Why do people mock virgins?

XRenX 2012/09/21 22:23:34
they seem to make fun of virgin men and women as well. What if it's BY CHOICE? If the person like say Tim Tebow stands up with what the believe in and has the will power not to give in.

(Note: I am not saying that others don't have will power, I assume most people don't see the point of waiting b/c they have different priorities than others)

I have been laughed at but I don't care much b/c I don't fall for peer pressure or anything.
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  • munda 2012/09/21 22:32:23
    I am still a virgin and I could care less of another person's opinion on the matter. Most of the criticism has to do with people not feeling like they are alone in making their mistakes, they want you to experience the same mistakes they did.

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  • ThinkAboutIt! 2012/09/25 14:46:39
    Guilt. Jealousy. Embarrassment.
  • FortunaVeritas 2012/09/24 03:11:39 (edited)
  • XRenX Fortuna... 2012/09/24 16:22:50 (edited)
    I am not condemning others, that isn't my business what they do. lol like non virgins are deemed worthless, really? What the heck kind of religions did you hear about? It isn't just for my faith anyway. I just want to be close to and married to the dude, if I am seen as a freak for wanting love/marriage and not a booty call or anything else, then so be it. Thank you for commenting.
  • Fortuna... XRenX 2012/09/24 22:23:16 (edited)
    Evangelical Christians, Catholics, Mainline Protestants, Eastern Orthodox, Orthodox and Ultraorthodox Jews, Muslims both Sunni and Shi'a, Mormons, Fundamentalist "Christians."

    And it's not so much "hear about" as "hear straight from the horse's mouth" when it's not "heard from the pulpit and pews because I lived amongst them and visited their churches."

    And if that's really the sum of your reasoning, then you shouldn't object to sex within the confines of a committed, non-married relationship, so whatever.
  • XRenX Fortuna... 2012/09/24 22:28:49 (edited)
    I am none of those things you mentioned, just to point out. In reality, no one should be judged and everyone, even Christians (obviously haha) is very judgmental unfortunately. We should live and let live, but this is no utopian society. Oh, when I say "hear about", I mean "aware of the existence of said religion", something along those terms.
  • cyntray... Fortuna... 2013/03/15 19:39:12
    cyntrayl j.
    Well, I waited by choice and it has nothing to do with religion, I don't even believe in religion :-)
  • Jan 2012/09/23 19:59:42
    Because they are either stupid or wish they had waited for the right person to come along and are envious of those that do.
  • Ayushee 2012/09/23 19:30:04
    Only idiots does that.
  • Culgan 2012/09/23 13:28:32
    Few reasons, people are idiots. They're also jealous because most people threw it away and deeply regret losing it to the person they did. They probably wish they had the restraint to wait.
  • Anna 2012/09/23 03:57:46
    I really don't know, I don't get why people, particularly girls, who are more experienced are also mocked. I just don't see the point in judging people by their number of bed partners. I've met some very nice "sluts" and some very mean virgins, and vice-versa.
  • bye 2012/09/22 19:39:28
    It's an easy target. They have high morals and want to save something for their special one so easy to mock the 1 percenter's isn't it?
  • adeenmckenziekennedy 2012/09/22 19:06:27
  • XRenX adeenmc... 2012/09/22 20:18:33
    I am 19 and still a virgin, ppl wonder why....it's b/c I want to be.
  • adeenmc... XRenX 2012/09/22 22:43:22
  • ehrhornp 2012/09/22 18:01:14
    I don't mock virgins but I sure don't respect them. Kinda feel sorry for them as they probably have a low sex drive.
  • XRenX ehrhornp 2012/09/22 20:17:43 (edited)
    Or will power (for religious reasons) Do you respect prostitutes or sexually generous women? Everyone is different.
  • ehrhornp XRenX 2012/09/22 20:26:58
    Actually since you are only 19, I don't think you are all that much different from the norm. my daughter lost her virginity at 18. Now if you are still a virgin at 30...

    I neither respect or condemn prostitutes or sexually generous women.
  • XRenX ehrhornp 2012/09/22 20:32:27
    Ok. Thanks for answering.
  • Wonder ... ehrhornp 2012/09/23 06:34:34
  • amy 2012/09/22 02:56:22
    because they are jealous
  • Thomas ... amy 2012/09/23 00:34:44
    Thomas Accola
    exactly, they remember how they lost their's and regrete every minute of it and would love to be in your shoes and have the chance to loose it to some one they love instead of a one night stand.
  • Bibliophilic 2012/09/22 01:58:31 (edited)
    They have regret or feel like shaming someone for their personal choice.

    Did you know that there are some people who don't even like sex or want to lose their virginity? Yes, they exist. I say, let's let everyone make their own personal choices and not fault them for it.

    It's none of anyone's business, but your own honestly- unless you have a partner and are ready to share.
  • NotTargetMaterial 2012/09/22 01:44:18 (edited)
    I make fun of people with aids and warts all over their genitals pushing a baby carriage and spending money on the kid that they could be spending on a vacation.

    How is not sleeping with a stranger and having another person seeing you naked.(embarassing) a bad thing?

    NO ONE knows what I look like naked except me, my doctor, my 4th grade teacher, and my mail lady who I didn't expect to leave a package for me in my backyard one summer afternoon...
  • XRenX NotTarg... 2012/09/22 01:56:28
    LOL agreed.
  • ehrhornp NotTarg... 2012/09/23 16:56:09
    How do you know the person pushing a baby carriage has warts all over their genitals? Are you still a virgin? Would expect lovers to see you naked.
  • NotTarg... ehrhornp 2012/09/24 20:50:10
    I'm just saying the more you sleep with people, the more likely its gonna catch up with you and eventually you will be having cuts all over you.
  • ehrhornp NotTarg... 2012/09/24 23:13:11
    May be true in general but a person who is knowledgeable about birth control and STDs will have fewer problems than someone who is ignorant about such issues and was taught just say no. Just does not work.
  • NotTarg... ehrhornp 2012/09/25 01:24:00
  • ehrhornp NotTarg... 2012/09/25 03:01:19
    It is sad that relatively few exist. That is why I support planned parenthood as they work to increase knowledge in the world. But far right wackos get all twisted out of shape at the mention of planned parenthood. Heaven forbid that women control their own body.
  • NotTarg... ehrhornp 2012/09/25 18:06:13
    Apparently they CAN'T control their body if they end up at planned parenthood, lol.
  • ehrhornp NotTarg... 2012/09/25 18:07:48
    That is the point. No one can control anything without knowledge. Planned Parenthood provides that knowledge.
  • XRenX ehrhornp 2012/09/25 19:38:39
    They should be taught to control certain urges until mature enough to handle the responsibilities and consequences, b/c if planned parenthood has to teach them anything, it's a little late..
  • ehrhornp XRenX 2012/09/25 19:54:49
    That would be part of overall sex education. Planned parenthood fills a big part in the health care of women, particularly poor women.
  • rereblue 2012/09/22 00:02:34
    Peer Pressure can be quite persuasive, but not all give into it. It's a choice, but for every choice that is made SOMEONE JUST HAS TO CRITICIZE IT. I'm a vegetarian, people have to make fun of me because of my choice to not eat meat. There will always be people who have to pick on other people to feel cool.
  • violeteyz 2012/09/21 23:41:37
    Because they've lost something they can never regain and they resent you for keeping it,its called envy.
  • XRenX violeteyz 2012/09/21 23:44:05
    Well if it meant that much to them, why didn't they just keep it? lol low will power?
  • violeteyz XRenX 2012/09/21 23:49:31
    Absolutley you are strong they are weak it really is that simple,dont let them influence you,you can have what they've got anytime but they cant have what youve got and that eats away at them,its called regret...
  • bye XRenX 2012/09/22 19:40:52
    So you still got yours huh?
  • XRenX bye 2012/09/22 20:19:29 (edited)
    Yes :) I am not here to say virgins or non virgins are better, I just wish ppl wouldn't disrespect us.
  • bye XRenX 2012/09/22 22:43:03
    A lot of jealousy along with the mocking no doubt of that I'm sure!

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