Why dosen't the state procecute woman beaters?
My name is Michael
2012/09/19 11:12:53
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I have a friend who is beaten by her boy friend , I made a question about it recently, many times the police are involved but when she refuses to press charges that's the end of it. If this was a child the state would pick it up regardless if the parent wants to prosecute, "which it should" But Seems as though they would do the same with a spouse abuser.
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sarah 2012/09/19 11:17:45I don't know why they don't






















In my state it is common for the police to charge an accused individual (male and female) independently of the victim when they feel there is sufficient evidence for them to do so. Medical facilities here routinely remit examination results collected in ER departments to authorities if they feel they have reasonable grounds for suspicion of abuse. Which the...
In my state it is common for the police to charge an accused individual (male and female) independently of the victim when they feel there is sufficient evidence for them to do so. Medical facilities here routinely remit examination results collected in ER departments to authorities if they feel they have reasonable grounds for suspicion of abuse. Which the authorities can and often do pursue independently. It is a practice which is frequently condemed however as it obviously often creates an environment favorable to overzealous officials with personal axes to grind or who are basicly focused on building reputations. Often to the detriment of individuals who lack the resources to defend themselves adequately. However the practice does often rescue abuse victims from situations that they would not likely have gotten out of on their own otherwise.
That’s how it goes inch by inch just like socialism started.
Once knew a girl in your friend's predicament. She came from a large family; which included four brothers. Long story short, they took care of the problem. It was family business after all. They say two wrongs don't make a right but sometimes there is no other choice.
Your friend really needs some serious help from a professional. She probably blames herself for what is happening to her. We both know that's not true.
The stated itself, acts in the behalf of a child, or mentally challenged person.
And... The vast majority of women in abusive relationships will not press charges against their mate. Mostly because the fear their mate will leave them if they do. Which makes no sense to people who are not in an abusive relationship.
I use to have a boyfriend, that got off on beating on me. I pressed charges,in the end he got a years probation. Had I dropped charges against him then the State would have picked the case up and he would have done time. Had I known about that little piece of information, I would have dropped charges.
Get in touch with the Judicial System in your area and start asking questions.
Good luck to you both.
It is a very real fear....
As it happened, at the time i was home on leave from the army and got to know about it-
not from my sister who knew what I was like and knew exactly what would happen-but from my Mother.
Let's just say when HE finally got out of hospital he NEVER EVER laid a finger on my dear sister during the short time they continued to live together after that...
The only reason MY then brother-in-law kept HIS trap shut about what I had done to him was quite simply that he knew that with the background i had come from that much, much worse would have come to him if he hadn't.