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Why Does Everyone Want Me To Lose My Virginity?

SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和 2012/03/24 16:34:16
Almost everyone of my friends and cousin want me to lose it, I don't want to yet, and they scolded me because I could have lost it many times and I chose not too. They're mission is to get or help me to lose it, and I don't want to yet. I think now I know why I didn't chill with them for awhile.
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  • Dickens 2012/03/24 18:38:28
    Dickens
    +7
    ..although I'm definitely NOT the "wait for marriage" type, if you aren't comfortable with losing it, keep it!! It's your business and no one elses...

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  • Anna 2012/08/17 05:36:08
    Anna
    +1
    I've got no clue why they want you to lose it. Whatever the reason ignore them and wait until you are ready, not a moment before.
  • SebaThe... Anna 2012/08/19 23:29:39
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    i will, thanks!!^^
  • tori 2012/07/01 05:31:31
    tori
    +1
    When it comes down to it, girls will respect you more for being responsible enough to wait instead of loosing it just because others are!
  • SebaThe... tori 2012/07/01 16:52:29
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    really?
  • tori SebaThe... 2012/07/01 22:36:12
    tori
    Yeah really! I, and most girls, would rather the guy who was waiting for the right time/girl over the one who gave it up just because. It shows it means something to you. That's how it should be.
  • SebaThe... tori 2012/07/01 22:56:50
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    aha "should be" but unforch isnt :C
  • tori SebaThe... 2012/07/01 23:09:41
    tori
    exactly. But girls will respect you more, so when your friends mess with you, tell them in the long run, you'll get more girls lol!
  • Dark Angel 2012/06/28 03:32:48
    Dark Angel
    +1
    It is not their right to try to make you lose it. It is your decision and yours alone.
  • SebaThe... Dark Angel 2012/06/28 18:20:22
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    +1
    very true. thanks!!^^
  • The River Rat 2012/06/28 02:33:39
    The River Rat
    +2
    If you don't want to lose it, don't. You will only be able to lose it once. Make it special.
  • SebaThe... The Riv... 2012/06/28 18:20:32
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    +1
    i will. thanks!!^^
  • Death On Two Legs 2012/06/20 17:25:10
    Death On Two Legs
    +1
    That is your choice. Lose it when you're ready
  • SebaThe... Death O... 2012/06/22 15:08:48
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    i will. thanks!!^^
  • gracious43 2012/06/20 17:16:26
    gracious43
    +1
    Oh, sorry, I didn't realize you were a man. However, your virginity is just as special and sacred to a woman you will meet someday as a virgin woman is to a man.
  • SebaThe... gracious43 2012/06/22 15:08:39
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    +1
    i hope. thanks!!^^
  • gracious43 2012/06/20 17:12:12
    gracious43
    +1
    Even if you are not a religious person, I would think twice and three times before losing your virginity. This is from a nonreligious website in which a man expresses his opinions about virgin women.

    http://www.whatdomenreallythi...

    What do Men Think of Virgins?
    There was a time when virginity was taken for granted in a newly wed bride but that’s history now. In some parts of the world girls are still traditional and tend to keep their virginity intact until marriage but westernization is catching up in these parts quite quickly.

    When a man starts dating a girl he is usually quite sure that she is not a virgin and it comes as a surprise to him if she actually turns out to be one. So what do men really think of virgins in today’s age? One word that comes to mind is "pristine", it’s like finding someone who seems out of the mould.
    Points to Consider

    Trusting Becomes Quite Easy
    When a man knows that his girl is a virgin, he deducts that she has not had a serious relationship with another man before. So there is no "ex-boyfriend" issues to deal with. Moreover virginity also implies that she is a lot more restrained in the pursuit of sex. A man would find that comforting because he would believe that she will not go astray in the relationship and she would stay loyal. Thi...





    Even if you are not a religious person, I would think twice and three times before losing your virginity. This is from a nonreligious website in which a man expresses his opinions about virgin women.

    http://www.whatdomenreallythi...

    What do Men Think of Virgins?
    There was a time when virginity was taken for granted in a newly wed bride but that’s history now. In some parts of the world girls are still traditional and tend to keep their virginity intact until marriage but westernization is catching up in these parts quite quickly.

    When a man starts dating a girl he is usually quite sure that she is not a virgin and it comes as a surprise to him if she actually turns out to be one. So what do men really think of virgins in today’s age? One word that comes to mind is "pristine", it’s like finding someone who seems out of the mould.
    Points to Consider

    Trusting Becomes Quite Easy
    When a man knows that his girl is a virgin, he deducts that she has not had a serious relationship with another man before. So there is no "ex-boyfriend" issues to deal with. Moreover virginity also implies that she is a lot more restrained in the pursuit of sex. A man would find that comforting because he would believe that she will not go astray in the relationship and she would stay loyal. This is expecially true for men who have trust issues.
    Do Some Men Feel More Secure with a Virgin?
    It’s true that some men feel strained about their sexual performance. For a man it’s quite an insult to come across as a sloppy lover. While having sex with an experienced girl a man (who is low on experience) is not quite sure of what she is thinking, she might be comparing him with some of her ex-lovers. With a virgin he doesn’t have to harbor such fears. A man would feel comforted knowing that she will not be comparing him with other men while having sex with him.
    First Time Lovers
    Virginity is still quite a sacred thing in a man’s dictionary and he does value it. It definitely eggs his ego to sleep with a girl who is a virgin because in his own mind it’s something 'special' that a girl is willing to give up her virginity to him.
    That Special Person
    Whether you are a guy or a girl, your virginity is a sacred thing. Lose it to that special person. The one with whom you share a deep connection and you will find that it's such a beautiful experience. Don't rush into things under peer pressure. Have patience and the right person will come along soon.
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  • SebaThe... gracious43 2012/06/22 15:08:26
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    O.o sooooo long XD but thanks!!^^
  • ♥♥♥AznGurl92♥♥♥ 2012/04/13 22:58:56
    ♥♥♥AznGurl92♥♥♥
    +1
    it's your choice if you want to lose it or not. if you're not comfortable about it, then tell them. if they were really your friends then they should respect that you dont want to lose it until you're ready.
  • SebaThe... ♥♥♥AznG... 2012/06/20 16:35:05
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    very true. thanks!!^^
  • lidebide 2012/04/03 15:45:21
    lidebide
    +1
    dont loose it if youre not ready
  • SebaThe... lidebide 2012/06/20 16:35:13
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    i wont. thanks!!^^
  • Maleficent 2012/03/28 13:17:00
    Maleficent
    +1
    don't lose it if you're not ready and forget what other people have to say.
  • SebaThe... Maleficent 2012/06/20 16:35:24
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    i wont and thanks!!^^
  • Jerry 2012/03/28 05:54:41
    Jerry
    +1
    WTF? If you want to stay a virgin until you meet the right guy so be it. I have respect for you, cause this day in age sex is what's cool & if you ain't having it you're a loser, that's their words anyway, but you're winner when you're 17 & older or even younger & still have your virginity & you haven't become a parent yet. You're the winner & they are the losers! Keep up the good work.
  • SebaThe... Jerry 2012/06/20 16:36:05
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    +1
    girl* :P and aha thanks dude!!^^
  • Jerry SebaThe... 2012/06/21 01:36:37
    Jerry
    +1
    Oh my bad, the picture for some reason made me think you were a girl.
  • SebaThe... Jerry 2012/06/22 15:06:43
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    +1
    LOL nope XD
  • Jerry SebaThe... 2012/06/24 01:15:29
    Jerry
    +1
    lol once again my apologizes.
  • SebaThe... Jerry 2012/06/28 18:20:52
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    +1
    lol but i do have boobs....xept they're tiny :C XD
  • Jerry SebaThe... 2012/06/30 04:33:39
    Jerry
    +1
    lol wow, I've got nipples but I don't call them boobs.
  • SebaThe... Jerry 2012/07/01 02:39:38
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    +1
    aha XD
  • baii 2012/03/28 05:17:58
    baii
    +2
    how old are you? jut curious. either way they should respect your personal boundaries
  • SebaThe... baii 2012/06/20 16:36:28
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    aha turned 18 a month ago XD :$ and they should!! but thanks!!^^
  • stef 2012/03/27 17:59:52
    stef
    +4
    i know how you feel... my friends are the same way
    i think that they do it because they think that its cool and funny
    but im still a virgin and am not going to have sex till i get married =)
    dont listen to them do what you think is right =)
  • SebaThe... stef 2012/06/20 16:37:00
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    THANK YOU!!^^ HIGH FIVE!!^^ :) XD
  • stef SebaThe... 2012/06/22 19:40:23
    stef
    +1
    lol air high five =P
    ur welcome
  • SebaThe... stef 2012/06/22 23:46:24
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    lol umm can i be random if you dont mind? :P
  • stef SebaThe... 2012/06/23 19:13:10
    stef
    knock ur self out .... =)
  • SebaThe... stef 2012/06/28 18:21:13
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 平和
    aha Ook :3 umm pm? XD
  • stef SebaThe... 2012/06/29 19:51:21
    stef
    +1
    okay.......

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