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Why is ridiculing overweight people still ok?

☆ElenaDiamond☆ 2012/07/24 15:27:35
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I have seen this over and over on the internet. We protect kids, we protect people with cancer, we protect people with heart disease, we protect people with deformities. We don't laugh at those jokes. We don't use them as insults. We don't think the ultimate insult to a woman is calling her skinny. I see this escalating. Overweight women calling thin women bony, thin women calling overweight women fat, everyone calling everyone stupid childish names.

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I don't expect people to all have the same Idea of what is beautiful. I don't want to reward obesity. I don't want to encourage anorexia. However, I do want people to just take a minute to think. Thats all. No one wants you to date a "chubber" if you aren't attracted, likewise no one thinks if you like your girls with some meat on their bones you are giving "bony women" the cold shoulder. Everyone likes something different. I am not saying we should encourage obesity, but ridicule? Seems a little extreme.

pretty overweight girl

Obesity is no laughing matter.

Among children and adolescents, annual hospital costs related to overweight and
obesity more than tripled over the past two decades – rising to $127 million
during 1997–1999 (in 2001 constant U.S. dollars), up from $35 million during
1979–1981.


Direct health costs attributable to obesity have been estimated at $52 billion in
1995 and $75 billion in 2003.
  • Obesity is the #2 cause of preventable death in the United States
  • 60 million Americans, 20 years and older are obese
  • 9 million children and teens ages 6-19 are overweight
  • Being overweight or obese increases the risk of health conditions and diseases including: Breast cancer, Coronary heart disease, Type II diabetes, Sleep apnea, Gallbladder disease, Osteoarthritis, Colon cancer, Hypertension and Stroke
Obesity is no laughing matter.
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  • Mj PINKYFINGERDOWN 2013/01/13 06:09:54 (edited)
  • Craig 2012/07/28 22:33:46
    It is not OK.
    Craig
    It never was nor ever will be ok. This bigotry against overweight people has got to stop.
  • Charmaine 2012/07/26 11:33:10
    It is not OK.
    Charmaine
    +1
    NEVER!!!
  • LunarRain 2012/07/26 00:54:16
    I think it is OK because.
    LunarRain
    Well not I think it's ok but I think other people think it's ok because it's somthing you can change. The things you listed you can't change and same with race.
  • Lady Whitewolf 2012/07/25 17:43:11
    It is not OK.
    Lady Whitewolf
    +2
    Seems to me that it doesn't matter if you're tall or short, Pretty or plain, fat or skinny, left or right handed, super-smart or average.... I could go on ad naseum - SOMEBODY is gonna bitch about SOMETHING.
  • La 2012/07/25 06:10:02
    It is not OK.
    La
    +1
    Being mean to people is bad, etc.

    But I really wish there weren't so many overweight people >.<
  • kobidobidog 2012/07/25 05:57:20 (edited)
    It is not OK.
    kobidobidog
    It is not OK. Jesus would not do that at all. Words indeed hurt. When words hurt they hurt Jesus who is God at the same time at the same time. I have been in the thick of it having bad words spoken against gays in the furry Fandom, and not in the fandom,and zoosexuals given death threats,and Humans called Pedo given death threats too. All of that is anti Christ, and all of that hurts God at the same time. People hurt God by saying bad words regarding him. All he wants is to give us good things. A manifestation of the good things are things humans use to eat, and make all kinds of things. He would like it if we in our minds were thankful to God for all of the good things in this world as it is, and the air we breathe,and the things we see, and smell, and touch. Being regretful prepares our minds to be good to whoever, and for when God makes all things new.
    Proverbs 15; 4A wholesome tongue is a tree of life: but perverseness therein is a breach in the spirit.
    Proverbs 19;1Better is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that is perverse in his lips, and is a fool.
    Proverbs 4; 24,Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.
    KJV, Pro; 6;16These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: A proud look, a lying tongue...




    It is not OK. Jesus would not do that at all. Words indeed hurt. When words hurt they hurt Jesus who is God at the same time at the same time. I have been in the thick of it having bad words spoken against gays in the furry Fandom, and not in the fandom,and zoosexuals given death threats,and Humans called Pedo given death threats too. All of that is anti Christ, and all of that hurts God at the same time. People hurt God by saying bad words regarding him. All he wants is to give us good things. A manifestation of the good things are things humans use to eat, and make all kinds of things. He would like it if we in our minds were thankful to God for all of the good things in this world as it is, and the air we breathe,and the things we see, and smell, and touch. Being regretful prepares our minds to be good to whoever, and for when God makes all things new.
    Proverbs 15; 4A wholesome tongue is a tree of life: but perverseness therein is a breach in the spirit.
    Proverbs 19;1Better is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that is perverse in his lips, and is a fool.
    Proverbs 4; 24,Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.
    KJV, Pro; 6;16These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief, A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.
    The lying tongue is bent on harming not speaking kind words like Jesus would speak.
    Proverbs 12; 22Lying lips are abomination to the LORD.
    and Proverbs 3, 32For the froward is abomination to the LORD.
    Matthew 15:11;Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man.
    As it turns out the words mentioned are not connected to nudity or sex of any kind like religions would like you to believe. A bully is abominable, defiled, and abominable in the way they talk, and deal with people. They will get eternal soul death if they do not repent.
    (more)
  • YepIDidItSo 2012/07/25 04:54:25
    It is not OK.
    YepIDidItSo
    +2
    I'm big and proud. If others have a problem with how I look they can keep it to themselves. I don't want to hear it, and I don't want to see them do it to others. I will say something every time I witness any kind of hate speech.
  • jim 2012/07/25 04:19:37
  • ☆ElenaD... jim 2012/07/25 04:25:44
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    YEP.
  • Sir Bud 2012/07/25 03:39:04
    It is not OK.
    Sir Bud
    +7
    Whats almost as bad though-are people who invent and make up a totally false profile of themselves and use other peoples photos to complete the show and then go around playing the moral apostle and waving the pointed finger at others about decorum and decency.Besides that of course we shouldn't bully people or ridicule them because of their looks.Some it seems ,seem to think we need a reminder of the basics to polish up their own image and ego.
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/25 03:44:06
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    Who would do such a lame thing?
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/25 04:05:06
    Sir Bud
    +4
    No idea!
    wergb
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/25 04:05:54
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    +1
    sounds pretty crazy.
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/25 04:06:57
    Sir Bud
    +2
    Now thats true.
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/25 04:09:46
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/25 05:01:31
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/25 05:07:40 (edited)
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    Well, I know. I don't believe half of what I see on the internet, but I don't actively chase people either trying to prove them false. It seems a bit silly to me, but if that is what gets you going, then please have at it.

    I don't like to block people even if they are kind of sick.

    I have made exceptions.


    So please suit yourself.
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/25 06:18:25
    Sir Bud
    +2
    Wrong.You are accountable for your activity and not those who respond to you and therefore you cause the"Chase"as you initiate the action in the first place.Yes,have a nice week too.
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/25 06:31:19
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    I don't cause people to accuse me of a fake profile. As I already stated some of the smart ones in the group have already recognized that I am not who some of you think I am. They have even acknowledged it to me.

    They know me by my deeds. I deal with people civilly. I don't swarm. I don't block, at least not often. I am consistent. I may be consistently annoying, but I address people and never attack their husband, their children, their looks or their family. Can your friends say the same?

    Think about it. I may bait liberals, but there are liberals who bait conservatives. I don't send a little swarm to their polls.

    Try to remember that YOU are responsible for your own actions and if I am causing you people to chase? I own you already.

    Night.
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/25 17:45:13
    Sir Bud
    +1
    Yes,"action causes reaction"and your act is a fabrication exposed,but personally I must admit I enjoyed the challenge,so see you around,whoever and whatever you are and thanks for the fun.
     The Muppets
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/25 20:20:00
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    See you around.

    You live to argue.

    I can tell.
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/25 22:50:07
    Sir Bud
    +1
    Not a good argument and not true.
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/25 22:56:45
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    LOL, then why are you?
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/25 23:04:24
    Sir Bud
    +2
    I am not.
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/26 00:21:01
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    ROTFLMAO

    Are too.
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/26 00:25:25
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/26 00:27:36
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/26 00:31:07
    Sir Bud
    I will be charging cash soon!
  • ☆ElenaD... Sir Bud 2012/07/26 00:33:03
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    No way, you should pay me. Without me you wouldn't have anyone to fight with. You already admitted your love for it.


    Anyway, As fun as this was, it has become tiresome. I'm quite sure we will cross paths again Sir Bud.

    Last word to you.

    See you around SH
  • Sir Bud ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/26 00:41:36
    Sir Bud
    I simply contradicted you and it is you who started arguing after you ran out of patience.Now take a rest-you need it obviously.
  • Adam 2012/07/25 03:27:44
    It is not OK.
    Adam
    +3
    The reason it is still okay is because there is at least a behavioral component. You have more control over your weight then you do your gender, sexuality, skin tone, racial background, etc. People who want to assume that the world is fair dismiss things completely genetic as not something to be mocked, but if there is any behavior you can do, even if you could never do enough to be perfect, and even if there's no reason to force perfection, then any shortcoming their is a shortcoming of you.

    This is not justification, this is a reason. When women can range from Summer Glau to Christina Hendricks and still be considered to have an idea body weight, and when a woman can be overweight and that fact be completely ignored because of other things she can and has done, we will be in a better world.
  • Piperpc 2012/07/25 02:25:54
    It is not OK.
    Piperpc
    +4
    Still okay? It's never been okay, to me, to ridicule anyone because of the way they look. That would include people perceived as ugly, too fat, too skinny, too old, or anything other other than the way people act as individuals. Sometimes, the way people act as individuals, is worthy of ridicule.
  • Kaycee Mosely 2012/07/25 01:36:45
    It is not OK.
    Kaycee Mosely
    +2
    People still do that? :L
  • Anthony Souls 2012/07/25 00:55:33
    It is not OK.
    Anthony Souls
    +1
    People "think" it's ok because it's a "acceptable" form of hatred: THEY DID IT TO THEMSELVES, they will shout.

    Take care,
  • Sintwa 2012/07/25 00:44:18
    I think it is OK because.
    Sintwa
    +2
    Everyone is molly-coddling nowadays. Things such as deformities or illness (mental or physical) are not things anyone can change. Someimes they may nt understand the insult. They are vunerable. Now, an overweight person can understand their insults directly, and they are also able to change it. It is not decent nor kind to call some one "fat" or "anorexic" as an insult, but people judge and honestly it is better to hear it outright so you can avoid them instead. Spend more time CUTTING obesity as opposed to the insults to it and it'll all be fine. Your post is strage though. Goes from how acceptable childish name calling is to laughig at the wide scale problem that is obesity. Oh well. I replied as best I could.
  • Anthony... Sintwa 2012/07/25 00:58:03
    Anthony Souls
    You are stating that people should just toughen up and take their "just deserts"? That's how it sounds to me. Obesity is a problem of the health and people can educate overweight people about how it effects them if they ask, or inform them that gluttony is a sin if the conversation goes to it. However, INSULTS, DEGRADATION, RIDICULE, etc. are not acceptable and are forms of hatred.

    Take care,
  • Sintwa Anthony... 2012/07/25 01:09:06
    Sintwa
    +2
    As much as we would like to stop the insults, ect, they WONT STOP. I garuntee a few decades from now you will see the larger than average kid at school bullied and ridiculed. My point was that if we fueled more into stopped obesity before it becomes a problem, we would have less of the ridiculing to deal with. People are mch more tolerant now than what they were before due to the "every size is beautiful" thing going on. Yet it still happens. You only repeated what i suggested we do, which is to educate them. But instead of relying on strangers (as it is natural instict to judge) we should put more into reforming America so that the obesity osnt much of an issue. For isntance most are under the false pretence that fast food us cheaper than a healthy meal. I had an image put together to explain this but unfortunatly it is on my computer and not my ipod...but it the long term (and often short term) salad with a bit of protien is cheaper than mcdonalds...it's just McD's is more convenient. Maybe if people were educated on this obesity and its reprecussions suh as health and name calling would be eliminated.
  • Heisenberg 2012/07/25 00:05:44
    It is not OK.
    Heisenberg
    +2
    It's not okay, but the media says it is because our society has no respect for anything or anybody. That's why I often wish I could find a talisman and travel to another universe or dimension to start over.
  • ken 2012/07/25 00:04:15
    It is not OK.
    ken
    +4
    If you ridicule people for any reason you're a calloused and mean person. And I use the term person rather lightly.

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