Why don't women find fat guys attractive?

Alvin 2012/04/08 16:29:47
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  • Rachel 2012/04/08 16:35:42
    ... I guess the same reasons as why some men don't find fat girls attractive.

    It's a matter of perception.

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  • Elz 2012/08/24 01:33:46
    some women don't care. most of them prefer bigger guys. but i am more attracted to smaller guys.
  • Anna 2012/08/17 16:02:25
    I couldn't really tell you. My knee jerk reaction was to say "Because I like healthy guy who take care of themselves". Then I remembered I also like unhealthily skinny/slightly emaciated guys.So I couldn't really say why I am not attracted to fat, or even just chubby, guys.
  • CwrazyLwina 2012/07/10 00:32:52
    I don't find most guys attractive..
    Gimme Finnish and nearly malnourished..
    Ville  Valo  Hermanni  Finnish  Guy  Singer  HIM
  • samantha 2012/04/13 02:51:18
    Women are usually looking for more than a pretty face. A good character goes a long way. And then there is money for some silly women. lol
  • Yaya 2012/04/10 21:24:54
    Usually because they dont take care of themselves well.
  • Katfish 2012/04/09 21:43:31
    I've seen plenty of fat dudes with hot chicks, I always assume its a money thing, but it may also be some sense of trust.
    On the other hand, fat is unattractive on either gender. I'm getting pretty disgusted with my own gut lately.
  • Rubyking 2012/04/09 04:45:31
    it makes the penis look smaller
  • mimi12 2012/04/09 03:42:34
    i dont know.... they're ugly.
  • Kashee 2012/04/09 01:25:13
    I think people of both genders like people of all sizes.

    Heard that voice in the middle of the night, flipping channels when I couldn't sleep. It was love at first sound. Raul Malo is beautiful.
  • Vision of Verve 2012/04/09 01:00:53
  • Sachikø-the-shy-kunøichi 2012/04/09 00:50:44
    My crush/friend he's fat that makes him more huggable! (:
  • mr echo 2012/04/09 00:44:51
    mr echo
    i never knew they found fat gues attractive i dont find fat girls attractive
  • Joey 2012/04/09 00:08:02
    If you have the BANK someone would love you know matter what you look like . I mean look at Steve Tyler .

    No he is not fat .. but just showing looks don't matter if you have something else going for you.
  • Mz Understood 2012/04/08 23:58:37
    Mz Understood
    I don't think that's true of all women. When I was in high school, I had a huge crush on a kid who was pretty heavy. He had an amazing smile, very good looking, incredible personality, and he's Greek so lots of yummy Baklava! LOL! He ended up having gastric bypass and it changed his appearance...a LOT. I'm glad he's healthy and happy (as that's the most important thing) but I think he was better looking when he was heavy.
  • Nightmusic 2012/04/08 23:03:02
    Most of the men I've been attracted to were plump.
  • Cat 2012/04/08 23:00:20
    I'm average and I've dated a dude that was heavier.
  • Axe Grinder 2012/04/08 22:38:18
    Axe Grinder
    I don't know if this is true. Women aren't too hung up on physical appearance as men are.....Girls Love Money! I know women with 2 sets of men, a provider, and a boy toy....and if they have to choose, the boy toy always loses! Hugh Heffner is 90, and marries a 22 year old playmate every 4 years.....you think thats due to his dynamic personality? NOT.
  • Beat Magnum True Hero 2012/04/08 21:52:26
    Beat Magnum True Hero
    Most women will look past a spare tire if his wallet is fat.
  • Kashee Beat Ma... 2012/04/10 02:10:36
    wow, that would be really shallow
  • Relay 2012/04/08 21:46:27
    because prince charming in the fairy tales never looked like this.
    fat guy
  • Beat Ma... Relay 2012/04/08 21:52:51
    Beat Magnum True Hero
    Yeah, but if he earned six digits, he'd has a different girl every night. Sad but true.
  • Relay Beat Ma... 2012/04/09 06:42:26
  • Relay Beat Ma... 2012/04/09 06:43:46
    thats very true. too bad majority dont earn that much
  • IChangedMyNameAgain 2012/04/08 20:47:32
    Cuz they dont wear little coats...
  • LQ~phaet 2012/04/08 20:33:04
    A leaner look denotes a certain hormone profile. Men who have more body fat have more estrogen and, sometimes, less testosterone. Hormones make pheromones. Pheromones make the scent that drives a mate wild with passion.
  • Dickens 2012/04/08 20:27:27
    ..hmmm..well, there's fat and there's FAT...
  • ★misfit★ 2012/04/08 20:22:42
    Same reason guys don't find fat girls attractive. But there are exceptions in both cases.
  • Just Another Girl (5) 2012/04/08 20:10:37
    Just Another Girl (5)
    I HAVE found fat guys to be attractive. Massively obese and fat are two completely different things.
  • Devin Pederson 2012/04/08 19:00:17
    Devin Pederson
    Because they're fat.

    Seriously though, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
  • freespire Devin P... 2012/05/05 06:21:02
    you are so right any one who only see's the skin don't know the person within.
  • Andy Fletcher 2012/04/08 18:30:48
    Andy Fletcher
    because we're always out of breathe and smell funny?
  • PumpkinMuncher 2012/04/08 18:24:28
    Its not all women, its personal prefrence. You know the saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Me personaly, I dont find them atractive, but I like really skinny guys.
  • giggity giggity 2012/04/08 18:23:44
    giggity giggity
    Because they're fat.

    funny fat men
  • Flowers 2012/04/08 18:21:13
    My boyfriend is not skinny, and I think he is damn sexy
  • TheMadChameleon 2012/04/08 18:05:01
    Some women do. Body type is all about personal preference. I don't personally find large men very attractive, but when I say large, I mean in fat and/or muscle. I don't know why--I just prefer a slender aesthetic. But I know women who would rather date large guys, again in fat or muscle, because it makes them feel protected. I really think that there are a variety of reasons for preference.
  • vitaminanime 2012/04/08 18:03:57 (edited)
    Everyone has their own tastes, but it kind of looks unhealthy
  • Waiting in the Wings 2012/04/08 17:58:24 (edited)
    Waiting in the Wings
    I do find fat guys attractive, but there is a limit. I'm willing to work with fat guys attractive limit work


    But these guys don't stand a chance

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  • Greatkibble 2012/04/08 17:49:04
    They all don't?
  • Kat ♪ ~ ♪ 2012/04/08 17:45:14 (edited)
    Kat ♪ ~ ♪
    Their appearance is usually not good. Grossly obese is gross. Gut hanging over pants just wrong, moobs- OMG if I wanted to play with tits I'd get a hot chick not a fat dude. I'm not gay or bi but hell no. Would you find this attractive if it was female?
    obese men
  • Greatki... Kat ♪ ~ ♪ 2012/04/08 17:50:06
    Naw. lol

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