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Why is love so complicated?

BeautifulSoul 2012/04/19 03:45:30
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My boyfriend and I are always on again off again. We love each other, but we can never seem to stay together..
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  • DoxieDad 2012/04/19 04:14:41
    I guess this is required
    DoxieDad
    +3
    It is required so you don't do something stupid like get married before you know who you are with.

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  • Christopher Dresbach 2012/07/02 03:43:26
    Undecided
    Christopher Dresbach
    One reason is that people focus on what's been done to them in the past (baggage). Another is fear of commitment (each for their own reasons). Also, some people just don't want to love like they should or put in as much effort as their partner.
  • Cameryn (◠‿◠✿) 2012/04/22 16:55:33
    Just choose either one lol
    Cameryn (◠‿◠✿)
    +1
    Because love is stupid.
  • MJ 2012/04/19 21:16:19
    I guess this is required
    MJ
    +1
    because it's love
  • alex 2012/04/19 19:16:15
    I guess this is required
    alex
    +1
    because yall are making it complicated. love is wanting to spend your best moments with that person, but ya have to stay together to do that! i say if you break up atleast twice, its done for. because atleast you can say you gave it another shot, but it didn't work out. how are you so sure you love eachother? because he says he loves you? actions speak louder than words.
  • Beautif... alex 2012/04/19 21:40:01
    BeautifulSoul
    +1
    Yeah, this is our 3rd time. So idk lol and actions do speak louder than words.
  • alex Beautif... 2012/04/20 18:32:25
    alex
    +1
    i think ya do know what ya want, youre just scared to persue it ;) dont be!!!
  • Beautif... alex 2012/04/20 22:19:12
    BeautifulSoul
    Thanks :)
  • Elz 2012/04/19 14:26:19
    Undecided
    Elz
    +1
    i dont know. there is always issues between a couple. thats always going to be a question who no one will ever answer.
  • TerryAgee 2012/04/19 12:33:13 (edited)
    Undecided
    TerryAgee
    +1
    Which one of you calls the other when drunk?
  • Beautif... TerryAgee 2012/04/19 21:39:03
    BeautifulSoul
    Well, neither he nor I drink. Lol
  • TerryAgee Beautif... 2012/04/20 00:37:43
    TerryAgee
    +1
    Do you two work at the same company?
  • Beautif... TerryAgee 2012/04/20 00:38:13
    BeautifulSoul
    Yeah we both work for my parents. Haha
  • TerryAgee Beautif... 2012/04/20 01:10:36
    TerryAgee
    +1
    Tell him how much you love him and what kind of future you two will have together. Yay or nay?
  • Beautif... TerryAgee 2012/04/20 01:25:20
    BeautifulSoul
    Yay. :)
  • TerryAgee Beautif... 2012/04/20 13:37:41
    TerryAgee
    +1
    I wish you two the best of success, luck and happiness! Enjoy!!!
  • Beautif... TerryAgee 2012/04/20 22:19:52
    BeautifulSoul
    Thank you!!
  • TerryAgee Beautif... 2012/04/20 23:16:13
    TerryAgee
    +1
    You're most welcome!
  • ready46xwu 2012/04/19 10:16:15
    Undecided
    ready46xwu
    +1
    It's NOT~
    unless U make it that way~
    most people get "sex & love" confused~
  • Beautif... ready46xwu 2012/04/19 21:38:14
    BeautifulSoul
    Currently never had sex. Lol
  • Rahul Matur 2012/04/19 07:32:47
    I guess this is required
    Rahul Matur
  • Aksana 2012/04/19 06:19:28
    I guess this is required
    Aksana
    +1
    l also need clarity
  • Bob DiN 2012/04/19 06:08:14
    I guess this is required
    Bob DiN
    +1
    Because that's the way it is.
  • Wanderer 2012/04/19 05:07:18
    Undecided
    Wanderer
    +2
    I think it's quite simple really...it's a natural occurence that happens to two people at the right time in the right place,some simply have to wait longer than others and both partys must know what it is that they want and have a positive view toward the future together.
  • Wretha S 2012/04/19 05:01:19
    Undecided
    Wretha S
    +1
    It's not complicated at all, when you are with the right one, then you put everything into your relationship and he does the same, with my hubby, he is the king of my world, and I am the queen of his, no exceptions, but we don't smother each other though, we give each other space, we have absolute trust and complete love for each other. We have been together since late 1999, my only regret is that we didn't meet 20 years earlier.
    We have both been in bad relationships before, things are not always perfect, but we are perfect for each other, anything less is just not acceptable or worth it.


    Wretha
  • nothingbutthetruth 2012/04/19 04:43:11
    I guess this is required
    nothingbutthetruth
    +2
    Patience and perseverance. Most things that are high value are never easy to obtain. You got to work hard at it.
  • Paige 2012/04/19 04:23:56
    Undecided
    Paige
    +2
    Idk but I wish it was easier.
  • rebecca Paige 2012/04/21 15:13:15
    rebecca
    uh huh
  • Mz Understood 2012/04/19 04:18:33
    Undecided
    Mz Understood
    +2
    Because people are complicated. Maybe you're both in different places in your lives with things and now is not the right time. But, if it's meant to be, it will happen.
    My hubs and I started dating at 18. He asked me to marry him and I said no. I wasn't ready. Three years later, a lot of things had changed and we got back together. This time when he asked I WAS ready and we've been together for 18 years now. Good, bad, or indifferent, everything happens for a reason.
  • DoxieDad 2012/04/19 04:14:41
    I guess this is required
    DoxieDad
    +3
    It is required so you don't do something stupid like get married before you know who you are with.
  • Beautif... DoxieDad 2012/04/19 04:17:19
    BeautifulSoul
    +1
    Never thought of it that way!
  • Selketskiss 2012/04/19 04:06:03
    Undecided
    Selketskiss
    +2
    Love deals with emotions which makes people crazy and stupid....LOL
  • Beautif... Selkets... 2012/04/19 04:16:53
    BeautifulSoul
    +1
    Definitely stupid (like me)
  • Selkets... Beautif... 2012/04/19 04:44:12
    Selketskiss
    LOL...
  • freespire 2012/04/19 04:04:12
    Undecided
    freespire
    +2
    I think it is feelings that are complitcate not love maybe??
  • Beautif... freespire 2012/04/19 04:05:33
    BeautifulSoul
    +1
    That is actually making sense to me :)
  • freespire Beautif... 2012/04/19 04:33:19
  • rebecca freespire 2012/04/21 15:25:09
  • Oaces_boss_yo® 2012/04/19 04:02:05
  • Beautif... Oaces_b... 2012/04/19 04:04:56
    BeautifulSoul
    +1
    Maybe you need to think outside the box to find your significant other :)
  • Oaces_b... Beautif... 2012/04/19 04:06:33

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