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Why do people "make fun" of those who are virgins but look down on those who are sexually active?

carrotcat 2012/07/19 18:32:46
I'll try to explain the question. Some(or most) think that 29/18/35/ year old virgins are just... weird. They even made a show about it- Virgin Diaries. But if a person is promiscuous, or lost their virginity at a certain age; that person is called names and judged. I hope you understand what I'm trying to explain and say. I'm just wondering.
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  • Claise 2012/07/23 12:05:02
    Claise
    +1
    it is just that in general people like to have an opinion about the behavior of other people, preferably in the easiest possible way
  • SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 2012/07/20 01:29:55
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    +1
    because they're sad that they didn't wait for that special someone and feel that they have to pick on those that are waiting for the right person
  • carrotcat SebaThe... 2012/07/20 06:52:25
    carrotcat
    +1
    Thanks
  • laydeelapis 2012/07/19 21:35:10
    laydeelapis
    +2
    Yeah, I get what you mean. Annoys the hell out of me too. It's because people can't be satisfied with anything. They can't get their heads out of other peoples' genitals and just mind their own damn business!

    I think every person should do it when THEY feel ready and want to. Whether that is at 13 or 30, it doesn't matter. It's their body. As long as it's consensual and safe, why do other people care??
  • carrotcat laydeel... 2012/07/20 06:52:38
    carrotcat
    +1
    Bravo. I like that answer
  • ANGEL of DEATH 2012/07/19 19:11:38
    ANGEL of DEATH
    +1
    Im a virgin and proud of it but I want to hav sex but is waiting for my bf to make the first move
  • carrotcat ANGEL o... 2012/07/19 19:36:11
    carrotcat
    You should wait when you're ready, not for your bf makes the first move. :)
  • ANGEL o... carrotcat 2012/07/19 19:57:06
    ANGEL of DEATH
    +1
    Im ready hes not...he said he is NEVER gonna be ready... :(
  • carrotcat ANGEL o... 2012/07/19 20:06:40
    carrotcat
    Well you should talk to him about it, maybe he's afraid. Or you can just wait; after all, you're only 16.
  • ANGEL o... carrotcat 2012/07/19 20:23:36
    ANGEL of DEATH
    +1
    So im legal now
  • carrotcat ANGEL o... 2012/07/20 06:52:49
    carrotcat
    What?
  • ANGEL o... carrotcat 2012/07/20 06:55:24
    ANGEL of DEATH
    +1
    When ur 16 its legal to have sex
  • carrotcat ANGEL o... 2012/07/20 07:21:10
    carrotcat
    Well. I'm not sure on that, but I think it depends on what country you live in. :)
  • sockpuppet 2012/07/19 19:00:20
    sockpuppet
    +1
    Most teens (by far) really don't have enough experience to be comfortable with the subject, so they make jokes about it. That way, they can tell themselves they're "like everyone else" who's snickering without really knowing why.

    A lot of adults who think this sort of thing is funny, only laugh because "everyone else" is. Most sex jokes aren't really that funny, because they're all so similar. Some, of course, are hilarious-- but the rest are either about "doing it" or "not doing it".

    Bear in mind that this exact same thing has been going on for thousands of years, all around the globe. If you're teased about this some time, the best way to handle it is to give them a "what a moron" look, and carry on without getting upset. They might not show it right away, but they'll know how immature and unimpressive they are. :O)
  • carrotcat sockpuppet 2012/07/19 19:38:40
    carrotcat
    +1
    The most concise answer I have so far. Thank you :)
  • Sister Jean 2012/07/19 18:48:02
    Sister Jean
    +1
    no idea I don't
  • HarleyCharley 2012/07/19 18:38:48
    HarleyCharley
    +1
    why worry what people think...
  • carrotcat HarleyC... 2012/07/19 19:36:51
    carrotcat
    I don't; I'm just curious.
  • Rebel Uke 2012/07/19 18:36:54
    Rebel Uke
    +2
    The only person's sex life people need to concern themselves with are their own and their partners.
  • Rebellion 2012/07/19 18:36:04
    Rebellion
    +1
    Because those people have lost their virginity, but don't do sex that much.
    They're jealous of the virgins, and disgusted by the active ones.

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