Why are people proud of being virgins?

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It's a dumb choice.....Really. Rape is another issue entirely..

Well so is getting pregnant when you're old. And yes, I'm aware of that. ;

the pregnant one,they are going to make fun of the pregnant one

What??

answering your ?

My apologies, I am confused with what you were saying in your message. If you are up for re-explaining, I'd love to hear it :)

i was just answering your ? about what you asked

Yes (:

Why not? Nothing wrong with that. But they shouldn't shove their thoughts about that down others throats and vise versa.

>.> I never said there was anything wrong with it. I was just wondering why, because personally, I don't get it. I agree with your second statement.

That's cool. I was just answering your question as it was posed. No offense taken or anything like that. :)

Okay.
I just read back what I replied and it sounded a little defensive, so sorry if it came off that way.

Because we live in a hypocritical society that demonizes a natural instinct, while simultaneously exploiting it at times, for monetary profit?

Just a wild guess.

natural instinct ROCKS!

In this day and age it isn't easy to remain a virgin. The longer you can hold out the better, especially for girls. Some believe in waiting until they are married, which is their choice. I always think it has to suck. If they are religious most likely they are not aware of a lot. When you are waiting, it's hard. You have more discipline and self control .

Why?

Well, just because something's hard doesn't mean it's necessarily something to be proud of.

Because it takes discipline and self control. For girls every year they put off having sex is 1 year less in their life that they are being used. You have sex and then the using starts. I kinda see that as being smart.

I disagree with the whole thing of virginity as being this big special thing, saving it as a
gift. People who look at it that way are in for a let down. When you lose your virginity the skies don't open and angels aren't singing. For men it might, but not for girls.

How is having sex being used?

Methinks you may regret asking that question.

So many folks have major psychological issues about biological functions.

"Man is the only animal that blushes. Or needs to. "

~Mark Twain.

I have no problem with biological functions. Sex is not a bad thing.

I will make it short. A man does not have to like you to sleep with you. If they don't even like you, then???? It shows how much sex means to them. The are in an amusement park and they want to hop on every ride and YOU are the ride. When the ride is over, they just hop on another ride. You don't even get a ticket, the ride is free.

ALL men think and behave exactly like that, and ALL women are just that easily manipulated and/or naive, huh?

Duly noted.

You have a good one, I'm done.

If they're all like that avoiding them would be a better option....haha

Seriously.

It speaks volumes about a person if they feel like every sexual act is about being 'used.'

Try to have compassion for them, they've been conditioned to believe that all sexual activity is filthy (especially if they're female) especially if it's outside of marriage. This ignorant sentiment will affect their entire life if they cannot divorce themselves from it. I was raised in this manner, I know.

I said I do not think sex is dirty or shameful and only for marriage.

But... you also just stated that 'men are using women' when they have sex; you compared it to a seedy amusement park ride, and then implied the whole act was utterly meaningless to men.

That seems contradictory to the point you just made.

Again this conversation is going in circles, so I decline to continue it.

My comment to Bibli was a general one, not directed at you personally; apologies if you thought it was.

Good day.

I understand it going in circles. I needed to clarify that seedy was no part of what I said. The amusement park actually meant the world. As in this whole world is an amusement park with lots of rides (girls) and men go on every ride they possibly can. But I believe you knew that. You just wanted to give me a hard time. Same with your friend. Some will actually not understand what I was saying, as you showed me, and it needed to be explained.

I'm not 'giving you a hard time'; that was my personal take on what you wrote.

Think whatever you like; as I said earlier, I'm done.

Now for the last time, good day.

Ha!

*lolz

I agree with you and I understand what you're saying. There are a lot of guys out there, not all of them, that just want sex, it doesn't mean a thing to them. If one gal says no, they go to one that will say yes.

I think it's a good thing not to have sex until marriage, save yourself for that special guy and that special night. That's just my opinion and it worked for me. We all have to choose what's best for us.

Thank you. I think a lot of women out there will understand and the men really should too! After all, I am talking about them. I think they don't like being exposed.

Waited until marriage, huh? Wow. I know many who waited. I am glad I didn't wait. I have had some really good sex. Being with different people I learned things. I didn't have a g-spot orgasm or a squirting orgasm until 2010. If I had not been with that guy it never would have happened. I had given up thinking it could ever happen to me. Then surprise!!! It was great.

A guy told me a long time ago, when I was like 20, that p*ssy is all over. He can be with you one day and another girl the same day. Sex is never going to keep a man with you.

TMI, dude.

true

I need to like someone or i don't get a hard-on... just syaing.

Why especially girls? In heterosexual relationships it takes one of each...

?????

If men are not given the same standard- there is no point (according to your logic). If women are told to be chaste, but men are MEN therefore they can do whatever they want- there's no point in staying 'pure'. It's useless if the standard only applies to only women.