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Why do we label people?

Sister Jean 2012/06/16 21:25:52
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We wonder why there are wars......we are Sodahead and yet we're so concerned with labels.Don't say NO as the pic I have on this post I put many times daily. Kinda sad we cannot practice what so many of us here preach!!!Does it matter whether we've straight,gay,Christian,Jew,black,white,etc.etc. Can't we make Peace not War????HOPS off soapbox
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  • Jan Haskell 2012/06/17 00:51:02
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    People seem to be afraid of anyone who doesn't agree with them on every level. Instead of reaching out and discussing, it's safer to just call names and run away.

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  • Jorge Enriquez 2012/07/17 20:07:40
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    social, education and ignorance too
  • freespire 2012/06/18 07:45:39
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    it makes people feel good to think they have a right to pass judgement upon another, if only they understood that before they can judge someone else they must first consider this

    Mathew 7 “Stop judging that YOU may not be judged; 2 for with what judgment YOU are judging, YOU will be judged; and with the measure that YOU are measuring out, they will measure out to YOU. 3 Why, then, do you look at the straw in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the rafter in your own eye? 4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Allow me to extract the straw from your eye’; when, look! a rafter is in your own eye? 5 Hypocrite! First extract the rafter from your own eye, and then you will see clearly how to extract the straw from your brother’s eye.
  • pdarkow 2012/06/18 05:23:28
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    Society has their own set of norms and most if not all those who label people have nothing better to do with their lives than to put labels on people who they deem below them. People are so shallow if they worry about how any group of people would label them.
  • Me 2012/06/18 03:53:06
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    apparently some dont have nothing else to do
  • Sister ... Me 2012/06/18 20:23:01
    Sister Jean
    agree
  • Lili13 2012/06/17 20:07:30
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    They are stupid
  • Miko Mikomiko 2012/06/17 20:07:23
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    I do not know and quite frankly I don't like it
  • aherbert 2012/06/17 19:46:04
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    behavior is learned ... behavior is learned
  • JausiaBaltazar 2012/06/17 19:19:03
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    If not for labels we would all be the same. I'm sorry but I don't mind being different. As long as the rest of the world doesn't look down on it. Being gay is a label... but that is all it is!! Society makes being gay seem wrong. If I said your pretty but society made it seem like a bad thing then you would be insulted. Just like how we turned Ase and dam into "bad words". They are just words its how we see them that can make or Bremen someone. I am a bisexual Hispanic American that's likes crazy shoes and used to cut myself. But guess what?? That's just me, and I love me. :)
  • Amy.[: 2012/06/17 17:41:17
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    It's just human nature..
  • KarenInKenoshaWisconsin 2012/06/17 17:27:14
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    Not everyone is so concerned with labels but it is a mammalian tendency.

    That doesn't mean we have to give into the index card mentality, as it were. We can elect to be more observant, thoughtful, inquisitive...
  • NarcolepticGoat 2012/06/17 16:16:41
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    Humans categorize. It is in our very languages. Heck, even animals categorize (food, not food, threat) It is just a predisposition we have to be aware of and rise above.
  • DuncanONeil 2012/06/17 16:07:09
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    We label everything!
  • Jack's Pearl 2012/06/17 16:06:01
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    Some people really need to make everyone fit into nice little simplistic boxes so they feel they are in control and know the world around them. Giving all credence to a label is ignorant in my opinion.
  • mark 2012/06/17 12:43:42
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    Placing a label on something is an identifier. For instance , I am an Athiest. For some here on SH this is a negative identifier and for some an immediate block or a label of hatred based on others of the same label they have been exposed to. I know a woman who immediately sees someone as a good person if they are Christian. But there are good and bad people of both identifiers. Some folks use labels to group together people they hate and attack them. It's easier that way. But the world isn't that simple. That's one of the reasons why my first friend was Sister Jean. I believe she truly understands this.
  • Sister ... mark 2012/06/17 15:03:01
  • kitkat42 2012/06/17 06:10:54
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    I think its just an ingrained human failing. We may try not to, but I don't think we can help it.
  • Sister ... kitkat42 2012/06/17 15:03:59
    Sister Jean
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    little kids don't know the difference til adults teach them there's difference
  • firebird 2012/06/17 05:47:15
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    Its a bad habit! We all do it.
    Sometimes its just a simple form of the way your brain catalogs things. Many don't mean it as rudeness or cruel but others are nothing but mean and cruel...depends on how you do it.
  • NoHandlebarsAttached 2012/06/17 04:35:59
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    Because we're asses.
  • beach bum 2012/06/17 03:01:53
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    we think that they fall into categories
  • Dick Nixon 2012/06/17 02:40:19
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    People are mean. It all goes back to the caveman days. UHG! He drags the "callgirl" by her hair to his cave and has his way. Lol. Joking of course but mean people suck.
  • anna.stinson.39 2012/06/17 02:04:49
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    I think it starts when we are growing up. We are labeled from the moment of birth, depending on the net worth of our parents and who they know. Everyone has a label. Then as we get older, we are in Jr high and high school and you have cliques and it gets worse. We are brought up and raised with labels. Just how society works.
  • Sister ... anna.st... 2012/06/17 15:04:36
    Sister Jean
    sad
  • Changeling 2012/06/17 02:03:46
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    for some it is habit. Others it is easier way to deal with people. Why put in the effort to get to know someone when you can label them and move on.
  • Jan Haskell 2012/06/17 00:51:02
    I think
    Jan Haskell
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    People seem to be afraid of anyone who doesn't agree with them on every level. Instead of reaching out and discussing, it's safer to just call names and run away.
  • Sister ... Jan Has... 2012/06/17 15:04:57
    Sister Jean
    agree
  • Missile Jan Has... 2012/06/17 18:45:31
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    Your right there Jan...
  • cjd 2012/06/16 23:06:40
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    you are absolutely right
  • Sister ... cjd 2012/06/16 23:10:00
  • Sister Jean 2012/06/16 22:43:15
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    it makes us feel superior
  • MidnightCowboy 2012/06/16 21:47:55
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    Dogs and cats never label anyone. They come right up to you and accept who you are. I wish all humans could be the same way.
  • Sister ... Midnigh... 2012/06/16 21:49:21
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    agree maybe that's why I like them better than people
  • Jan Has... Sister ... 2012/06/17 00:54:03
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    Yeah ... and if they don't like someone, there is probably a real reason :)
  • lonewolf 2012/06/16 21:45:05
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    people use labels to justify their way of thinking. sad but true and they are so wrong on a lot of counts.
  • Mark In Irvine 2012/06/16 21:28:59
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    cuz people don't come pre-labeled from the store. joking aside, labeling people helps us know how much to get involved in someone else's personal issues and problems: we tend to prefer people like ourselves and to shun people we perceive as being unlike ourselves. the reality, of course, is that there are some terrific people who are not like ourselves and we do them and ourselves a disservice by pre-judging them.
  • EliteAmongOutcasts 2012/06/16 21:28:43
  • bags the Indigenous Guru 2012/06/16 21:27:49
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  • Sister ... bags th... 2012/06/16 21:28:54
  • FencerCat 2012/06/16 21:27:31
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    Some people have a need to put others into categories. I defy categories. Don't put me in a box. I don't even think inside the box.

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