05/09 02:19:39
    Jayfeather
    isn't it the sexiest?
  • politic... Jayfeather 2012/05/09 14:31:47
    politicalsoldier
    Hey, if hairy pits are your thing, go for it. To each his own. I'm just stating the vast majority of men in this nation where shaved pits have been the norm for a long time, don't like armpit hair on a woman.
  • Jayfeather politic... 2012/05/09 18:55:59
    Jayfeather
    That's fine. Everyone is entitled to their own tastes.
  • cmg politic... 2012/11/09 17:45:28
    cmg
    You can not speak for the vast majority of men! Let me see the study on which you base that statement.
  • jules 2012/05/07 15:05:03
    Gross
    jules
    Obviously she does not care about personal hygiene anymore !!!! Nasty!

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